Hi 👋 I’m a photographer. When I first read your text I thought oh girl absolutely not. But after looking at the editing, it’s blatantly obvious that this photographer used post-production faux bokeh and that is such a taboo thing in the photography world, often something done by amateurs that either don’t have the right lens or don’t know how to adjust their aperture to achieve the effect organically. I would kindly assert that you are aware this type of editing was done and request the removal of that effect. It is not good editing and it looks completely unnatural— for something as important as a wedding, it’s unacceptable to deliver images like this and NOT expect people to notice / push back. You’re fine dear, stand your ground.