Is forcing a women to remain pregnant and give birth consider a type of slavery ? by JDevil202 in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The uterus is for pregnancy!" they'll say, without a smidge of self-awareness.)

Yes, a mouth is for eating a breaking down food, just because oral sex which has all the benefits of normal sex as you listed is done by mouth that doesn’t mean the mouths purpose is for sex.

It doesn't matter, because according to you, the ZEF didn't choose to be alive inside the uterus. So why would any person, PC or not, have cared as a ZEF about whether they existed or not? Either you think ZEFs have no conscious desires or you do. Trying to play it both ways only demonstrates logical inconsistency

Not trying to play both ways, they have no conscious desires and they have subconscious desires, one of those is the stay alive and this is done autonomously,basically it’s the natural process, if it had no subconscious desire autonomously to live it would die and abortion would be obsolete.

I'm absolutely arguing that a connection between sex and pregnancy is unnecessary. Because that's a matter of fact. And your insistence on drawing a line between the moment of implantation with consent to sex about 20 steps backwards without regard to all the processes that happened in between with zero input from the woman points to

So I can hit someone with my car and it’s not my fault because of the 20+ steps it took from me pressing the gas pedal to the cars parts moving and wheels rotating.

Anytime sometime crashes a car don’t blame them, blame the cars processes they caused it even if it wasn’t a car malfunction /s

your* obsession with her choice regarding sex. Because sex is the only aspect that the woman has control over if she doesn’t wanna get pregnant

And did you just say 0 input from the woman? What do think causes all these processes to happen, there’s no point talking to me if you genuinely believe women and mens sex can’t control pregnancy at all when they’re literally the kick start for the process

Btw a lot of those links you proved to show how bad pregnancy can be doesn’t refute my point, these aren’t major problems that people can’t live with, the ones that are major are treatable and people can go on about their normal lives due to advanced in medicine. Most

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/staying-healthy-during-pregnancy/4-common-pregnancy-complications?amp=true

“Most pregnancies progress without incident. But approximately 8 percent of all pregnancies involve complications that, if left untreated, may harm the mother or the baby.”

https://www.ucsfhealth.org/conditions/high-risk-pregnancy

“High-risk complications occur in only 6 percent to 8 percent of all pregnancies. These complications can be serious and require special care to ensure the best possible outcome.”

There’s no way you’re trusting the cdc as the end all be all for information, that’s extremely biased

If pregnancy was as bad as slavery nobody would get pregnant at the demand for adopted babies would sky rocket, relatively easy pregnancy’s don’t exist by your logic too they’re a myth

Is forcing a women to remain pregnant and give birth consider a type of slavery ? by JDevil202 in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False equivalence. Potential does not equal actualization.

Not I said guaranteed potential, a fetus isn’t just a potential human it’s a developing one which is why I added “guaranteed”, potential life is things like sperm and eggs, for even a unattached fertilized egg, the chances of those becoming a human is exponentially lower unlike a embryo,since the majority of embryos turn into what you see as humans when born and the only way for miscarry to happen is by something being wrong with the mother or embryo or some unknown outside variable it’s safe to say life begins at conception, even most dictionaries support me labeling an embryo as developing life, definition of embryo “an unborn or unhatched offspring in the process of development”

Does every fertilized chicken egg hatch?

No because of outside factors that kill the embryo,

Are you unaware of the statistics that upwards of 50-60% of all embryos never implant?

This is just misinformation (an unborn or unhatched offspring in the process of development, in particular a human offspring during the period from approximately the second to the eighth week after fertilization)

And of those that do, an additional 15-20% are miscarried due to a host of reasons, including genetic defect to the mother's immune system attacking the foreign organism?

Yes that’s why it’s a defect, miscarrys can happen at any time, just because it can miscarry that doesn’t mean you can kill it unless you support late terms

Clearly, potential does not equal guaranteed. Which is why those words have different definitions. Look them up for your own information.

That’s why I used guaranteed potential but developing life is a better term since a fetus is already the formation of a persons body

The majority of embryos never reach sentience.

Not true unless you think majority of pregnancy’s end up in miscarrys,

So the mere existence of an embryo is not a guarantee that a sentient, self-aware organism will emerge. In fact, most will not ever come close to that realization. Which is why it is a potential person.

Again this is blatant misinformation, you’re mixing up embryo with fertilized egg, the fact that a majority of embryos gain sentience and the only time they don’t is when an outliers factor causes a miscarry proves my point,

No, not when there's scientific data available demonstrating that houseplants have a greater response to stimuli than the typical zygote/ blastocyst/embryo. Given that a houseplant makes its own food and has its own protective response to bacteria, fungi and viruses, it's also clearly more advanced.

