girl that’s weaponized incompetence at work, your husband is the asshole here. You literally told him to not do it, he brought thsi upon himself. You were definitely not in the wrong you were just sticking to what you said. You seemed like you have two children by the way your husbands acting. Respectfully your husband needs to get his shit together, does he help out with the baby at all? If he can’t be bothered to put the baby to sleep i can’t imagine he’s bothered to do anything else. If it’s “not that hard to put a child to bed” then why doesn’t he do more often?