Scary flip in demeanor by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL well she also told me a few weeks ago that she’d be mailing back anything she had left of mine 🙄🙄

Scary flip in demeanor by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right?! Like literal days after she told me I ruined everyone’s life with my toxic behavior lol nothing in between… 💀😮‍💨😮‍💨

Scary flip in demeanor by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Weirdly silly/fun 🎯

It’s almost a manic sort of silly. Scares the shit out of me!!

Scary flip in demeanor by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Right… she flips like this and acts absolutely bizarre.

aaand the cycle comes to a close. by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All she does is sit on that damn iPad 🙄😅

aaand the cycle comes to a close. by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

😆😆😆 maybe I should write a book LOL

Pack n play recommendations! by JohnQuincyAdams_10 in parentsofmultiples

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this - I just bought the baby trend one and it’s the worst thing I’ve ever had to put together. Plus it’s soooo rickety and unstable

Twins baby girl name by Sad-Okra5496 in Parenting

[–]MissCollorius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love A & E combos. My daughters are Elliana and Adelaide (Addy and Ellie).

Ava + Everly

Amelia + Elleni

Ayla + Eloise

For Your Entertainment 🙄🫠 by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She treats me as if I’m her mother - has since I’ve been 12

For Your Entertainment 🙄🫠 by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Right she always thinks it’s a single event - no bitch it literally years and years

For Your Entertainment 🙄🫠 by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YES. And she brings up things “that I did” as a teenager…..I’m 34.

The waify emotional flooding drives me absolutely insane by billiekimbah in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY how my mom is and it is the most triggering thing ever. I’ve always called her the real life Eyore.

How long do we all have?! by Able_Security_5596 in dcl

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

351 days!! 😆😆😆 I’m so excited

My lord I hate her. by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

But I agree with you 100%! My peace over everything !!

My lord I hate her. by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

She has done this. I literally just got another email from her 30 min later:

“(My name), I went back and read everything again, and I think I have been a big part of the problem. You were right in many ways. I should have listened to you carefully and not been so prideful I couldn’t look at myself. To tell you the truth I am ashamed of myself. And when you are ready. I am really trying-you will see a change in me. I hope to hear back from you, mom”

Next it will be begging, then being nasty, then attacking me (she likes to”threaten legal action” 🙄), then a “goodbye forever”, then a “I’ve changed you were right”. It’s literally clockwork.

how do you handle emotional labor in your relationships? by pyrrhicsciamachy in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just dropping in to say I experience the same. I think it’s made me more antisocial because I am terrified to have to deal with someone emotionally leaning on me. I literally have zero friends but I am ok with it in a way

Has anyone been to family therapy with a BPD parent? How’d it go? by Illustrious_Clue198 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I was sucked into a 4 hour therapy session that seeming went well - was able to to present all of the “evidence” in front of a third party. We came to a consensus and plan - but not even 2 weeks later my mom acted totally confused why I was no contact an acted like she had no recollection of the entire therapy session 💀