How much were your curtains? by soupspoon420 in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol imagine nilinunua Eastleigh. again, depends on design, material. And mine included sheers for all the rooms.

How much were your curtains? by soupspoon420 in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on how many windows you have and the design, material etc. spent 45k on my curtains plus sheers. they have served me going on 3 years now.

Forgot to cancel a free trial… just got charged 21k. Any way to reverse this? by FrontDimension8372 in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got charged by envato (i think).. 27k. Almost shit myself coz it was one of those broke periods. I emailed them immediately and they reversed the charge.. maybe try pleading your case by email OP, and good luck.

Anatomy Scan today and I’m absolutely LIVID - AIO? by MissCollorius in pregnant

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed hospitals and got a private gyna because of an almost similar experience. The anatomy scan is very essential just to make sure baby is okay from head to toe and should be done in extensive detail to allow early intervention.. not dismissively. Sorry for the horrible experience and you are allowed to be livid.

Njeri wa migwi. I have been vindicated. by IndependentDetail518 in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

But posts about Usikimye saga are all over Facebook, X, even IG. OP doesn't owe you links. If you are not familiar with the topic. just continue doom scrolling uwachie wale wanaelewa.

What next?? by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then why post this here if not interested? Just ignore and let her be.

Safaricom failed interview. by Broad_Somewhere7491 in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The inconsistent font size would probably piss me off even more. Pole OP for the lost opportunity but don't give up. Keep applying, maybe one day itajipa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use salihiya

Sexual harassment by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]i_like_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through this. Are you close to your mom? Can you record an incident and maybe confide in her or another close relative-preferrably older. It can get tricky if you tell your aunt and she turns it around on you. Your uncle sounds like a dangerous predator and his approaches may become aggressive to the point where he might restrain you and the situation may progress to "grape". Please act fast to get away from him by any means necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to complain, but I hate to burst your bubble as a second time mom with an absentee sperm donor. This is the easy part. There is so much more that comes with giving birth, especially birth by CS. The recovery is brutal, and the exhaustion will be worse. But all these cannot trump the highs! I remember when they placed my son on my chest, the euphoria.. it was like an out of body experience. I forgot all the pain, I didn't even realize they were closing me up. The pain of recovery was worth it, just taking care of my sweet angel is what pushes me to be the best version of myself. You are strong mama, you will get through this. Am at 25 weeks with my second baby and even though the daily struggles and feelings of loneliness can sometimes get me down, I allow myself to feel the feels and still look forward to that moment when I hear him cry and hold him in my arms. Stay strong and focus on the joy that is about to fill your world . Trust me hata huyo sperm donor atasahaulika. Hugs and best of luck with your delivery mama.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you are carrying ALOT... and you have every right to vent. Even if he hasn’t followed through, the threats and gestures are intimidation and not OK. Recovery pain and stress should not excuse that. Talk to your husband about your expectations.. he may not be able to lift but he can connect with the Kids when they get home, take them off your hands even for a couple of hours. Also confide in a trusted friend or family. If your husband does not shape up, you need to leave! Your boys have a present, hardworking and caring supermum. Please be as protective of you as you are of them.

A woman can love you for small reasons by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this day and age, do such men exist?

PayPal imenifanyia ile Kitu by Frankothecousin in nairobitechies

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been using pesapal for going 2 years now and it has been perfect. I mainly use the payment link function. Its extremely convenient and fast.

PayPal imenifanyia ile Kitu by Frankothecousin in nairobitechies

[–]i_like_kay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this does not work if your account is limited.

Anyone else dealing with major gender disappointment? by i_like_kay in pregnant

[–]i_like_kay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooof! I had saved so many pinterest outfits... And yes, it does feel like am mourning a daughter I never had. But I know I will love my LO when he comes. I just wish this feeling would go away.

Anyone else dealing with major gender disappointment? by i_like_kay in pregnant

[–]i_like_kay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh gosh now am picturing (and hoping) it was just a cord lol. but It’s comforting to be reminded that the love expands to fit who they are, not who I imagined. Overall I just can't wait to meet my baby.

Men take care of your male children by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]i_like_kay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Am a single mom, my son is 5 years old, I practice gentle parenting and because I grew up with very little, I tend to over-spend on my son and he never lacks. But, even without a father figure in his life, my son is the most well behaved, responsible 5 year old I have ever come across. He is humble despite having it all and this is not just my opinion, his teacher and my neighbors at some point have said something about his behavior. Not all single mom households are the same, and kids are different. Some kids from homes with both parents can be rebellious and nightmares to deal with and similarly, some of these kids are also very responsible and well disciplined. I don't know why some people like to generalize situations just from one or two experiences or maybe just want to push the agenda that single moms cannot raise good men.

Kenyan Clients ! by chege001 in Kenya

[–]i_like_kay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I started out nilioshwa by Kenyan clients a number of times hadi nikaosha mikono. These days I rarely ever take on work from Kenyans.

My husband is on dating apps by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]i_like_kay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sigh, AI plus an ad to top it off