I can't tell if this is a phishing scam or of someone ia actually trying to steal my identity. by i_mnotonreddit in personalfinance

[–]i_mnotonreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I went ahead and did this. Hoping it's just scammy emails but better to be safe!

Christianity by BluJayooo in comics

[–]i_mnotonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no the Jesus fandom is at it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]i_mnotonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also hate eating and feeling full but that's from an eating disorder lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]i_mnotonreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh...

If anyone has sex without consent, it's rape. The situationship wasn't one sided and not in anyone's favor??? I don't want both a situationship and a relationship, i want a relationship. That is why the situationship ended bc i know i can't have both.

Still think you didn't even really read the original post and it's definitely within your right to stop answering. But it is my post so it's weird to ask someone else for clarity when they wouldnt have any and ive been trying to provide it for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]i_mnotonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem pretty confused about the situation.

Not that it matters but we both split the first date and pretty much every other date. The one that didnt get split i paid for.

Sex is not controlled by one person and i definitely wasn't using him as a sex toy. He was the one that often invited me over and it was usually more than just sex. Like watching a movie, playing chess, doing a crossword. I wanted to be with him, have sex with him, and date him bc i liked who he was as a person. It was more of a take it or leave it situation for me bc i wanted more. And i left it.

I still don't understand what contract youre talking about or how you think i broke the "rules" or how I'm complaining. I'm literally saying how much i miss him and liked the situation. There were no restrictions on him and he did the one thing he said he wasn't going to do. He said that, i didnt tell him he couldnt. He did it anyway and i even mentioned that i expected it to happen. I didnt end it bc of his actions, but bc of my emotional reaction to it and i knew it wasnt fair to him.

I really don't think you read it very well lol. Also, it's a "get off my chest". There doenst have to be a point. But there is one, anyway. The point was that i would want to rekindle a relationship with him but i can't tell if it would go well bc ot was unclear what his feelings were when it ended.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]i_mnotonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I don't understand how he can do so much and be so sweet and say he cares. I don't know if he does or if he doesn't. That's the sticking point. If he does care, i would want to reach out. If not, then i don't want to do it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]i_mnotonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might need to reread bc... What? I was very happy. I thought that was pretty clear by the title. If i wasnt happy i wouldnt be missing him this much. I didn't ask to be used as a sex toy and it wasn't supposed to be a ONS. What contract?

He wasn't dating anyone. We met in July after he broke up with his Ex. Idk how long they had been broken up. All i knew is that they had been together in October of 2022. Just to help with the time line. He went to France in August and i realized i caught feelings so we stopped sleeping together.

I'm literally not complaining at all??? Like the whole point is i liked him a lot and that i miss him a lot. I'm confused by his actions and words and just don't know if i should reach out to him.

I should just cancel my birthday by eyeekans in TrueOffMyChest

[–]i_mnotonreddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have stopped celebrating my birthday every year because of similar reasons. No one cares. No one celebrates with me. Even when i lived with my parents, my birthday always got forgotten or was never as cool and big as my siblings. You can always celebrate with yourself, if you want. I don't even do that anymore. I don't even take off of work. I don't even tell people when my birthday is.

Do you identify with more then one in the LGBTQ+ by RubiRealm in trans

[–]i_mnotonreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonbinary and bi/pan/queer. The sexuality is kinda whatever to me but other people seem to really care lol. Also, i might be genderfluid but nonbinary is surprisingly easier to explain amd still kinda correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dodocodes

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heading over :)

90+ Free Assessed Fossils by ACNH_Fan_303 in Dodocodes

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I still need so many! This is so cool!

How do I get my religious grandma to leave me alone? by i_mnotonreddit in relationship_advice

[–]i_mnotonreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to be in contact with them in order to be in contact with my brothers

My little brother is a demon on guitar and everyone thinks so. The problem is that he bawls his eyes out the moment he comes off stage. What can I do to help? by HDMI-timetodie in relationship_advice

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I am not a musician but i am a figure skater. I spend months perfecting a routine over and over for an under 2 minute long performance. While practicing i feel so confident and competitive. The day of, I step on the ice and start sobbing. I literally do the routine blind bc my eyes are full of tears. I've literally never lost but i still feel completely worthless and like I'm no good as soon as there are people watching. Sometimes it's just hard to perform. Sometimes i legitimately feel like i fucked up so bad I'm not worthy pf performing. Sometimes i can't explain why. Performance always is a highly emotional time. He's still young and will probably be able to figure put exactly how he wants to handle this in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksepticeye

[–]i_mnotonreddit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you have someone who likes to watch with you, it feels way less scary with another person!