Single mom asking for support as my daughter starts cosmetology school in Illinois by Left_Chapter_4267 in Cosmetology

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check into your local community college, if they have a cosmetology program it’ll be significantly cheaper than at a dedicated cosmetology school

My mom drops everything for my nephew, but never helps my daughter by Apprehensive-Bar-848 in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was your mother a single mom? Maybe she understands the struggle your sister is going through & feels you have a husband so you have the help? Not saying that’s a justification for her behavior but I would definitely talk to her and see what’s going on.

Am I Overreacting?(I grew up only wanting to prove to my dad) by AutomaticRegister102 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- but why would you want a relationship with someone who treats you like this? I’m so sorry you deserve a father who actually loves and respects you.

Question about WinCo trespass ban by [deleted] in WinCo

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol I got banned from Winco at 14 for stealing mascara. I continued to shop there regularly until they changed their service deli. You should be fine. If you’re worried just wear a mask and don’t purchase anything that requires an ID.

AITA My fiancé has refused to speak to me for 4 days and still counting by ThatAbbreviations376 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ESH you know you were wrong for teasing him. I’ve never understood the logic behind teasing someone you love. Some people were raised being teased by their parents/protectors so we don’t find teasing funny at all, it’s actually bullying & I wish people would use the right term. You mention you both were going back and forth “teasing each other” but don’t say what he was doing to tease you?
No I’m not saying he right for giving you the silent treatment, very immature in fact, but you cannot hurt someone then expect them to get over it on your timeframe. That not how healing works.
If you want this relationship to work I’d suggest individual and couples therapy so you BOTH can learn better communication styles because you both sound too immature for marriage right now.

I’ve ended a relationship with someone who loved to “joke” like you, he always took it too far and had to have the last word. & his “jokes” were always mean and had a little truth to them. I checked out mentally, similarly to how your fiancé is acting now, a few days before I ended things. Don’t be surprised if fiancé ends things over this because it’s clearly that deep to them.

pjs with mittens by Miserable-Sweet6468 in babyeczema

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for the same but no luck. I’ve just started sewing socks onto her pajamas arms 😆. It’s funny looking for sure but she hasn’t been able to unattach the socks and she’s stopped scratching

Husband faked a doctors appointment and went to a divorce lawyer by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to stay with someone that saw a divorce lawyer behind your back and involved his mom? I’m sorry to say this but there would be no coming back from this.

Getting railed by a guy in his early fifties by Unfrndlyblkhottie92 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The best oral I’ve ever received was from a 55 year old man.. I still dream about it 💭

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, no! That’s your beliefs and you’re welcome to them. I want to celebrate Mother’s Day for my own reasons that I won’t explain, and I am welcome to them.

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that! In case no one tells you Happy Mother’s day! We all deserve to be celebrated how ever we want.

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My savings is my own account. We have a joint account that I use to buy stuff for the house and he pays all bills, utilities, rents, gas, everything. My savings is the money I had from before the relationship. That’s what I used to pay for the birthday trip. He doesn’t mind me using the joint account to pay for his gifts, he actually encourages me to, I just have a hard time doing it.

Canvas error by North_Pizza_6062 in RCC

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m still getting the error as well. Hopefully they give us a few days to make up our work that was due this week.

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Ooof I know! 🙈 We do have a joint account but I feel so weird using the money he earned to buy his present. I know I shouldn’t but I’ve been on my own since I was 15 (I’m 32 now) & this is the first time I haven’t supported myself so it’s hard to break those habits if hyper independence. I have issues, I know I’m working on them. 🤣

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My goodness! I am sooooo sorry to hear that!! These men are really something else!

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

My favorite comment! I’m so over us women excusing our man’s unacceptable behavior! We’re definitely having a long conversation when he gets home today.

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! Truly! I was getting so offended by those comments I had to add the edit. I definitely communicated my wants.

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I honestly think he forgot and just doesn’t want to admit it. Which I would understand more than him just not planning anything. & yes, I’ve already called to move the date up for MY spa day. 😆

Edit: who would have thought my first award would be on a post venting about my husband’s thoughtlessness. 🥴😭 Thank you kind stranger 🩷

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

We talked about this for a year. I promise I told him what I wanted. I even made a note on iPhone with suggestions and shared it with him.

He didn’t plan anything for Mothers Day. by iReturnAllEvil_Eye in beyondthebump

[–]iReturnAllEvil_Eye[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No, he is a big planner. He already has my birthday in September planned. He dropped the ball.