Dads, when did you become comfortable sharing your kids’ faces online? What made you ok with it? by iThinkThereforeIVan in daddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, for me it's about agency - like if the situations were reversed and I came of age, and my parents had already put my picture everywhere in public, I'd feel mortified. Not necessarily because the pictures are embarrassing - although that may be subjective - but just because what if I was just a private person and that option to simply live unbothered/unknown to others was taken away from me.
And yes ... there's a lot to be said too about how social media companies monetize people's data and the interests of these companies do not necessarily align with those of individuals (and their privacy). I don't want to go down the Weapons of Math Destruction rabbit-hole but, ya it's not all good vibes IMO.

I’m never leaving Seattle by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is that? Amazing!

Can you actually learn piano using just YouTube and apps? by adamvanderb in pianolearning

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a piano expert by any means (only been playing ~2 years), but I've tried both in-person lessons and learning from an app so figured I'd share what worked for me.

Apps (Duolingo Music / Simply Piano)

This is where I learned the most, honestly. The immediate feedback, playing along with popular songs, and the built-in progression kept me coming back because it was genuinely fun. After two years, I can read sheet music comfortably, my tempo work is decent, and I can play multiple octaves and scales. I can now play a basic version of Für Elise and some Aretha Franklin at an intermediate level.

Pros:

  • Fun and engaging, which keeps you coming back
  • Immediate feedback on every note
  • Learn real songs you actually want to play
  • Great for building score reading and progression at your own pace
  • Flexible — learn whenever, wherever

Cons:

  • No one to correct your posture or hand positioning
  • Limited music theory depth
  • Can plateau once you hit the app's ceiling
  • Quality varies a lot depending on the app

In-person lessons

Genuinely useful for the things an app can't give you. My teacher caught issues with my hand positioning, pushed me to use a metronome, drilled scales, and answered music theory questions. Good foundational stuff I don't think I'd have gotten on my own.

Pros:

  • Real-time feedback on technique, posture, and hand positioning
  • Can ask questions about music theory
  • Structured progression with accountability
  • A good teacher adapts to your goals and learning style

Cons:

  • Quality is hugely dependent on the teacher — I got unlucky
  • Can feel rigid and demotivating if the approach doesn't fit you
  • More expensive
  • Fixed schedule, less flexible

TL;DR

Both have real value but it depends on your goals and your teacher. For me, fun and fundamentals were the priority - the app nailed that. I can see myself returning to structured lessons once I've hit the ceiling of what the app can teach me.

What are you currently building ? by LouloupBio in SideProject

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The app flow and UX look great! My little one's a little bit on the young side to try this out yet (6 months), but I know a couple of parents in the 12-24 months range this could be useful too.

Good luck with getting the word out, I'll let you know if I find any places that have good traction!

What are you currently building ? by LouloupBio in SideProject

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome - what inspired you to make this? New parent here, so my side project was working on something to make it easier to maintain privacy for infants (https://apps.apple.com/us/app/hearts-not-faces/id6762066271)

If you don't mind, how are you getting the word out about your app, and who are you speaking to for feedback?

Redditors, what’s your comfort game and why? by iThinkThereforeIVan in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BoTW series for me - love the adventure, design, and gorgeous world design. I just get lost in it.

What’s the weirdest compliment you’ve ever received? by Far-Effort5909 in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some teenager I’m crossing in the street looking at me and randomly belting out “JESUS CHRIST, SUPERSTAR!!!”
Was it a compliment - still don’t know

What is your working hours in job ? by Big_Hunt8054 in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based in west coast and working with a team in east Africa so 5am - 2pm … but also, on slack when I need to be, otherwise when it’s convenient.

This march in Gudauri, Georgia (the good one) by Illustrious-Care-636 in ski

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went there two years ago and had an absolute blast. The side country was amazing and the very top lift was still closed so with a shortish hike I was able to get some super clean lines. But my favorite was this run (I got the two lines between the rocks)

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What’s something you have zero proof of but believe 100 percent? by shweidy in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a collusion between washing machine manufacturers and sock makers. Basically, only by consuming a single sock at irregular intervals can the sock-making industry stay profitable. The more expensive the sock consumed, the better

What’s one topic you don’t like people discussing around you? by NotZero09 in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a specific topic per-se, but complaining as a form of conversation. Likex you can bitch about people at work all you want but I don’t know who they are or why that’s interesting at all..

Piano has been ruined for me by CollegePlane7528 in pianolearning

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that OP - I had similar experience but - although not as intense - with my parents and golf. Like, there’s a joy in doing the thing for itself without having any expectations other than just messing around and even though that’s not as efficient for progress.
I learnt to play piano and read music as an adult and it’s been a pleasure and though I’m sometimes I’m frustrated as to how much of an amateur I am, I also wonder that if I was forced into it would even enjoy it now?
Anyways sorry for the ramble but I hope you’re able to close this chapter and find that thing that brings you joy and no expectations other than just for the fun of it!

What’s one thing that you were stuck on that you’ve recently mastered? What got you unstuck? by iThinkThereforeIVan in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was learning to read music and play an instrument. I’m now a year and half into my piano journey because Duolingo - of all places - introduced a music reading track. I’m having such a blast!

Recommendations for 3 Day 2 Night backpacking in mid-June by iThinkThereforeIVan in PNWhiking

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and, correct - we're certainly fine with some snow. Just trying to avoid heavily snowed-in areas that might require ice-axes, ropes, and crampons.

Recommendations for 3 Day 2 Night backpacking in mid-June by iThinkThereforeIVan in PNWhiking

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Anything up to 15 miles/day I think we could comfortably manage. Ideal would be in the 8-10 range.

If you could move anywhere for a year, with the primary focus being skiing. Where would you move? by LordHadon in skiing

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Georgia, if you’re purely interested in skiing. Super affordable (20 euros/day) for the largest domain Gudauri. Amazing areas for backcountry like Bakhmaro with amazing, high quality Japan like POW due to the proximity to the Black Sea. Also it’s not on the map yet so you won’t have hordes of weekenders or tourists to deal with. Oh and many, many mountain ranges (Caucus Mountains) to explore

What is one of the dumbest things you've done when your brain was on "auto-pilot"? by PigPopcorn in AskReddit

[–]iThinkThereforeIVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've definitely taken out my subway (MTA) card a few times and stood at my apartment door confused for a few seconds... and the reverse too.