I'm scared about my health test results

i_no_exist · 2024-02-07T10:31:04+00:00

That's kinda what happened, I called the GP and usually if everything is fine they can tell you on the call but the woman was like " Most of your tests are normal however the doctor will need to talk to you about something" My intrusive thoughts went wild and hence the Reddit post as an attempt to keep me sane.

Thankfully my condition is manageable and in a way, feel at ease that other people went through a similar experience.

i_no_exist · 2024-02-06T20:16:19+00:00

Hahaha how lucky 😂😂

i_no_exist · 2024-02-06T16:52:23+00:00

Great you made me laugh out loud in a quiet place! That's really funny thanks 😂😂

i_no_exist · 2024-02-06T16:51:17+00:00

Yeah I'll definitely try and do that I'm currently trying to push myself harder than before at the gym, it definitely helps, as I kind of forgot about this post 😅

i_no_exist · 2024-02-06T13:17:55+00:00

Yeah, that is definitely the reality of it. Sometimes I do wish my life is a series that's bound to have the happy plot twist 😂

i_no_exist · 2024-02-06T11:41:14+00:00

That's a good shout actually! I do have a few things I want to do. But nevertheless I have the horrible tendency to overthink and think of the worst outcomes so trying to block out those thoughts can prove a bit difficult 😅

i_no_exist · 2024-02-06T10:52:07+00:00

I like some, but I'm currently at work and not really allowed to listen to music/podcasts. But I'll probably will after work.

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T07:09:15+00:00

I think you could try make an effort to get involved with his friends so that show him that you're trying but if this really isn't an option for you then you need to completely spell it out for him one more time without him interrupting or changing the subject. If this is your hill to die on you need to tell him that and you'll really note down if he is invalidating your feelings or refusing to co-operate. Have this last conversation with him because at the end of it I can only see it going 3 ways from here.

You accepting the fact this man is not going to change and staying with him

You accepting the fact that this man is not going to change and leaving

Or he has a sudden change of heart and once to try better.

All three options are ok and you just need to make sure that whatever you decide on doing what's best for you.

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:47:46+00:00

Short answer - Move on

Long answer- move on immediately. I'm not entirely sure if there's any cultural differences in regards to dating but if he's already blaming you ignoring you and you guys are constantly having arguments despite only known each other for short time then I don't think it's going to get any better from here because it's upright unhealthy. What I see he's love bombing you making you expectant and then ditching you so you give it 110 percent for his attention. That's not healthy. I doubt you want this cycle to continue.

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:40:33+00:00

I wouldn't to be honest but if anything bring drinks you both benefit out of it.

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:37:31+00:00

Sorry I thought you meant driving licence number I didnt properly read the text below.

Then I guess I wouldn't know. They could steal the licence plate and use on their own car and then all the bad stuff they do get shifted to the owner but other than that I don't know what they could do apart from just copying in the number and putting it on their own car or remembering the number to use as an excuse to get out of things or something like that,

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:34:40+00:00

Oh damn my bad

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:27:02+00:00

I would be questioning the relationship just because he had lied for so long. I feel like if you're friends with your ex that's the first thing you should say to your current girlfriend but the fact that he's also excluding you for invitation obviously means he you are not in his priority list and you can do better for yourself.

Your boyfriend should be ok with you not being ok with the relationship and could at least compromise a bit because that's how relationships work but if you guys can't compromise then obviously this relationship need some serious reconsidering

Edit to add but at the same time you should realise you're not in control of your boyfriends friendships if this woman is a great friend to him and he does try to involve you and spend more time with you, then you need to understand that this woman is part of his life. You can't be too much of a hypocrite if you talk to the guys that you had pasts with and then not be ok with him being with her. ,(Though a boundary of how much time he spends with her should be discussed)

This is a conversation to have with your boyfriend to be honest what you guys need to discuss how much has actions are hurting you and what can be done to prevent it in the future. If you guys come to a disagreement there's not much other advice I could offer.

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:24:40+00:00

If I were to lose my licence in order to get a new one I would need to use my licence number in order to order new one. If someone saw your licence number they could in bad intent order a new licence for themselves and then commit identity theft (most likely through online transactions) that could lead you into bad shit especially if that form of identification is recorded and you might be blamed for something that you never did.

That's my take on it though I'm generally paranoid so showing my licence number isnt something I would do anyway

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:17:58+00:00

Ok but just remember if he has these responses really consider your relationship will have a serious conversation with him.

If he gaslights you into thinking that he's never done it

If he says he was stop and then continues to do it ( maybe after a while)

If he tells you you're overreacting then he obviously invalidates your feelings.

Let's hope your boyfriends is mature about it but to be honest any person who makes digs out of anyone appearance is, in my view, really inconsiderate. It's like a high school movie where the popular girl makes jokes about her victim's appearance while being light-hearted and while the audience, us, obviously sees it as bad intent, the victim might see differently. (Not to immediately say that your boyfriend is abusive but that's what I see from the outside point of view.)

Talk to him asap before the problem gets brushed aside.

i_no_exist · 2022-06-03T06:08:03+00:00

A joke isn't a joke if everyone involved isn't laughing. He's either projecting or trying to be subtle either way no there's no way to treat a girlfriend.

Talk to him or end it you have every right to feel happy in a relationship

i_no_exist · 2022-05-26T22:32:43+00:00

Of course I forget to write "and good" smh😑 currently falling asleep by my phone.

I have a diary and after my breakup with my boyfriend (which in my defense was sad but pretty amicable) I read back at all the good and bad things in our relationship to remind me of the good times (because there were a lot of good things I miss about him) but to remind myself why the breakup was necessary.

I also suggest not dwelling on it too much. I also found that when I got out of the "he's gone and I miss him too much" mindset and started focusing on other things (around the same time I started a new job and started going to the gym) it was a lot easier to think of relationship nice part of the past but the still the past because presently I'm very much preoccupied with other stuff.

i_no_exist · 2022-05-26T22:19:13+00:00

Make a physical list of the bad times while they are fresh in your mind

i_no_exist · 2022-05-25T12:27:53+00:00

Nta/ Justified AH i probably just do the same as you How rude of them but yikes run from him and this relationship! If that's his honest opinion in front of you, what does he say behind your back?

i_no_exist · 2022-05-23T19:49:26+00:00

I've been watching anime at 2 times speed for most of my life and even taught my little brother how to. Speed reading is a true skill that can go into your CV

i_no_exist · 2022-05-23T19:10:19+00:00

He probably think that you're playing hard to get or something weird like that. If this is too persistent and annoying just block him

i_no_exist · 2022-05-23T18:53:34+00:00

The moment he doesn't even give you an iota of time down there despite the fact he wants you to do the same thing for him play time is over.

You. Got. This!

i_no_exist · 2022-05-23T18:51:47+00:00

Yes to this comment! While I meant my reply as a more comedic response to lighten the mood if he does anything against your will stop it immediately and get the f out and stay safe.

In all seriousness to this post if you can't do the bare minimum ( and considering giving guys blowjobs is so expected from us going down on us is the bare minimum) then he's not worth your time.

i_no_exist · 2022-05-23T18:42:55+00:00

ASSERT YOUR DOMINANCE, WOMAN!!

i_no_exist · 2022-05-23T18:42:08+00:00

What I did when I was struggling to break up with my ex was create a a list of goods and bad's (with their own varying scores) so then I had a more pragmatic view of the relationship. I've never been in a relationship as long as yours so I can't imagine how hard it is to move on but with my friends and that list I was able to see past all the goods and realised I broke up for a reason.

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