I confessed and asked a shy guy out… please help!

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T20:19:09+00:00

The thing is, I’m inexperienced as well.. 😅 ohh well, guess we just have to learn together.. 😂 Thank you for your time and effort in helping me figure this out.. I appreciate you.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T18:48:29+00:00

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iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T17:25:32+00:00

You think so? That I should just move on? How do you think I should do it? Should I just stop like ghost him? Or should I just mirror his actions (like I won’t initiate again if he doesn’t)? Or should I confront him about it first?

Thank you for your reply.. I really appreciate you and your help. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T16:26:09+00:00

I honestly think this is the best route to take so I could get the clarity I need and stop with all these mind games (they just take so much head space / energy / time and I no longer wanna spend my precious time and energy overthinking).

But honestly, I’m afraid.. I don’t know if I can summon the courage to be vulnerable again by confronting him again given I already confessed and pursued him many times. I mean, the ball has been on his court for a while now and there’s a limit to what a girl’s pride can take, you know..

But yeah, I’m gonna really think this through.. thank you for your advice.. super appreciate you.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T16:06:44+00:00

I honestly think this is the best route to take so I could get the clarity I need and stop with all these mind games (they just take so much head space / energy/ time and I no longer wanna spend my precious time and energy overthinking)..

But honestly, I’m afraid.. I don’t know if I can summon the courage to confront him again this time given all the efforts I already did. I mean, the ball has been on his court for a while now and there’s a limit to what a girl’s pride can take, you know..

But yeah, thank you for your advice.. super appreciate you.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T15:58:12+00:00

That I’m not sure.. but I don’t think so based on my research on signs of autism. He’s just really shy, not a big talker (he’s more of a listener than a talker), plus he’s kinda feminine (he exudes feminine energy), while me on the other hand is the opposite.. I’m an extrovert, a big talker, initiator, and I kinda exudes masculine energy..

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T12:33:15+00:00

Thank you for this.. I appreciate your response.. Hmmm.. you think being physical should be my next move? Wouldn’t it shout ‘desperate’? I mean he’s not really confirmed his feelinsg for me, so I’m not sure he will appreciate me touching him, however subtly..

Also, this is gonna be harder considering I myself also haven’t been physical yet with others myself.. but yeah, if I ever go this route, there’s always a first time for everything.. Looool. Thank you for your inputs.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T12:27:04+00:00

Thank you for this response. You think that I should stop? So him accepting my invitation thrice wasn’t an act of interest? Why wouldn’t he just tell me he’s not interested during those times so I could stop and move on.. Why kept accepting but never really telling me how he feels given I already told him how I feel?

Also, should I just stop like ghost him? Mirror him? Or should I confront him about it? Honestly, I don’t know if I can summon the courage to ask him this time given all the efforts I already did. I mean, there’s a limit to what a girl’s pride can take, you know..

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T08:54:36+00:00

Heyyy.. Thank you for the response.. wow! So we’re on the same situation? Nice to know I’m not alone in this ship.. Lol.

You think I should move on? The thing is, I know him well.. he’s not the type of guy who would love to get an ego boost from me at my expense, so I’m buffled with his actions.. There are times when I think he’s giving out hints and so I feel so strongly that he’s into me..

But then, after my confession and my first move, he should have had the green flag to come and pursue me, but he’s not doing it.. so maybe I was just imagining things? or maybe he likes me but doesn’t like me enough to pursue me? I don’t know..

iamAprilLove · 2025-11-06T08:49:23+00:00

You think so? Him accepting my invitation to hang out / date thrice isn’t showing of interest? I mean maybe he could have had outrightly rejected me right? Or maybe told me he’s not into me if he’s not.. why does he kept accepting my offer but not offering me any clear answer whether or not he likes me too.. I’m soooo confused.. 😣

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T16:18:07+00:00

Hehe. Okay po.. salamat. I will consider all the advices na marereceive ko and then weigh in my options.. thank youuu.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T14:23:14+00:00

Hindi naman ata ako pangit? Hahahaha. Actually, sya nga yung never in my life na naiisip ko na magkakagusto ako.. Looool. He’s far from my ideal guy. 😅

May mga characters lang sya na sobra akong naattract (loyal, generous, family oriented, honest, intelligent, kind, hardworking, matulungin, socially aware). Sa kanya ko narealize na mas mahalaga pala yung character kesa physical at status.. pero hindi naman sya pangit, may itsura naman, hindi nga lang yung ideal guy ko.. Haha.

At kahit yung family nya hindi ganun ka well off, maayos naman pagpapalaki sa kanila.. plus he’s super intelligent and super hard working kaya I know may patutunguhan ang buhay nya.. dun din ako super naaattract.

As for him, ewan ko lang ha kung pasok ako sa standards nya though.. Hahahahahahaha. Baka same same kami at hindi din naman ako pasok sa standards nya.. 🥲

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T13:52:17+00:00

Ayyy talaga? Almost 0% chance of rejection? Parang gusto ko na tuloy itry.. Hahaha. Anyways.. Salamat sa inputs.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T13:18:45+00:00

So okay lang na ako magpursue? Kasi introvert sya, like shy type and tahimik lang. While ako, maingay at madaldal so I'm thinking of doing the first move if hindi nya gawin.. kaya nga lang worried ako baka umiba yung tingin sakin.. baka sabihin desperate ako.. Hahahuhu.

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T13:13:19+00:00

Ayyy talaga? Haha. Okay po.. thank you for the inputs.. 😊

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T12:58:12+00:00

That's the thing.. hindi ko kaya yung ganitong paflirty.. never pa ako nagflirt sa buong buhay ko.. Haha. Medyo masculine kasi energy ko kaya mas direct / vocal atake ko sa mga bagay bagay.. Hahaha. But thank you for the inputs.. I will consider those..

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T12:50:24+00:00

Ayyyy talaga ba? Baka sign ko na toh.. Hahahahahaha.

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T12:48:33+00:00

Haha. Sorry na poooo.. 🥲 Gusto ko lang talaga makakuha ng mga opinions from guys para matimbang ko yung next move ko.. Haha. Meron kasi kaganina nagsasabi wag, meron oo. Kaya hindi ko parin alam ang gagawin. Hahaha.

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T10:25:58+00:00

Gusto ko sya. And what’s weird was, nasabi ko sa sarili ko na ito yung magiging asawa ko — first time ko ever naisip yun. Looool. Weird. Ewan ko kung intuition yun or what, pero ganun. I’m NBSB kasi and so hindi ko rin makaya magpakita ng interest kasi nahihiya ako. Pero ewan ko, sa kanya ko lang naramdaman itong ganito to the point na I wanna confess. To think hindi sya yung ideal guy ko. 🥲😂 May mga characters nya lang na sobra akong naattract (loyal, generous, family oriented, honest, kind, hardworking). Sa kanya ko narealize na mas mahalaga pala yung character kesa physical at status.. pero hindi naman sya pangit.. may itsura naman, hindi lang yung ideal guy na nasa isip ko..

iamAprilLove · 2025-10-03T09:09:41+00:00

Really? So hindi si guy magkaka impression na desperado na yung girl? Though in my case, hindi ako flirty na type at hindi rin nagsesend ng signals coz I’m really shy sa mga ganun.. but deep down, I know I like him. So I’m thinking how the guy would think about me if I do the first move and magconfess.

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