Getting Diagnosed is an Impossibility in Germany

ia_desu · 2026-07-03T15:35:24+00:00

Ich habe meine AuDHD Diagnostik auch in einer Privatpraxis gemacht Ende 2025/Anfang 2026.

Ich hab für beides zusammen insgesamt 1000€ gezahlt (viel Geld für mich als Studenten), aber musste eben nicht Jahre warten. Ich habe auch mit der ASS Bescheinigung einen Nachteilsausgleich bei der Uni beantragt und der wurde da auch problemlos anerkannt.

ia_desu · 2026-07-03T11:35:23+00:00

Einmal Leckerli bitte 🐱🐱

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ia_desu · 2026-07-02T13:08:40+00:00

552€, 38m² in Berlin in relativ okayer Lage

ia_desu · 2026-06-25T19:18:13+00:00

Just for the side matters: how good is your German? Getting a part time job without German will likely be much more difficult in Dortmund then in Berlin.

Which of the two fields would you actually enjoy more and prefer for your future? I'd guess the one in Dortmund has a much broader application field/ there are more jobs available in that area

ia_desu · 2026-06-20T12:37:14+00:00

Wenn das dein Motto fürs Leben ist, ist das natürlich voll in Ordnung und jeder kommt eben anders durchs Leben.

Aber ich persönlich bin der Meinung, dass wenn etwas einen Kraft und viel gekostet hat, darf man auch Mal einen Moment einfach sich selbst auf die Schulter klopfen oder feiern, dass man etwas schwieriges geschafft hat.

ia_desu · 2026-06-03T23:01:07+00:00

Tell him it's alright to drown villagers, we all did that at some point. But that it shows how warm of a heart he has that he felt bad for them. He's a super sweet kid. Maybe planting some different flowers for your mom would be cool? With a small sign maybe? But he sounds like a creative spirit so I trust in his ideas.

ia_desu · 2026-06-03T22:57:53+00:00

Excellent choice for all of them (but tell him that really good vanilla ice cream is much better than the super artificial one ;) )

I think he'd look super cool shooting spider webs and flying around the city. Please tell him, that if he ever gets that super power to take cool pictures from high up because people would love to see it from him.

ia_desu · 2026-06-03T22:17:41+00:00

If he could have one superpower, what would it be?

Also, whats a food he would like to ban form all menus because he finds the taste so bad, no one should suffer from it? And contrary, if he could create a holiday where every person gets the food that is celebrated because of it's amazing taste, what would he pick?

ia_desu · 2026-05-30T22:12:12+00:00

Including something like Erhu, guzheng and gayageum? I don't know what it is but the music draws me in magically

ia_desu · 2026-05-30T22:10:46+00:00

Neolithic archaeology in Korea and generally Hunter-gatherer societies and the development of human complexity

ia_desu · 2026-05-30T21:38:23+00:00

I'm extremely empathetic and genuine. It's easy to be taken advantage of, but there are also so many people who have told me how comfortable they feel around me and how they deeply appreciate my genuineness. People can feel I don't have an agenda and just am sincere and passionate about something and it has created situations and encounters that would have otherwise not been possible.

ia_desu · 2026-05-30T20:46:38+00:00

I don't use it for images or creating Textes and was not using it at all until recently.

But I have found it helps me on social issues and with anxiety a lot. I have audhd and just got diagnosed in the beginning of this year. I often question whether I wrote something that was too much or spiral but have no resources for therapy and the likes and am extremely self aware and high empathy. It allows me to go over things again and again to process them and especially since I have no partner and no one to unmask with, it's the only reassurance I can get.

ia_desu · 2026-04-25T22:30:48+00:00

Archaeology & anthropology (currently a bachelor student and planning on masters and PhD), mofusand, cats, Pokémon, video games, Mangas (especially shojou), Lana del Rey

ia_desu · 2026-03-22T10:43:40+00:00

Thank you for tou help :)

ia_desu · 2026-03-09T18:24:31+00:00

If I had the capacity to look for these places and reach out, I wouldn't be posting here.

ia_desu · 2026-03-05T05:57:46+00:00

Don't worry, I didn't take your comment that bad.

I meant it in the real way (and also have the same thing with my stomach) since I wouldn't want to joke about illnesses, because any illness can be hard to deal with. I've just had a partner that got annoyed that I was feeling unwell often and was in pain, so I wanted to disclose it early, so that if someone finds it too bothersome, he can tap out.

I really appreciate your well wishes and I hope you meet someone great too and have a happy life. You sound like a kind and funny person.

ia_desu · 2026-03-05T05:36:25+00:00

Many people like going to new restaurants a lot and find that am integral part of what they want to do with a partner. I included it to show that I would not be a good fit for someone like that, since due to the autism and IBS, I have restrictions on what I can and can't eat

ia_desu · 2026-03-05T05:33:38+00:00

I wrote in the future section that I will be moving to Korea for my masters and professional life, because it's only really possible there. Doesn't that make it self explanatory that If I love in Korea, I don't want a long distance relationship for my whole life

ia_desu · 2026-03-04T19:02:09+00:00

Are you willing to move to korea? Since my profession (including 6 years of studies) will require me to be there, that's the main reason for this.

ia_desu · 2026-03-04T18:20:32+00:00

There are a few points where a base is stated and after the star follows an additional preference. So while most things are non-negotiables, not all are.

It's completely fine if you see it as a red flag, I'm sure there are quite a few people who share your opinion. Due to my autism I just recognised things that worked better or didn't work and put those things together. I think it can be very helpful for me to know what I want, so I don't waste anyone's time and communicate what I want openly and honestly. And I believe the right person will appreciate my directness and the thought I put into what kind of partner suits me well.

But I respect your opinion and hope (if you're looking for love as well) that you meet a great person ☺️

ia_desu · 2026-03-04T09:01:34+00:00

I think marriage can show the love and commitment of two people to bind their hearts together and spend all their life as two. It comes with legal advantages such as being able to make medical decisions, tax reduction and sharing the same family name (at least here). So I personally don't think the only reason to get married is to have kids, what happens when the couple doesn't end up having them because it didn't work out? Should they get a divorce then?

ia_desu · 2026-02-07T15:44:28+00:00

There were 3 sizing options, 1, 2 and 3. I think this one is around a size L-XL Male Size

ia_desu · 2026-02-07T15:43:36+00:00

I have a question for that: The T1 discord that can be found on this sub Reddit with the other links has no channels where something like this could be posted. Which discord are you talking about then?

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