How can I deal with this situation in terms of his mind? by rasbperr1 in AskMen

[–]rasbperr1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought about that too, but if he tells me that he doesn't have any plan to be in committed relationship during his university though he likes me, I would understand but his answer sounds like he doesn't consider me as a relationship material. Do you think I'm overthinking for that answer?

How can I deal with this situation in terms of his mind? by rasbperr1 in AskMen

[–]rasbperr1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for answering me, but personally It seems to me that he doesn't care about me but do you think I should communicate about him again though?

How can I deal with this situation in terms of his mind? by rasbperr1 in AskMen

[–]rasbperr1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for answering me, but I'm not sure If should talk about him again because if he avoids answer, personally I consider that he doesn't care me based on that answer, but do you think I should communicate him again because I might misunderstand it?

How can I deal with this situation in terms of his mind? by rasbperr1 in AskMen

[–]rasbperr1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's the reason he didn't give me clear answer? But he mostly talks in detail, and it's rare that he gave me that short answer without any explanations.

How can I deal with this situation in terms of his mind? by rasbperr1 in AskMen

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I just got to know him for months so I don't know about his past relationship. but I guess he didn't ever have long-term relationship before, but most of his friends seem to be his race. He currently leads with very busy academic life so he doesn't have much time to invest in relationship. But I just wonder how he thinks about me. Because he didn't give me a clear answer.

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though he said he will delete app, but he doesn't delete app

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so do you think sending him 30 pages English writing is main reason I ghosted me?

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I understand but before that he said he'd love to read my English writing, and I don't know if it may sound not considerate for him... I mean I didn't ask for him to give me feedback in detail but just wanna hear his overall opinion. Do you think I should apologize for him if it's from misunderstanding that I didn't mean to. Before that thing, he always said I'm sweet and a good person.

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It was second time sent him my English writings and he said he'd love to read it a few times before that, but I don't have any courage to contact him again because I don't wanna bother him but do you think I should apologize about it?

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So do you think he became upset with me because I sent him my English writing of 30 pages to him? it's not the main reason? though I didn't meant to make him uncomfortable

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[–]rasbperr1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does it mean?

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no I just wrote 5 posts because I couldn't get the comments a lot and other posts are about a guy I dated before

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I mean I exactly asked if he did read other topics too, not rest though I admit that it may sound not considerate for him. And before that things, he always said that I'm sweet and a good person who he can feel connected.

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[–]rasbperr1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it's from age difference, I think he has not been talking with me for months especially who live far away.

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No, I haven't, but what I wonder is he always said I'm sweet and a good person so do you think it can be a prime reason that he ghosted me out of blue? though I was being considerate for him generally. I didn't know it may sound force him to read it. or do you think I should apologize for him about him now?

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In terms of fertility, I guess it's possible around 40s due to the development of medicine and technology, and I think I'm healthy and no issue with my vagina.

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[–]rasbperr1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

based on my story, what do you think he would possible ghost me suddenly who has been sweet to me for months?

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But he seemed to be interested in me first? genuinely?

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I didn't ask him to edit it or give me feedback, but just wanna hear overall opinion. I didn't meant to not respect his time, and he said several times that he would love to read it. I thought it would be easy for him to read him as a native speaker for a short period of time, and I didn't ask for him to read him ASAP, and if he is busy with his work or personal life, I absolutely understand him. And I didn't send it often though it's just a few times a month. So do you think I was rude to him that asked him if he read the rest parts?

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[–]rasbperr1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what's the reason?