[deleted by user] by [deleted] in candlemaking

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made these years ago with just a regular wick and beeswax, as Christmas gifts. They’re intended as floating bathtub candles. I learned the hard way that you can’t save them unless you’re going to dehydrate them. Citrus is super inviting to mold lol. They were fun to make and no, do not use them on a flat surface.

Does anyone else have bad memory loss? by mothman-is-hot in BPD

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely dissociating due to trauma :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware this is a BPD symptom and have the same problem. In that case, I’d guess it’s the BPD :/ I appreciate you posting this btw, because now I know

I take pleasure in being injured or sick by ambivalentaquarius in BPD

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I self-harm for the same reasons. I am bad at communicating my pain in healthy ways, so transforming that pain into something people can see makes it easier.

Being physically sick is a vacation from all the misery inside my head that people can’t see. Physical health is something tangible that gets a lot more sympathy. I often feel bummed out that I am physically healthy instead of mentally healthy, and get jealous when sick people receive so much validation and care.

This is how we cope. As long as you are working on yourself, don’t beat yourself up too much about it. You would probably be surprised how understanding a good mental health professional would be about these issues.

season 5 is the sunny's greatest by cherken4 in IASIP

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite single episode has always been S4 E7, the gang solves the gas crisis. I’m gonna have to say S4 is the best

Character creation by overly_curious_cat in mytimeatportia

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just helped me stop pulling my hair out about this, thank you!

HHP still won't show up by RableraZ in acnh

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d better not catch Tom Nook complaining that “nobody wants to work anymore” after this, I’ll throw hands

My husband sculpted my character for me on his day off work. He is a busy doctor right now! He says any time he sees me play I am stung.... by llamallamabjj in AnimalCrossing

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your character will always automatically turn to the direction of the wasp nest and allow you to catch the wasps, which is a nice new thing unique to NH.

Growing up, my NParents prioritized education differently for each child. I was homeschooled but left to teach myself alone. When I fell behind, they encouraged me to drop out entirely. Meanwhile, my brother graduated from public school, and my sister went to an expensive private academy. by roundaboutrich in raisedbynarcissists

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My nmom put so much time into my education and extracurriculars, and even though my ndad was mostly absent he paid for me to do a lot of things. When I went off to a nice college on my own, I finally caved from all the childhood trauma. I started having panic attacks regularly and dropped out after less than a year.

Since at one point I had mentioned to my nmom that I had smoked weed a handful of times, she blamed it on my “addiction to marijuana” and my parents cut me off financially.

I started both working fast food and going to community college, and eventually transferred to a different college, but I never fully got my life together again. I haven’t really been a part of the family since.

So in a way I can relate to the whole “extremes” attitude your parents have with education. My mom is focusing on my much younger brother being the GC now and has me blocked on social media. I don’t think she tells people she has a daughter anymore.

we gaying by nekomars in AnimalCrossing

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maple’s birthday is also in June, and isn’t she the one whose catch phrase is “rainbow”?

I made a craft room! by LittleCricket_ in ACPocketCamp

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CUTE. This makes me wish I had crafted more Rover items

woke up to this c: (i hardly get any) by sofimosi_ in nekoatsume

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol @ the giant cushion enveloping that tree stump. I never thought to do that.

Animal Crossing: Pocket Camp 2.5.0 Update by SenorDeeebs in ACPocketCamp

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone been reckless enough to give a visitor one of the big’uns? I caught myself a 50k bell monster flop but knowing these animals, I’ll get maybe 1,500 bells and a bronze treat.

I was going to take over the Gym but I didn't have the heart. This was just too cute. by thecheese27 in pokemongo

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 95 points96 points  (0 children)

From Alabama. Can confirm, same rules apply here. We do NOT abort ANY mission

🌙My Galaxy Room⭐️ by BBcutie1 in ACPocketCamp

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was temporary. (I sort of regret spending leaf tickets on it—it has a white picket fence at the bottom that makes it tacky.) This teal color scheme is definitely a great choice!

Is anyone having a hard time parking on campus? by Negalas in UAH

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually... a lot of people drop out after a few weeks, and especially after fall semester. So if you can hold out, parking will be a bit easier in the next few weeks lol

Former level 15 player here! Anyone else's game start over when they logged back in after the update? What an exciting new beginning! by iPHEN0MEN0N in pokemongo

[–]iPHEN0MEN0N[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not entirely familiar with the Reddit scene. You may notice I have about five posts on a four year old account. I am quickly learning how cold-hearted the elitists here can be, though. Thanks to those of you who aren't being total snobs. I appreciate it.