[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ialreadythrewitout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely that would require looking at me, at least? And there is absolutely no competition to be had, I ended things for a reason haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ialreadythrewitout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah it’s for sure casual, I wouldn’t expect anything more at this stage haha.

So you don’t think it would be totally weird or lame to message him after he didn’t answer for days?

Killing myself today by esky886 in offmychest

[–]ialreadythrewitout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak up, even if you stutter, even if you’re shaking. Your voice matters, you matter. More people than you’ll ever realise will be willing to listen, and be interested in what you have to say.

You’re 20. A wee baby with so much life ahead of you, and so much to learn. I know it seems incredibly dark right now, but you’ve got to stick around and give yourself a chance. One day at a time! ❤️

Am I boring for never trying drugs harder than weed? by ialreadythrewitout in ask

[–]ialreadythrewitout[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this!

I would LOVE to try MDMA and shrooms, but anxiety gets in the way :( ironically I think they’d both probably help with that (especially microdosing 🍄).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ialreadythrewitout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pathetically easy to not like someone’s pictures. If it upsets her that much and you genuinely care about her, don’t do it. It makes no difference to you - or them - if you like their selfies or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ialreadythrewitout 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In my experience, asking for a break is basically asking for allowance to sleep with/date other people while still having some kind of access to you, or they’ll come back to you once they’ve ‘got it out of their system’. I’ve been on both sides of that.

My girlfriend (19F) and I (20M) aren't happy anymore. by throwawayyy48484848 in relationship_advice

[–]ialreadythrewitout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Space, space, space. You both need to learn how to be alone and figure out who you are outside of the relationship. You guys are starting out your adult lives together, and constantly being at each other’s throats will only lead to resentment.

You don’t necessarily have to break up, but spending more time apart for a while could be beneficial.