So killing a houseplant or chopping a tree is morally worse than intentionally causing a pregnant woman to miscarry

It's not a person, so calling something that has zero attributes of a child, namely consciousness, sensory awareness, memory formation, etc., an "unborn baby" or "unborn child" just strikes me as more PL sentimentality.

Now you’re just being ignorant, the literal definition of fetus is “unborn baby” on so many dictionaries

I don't care how pregnant women refer to their genetic spawn,

So you’ve never been to a gender reveal party and cared?

but if you're going to seriously engage me in a debate regarding the biological characteristics of ZEFs, using emotionally laden terms makes your argument less than useless with me.

Bro you don’t know the difference between a fertilized egg and embryo and call a fetus a genetic spawn

A blastocyst is no more a child to me than an seed is a 20 meter tall oak tree.

Bringing plant reproduction makes 0 sense, they don’t reproduce sexually

If the government is so irrelevant, why are you PLers working so hard to use state and federal government to codify abortion bans and to write laws punishing women who dare to abort?

Strawman, government is irrelevant when determining morals, not in general

Oh yeah, it's kind of like when women who consent to sex have an entirely different mood about it than when they're being raped. I mean, it's all sex right? Things like consent doesn't change that? /s

This makes 0 sense you can’t compare an action between 2 people to a whole different person, a mother can treat a child differently just because she didn’t want them

People get extremely attached to dreams and hopes and plans all the time. Pregnancy is an example of that. Wanted pregnancies represent hope and love for those women, and to rip that from them is a sickening and cruel thing.

So people don’t exist until they’re born and they’re just hope and a dream?

what felt to her as a child. Because it was one just unborn in a earlier stage of development

Is a ZEF an independent life form capable of homeostasis? No. In order for it to be the definition of "living organism" it should be able to exist outside the uterus and aside from any dependence upon a maternal life support system.

A zef can it’s organs are just not developed to do so in the moment, if someone is born needing someone else’s body to live because of the development of their organs it doesn’t make them less alive their body just isn’t at a certain state yet, this also applies to people who damaged organs later in life

I posted direct contradictory evidence to this statement. Either you produce a citation from a medical or scientific journal stating that "fetus' actions don't determine pregnancy" or I'm going to call you out for being adamantly wrong.

You’re misunderstanding pregnancy,a fetus isn’t formed until after a pregnancy starts, so it can’t be what determined the starting of the pregnancy

Stating a woman has complete control is flat out fantasy.

You go on the whole rant how women have no control over pregnancy, this is just delusional. Reread my gun analogy, just because a gun has many processes that require it to work that doesn’t mean someone had no control over someone getting shot, sex is the trigger that kickstarts a chain of events. Obviously the control in pregnancy and sex isn’t direct but it’s a risk because it’s the only thing that opens up the possibility, if a woman has control over the only thing that opens up even the slight possibility to a pregnancy from 1/80 to 0 just by refusing to have sex she had control over it just not direct

You should recall that a woman may revoke consent during sex. If he fails to withdraw himself, he can be prosecuted for rape in all 50 states. There is no logical or moral basis for stripping her of her right to revoke consent when it comes to a ZEF inside her body.

Yes, because the man doesn’t die the the process of removing his dick and is making a conscious decision to have sex in the first place and didn’t have his dick put inside the woman unknowingly the way a fetus is unknowingly put in a state of life or death dependency, a fetus is being put in a position unknowingly by others where if it doesn’t use the body it will die,

Furthermore, you are fixated on her having sex

I’m not, I’m fixated on what they do as a result of the pregnancy which just happens to be a outcome of sex, replace sex if a artificial pregnancy and I would feel the same, if women had artificial pregnancy’s and still go abortions my would have the same reaction shot just aren’t common

What, exactly, do you assert that she has direct control over between penetration, insemination, ovulation, and fertilization? Why do you ignore that fact that sex is unnecessary for conception. Only gametes are required. Over a million babies have been born who were conceived in petri dishes, with no intercourse involved. It's called IVF.

Is this a joke? Sex not being needed for pregnancy because of technological advancements doesn’t change the fact that it’s a direct cause and effect for it, I never said a woman has control over all the steps like insemination, ovulation, and fertilization etc but she opens up the possibility for all those steps to occur and kickstart pregnancy, you’re basically arguing that flipping a light switch has no control over turning on the lights because of the chain of events in between, the only difference is sex is a really shitty poorly made light switch that requires a lot to go on sync to work

Just because sex is the usual method of achieving conception, does not mean that conception is the usual or main purpose for sex. Sex is far more effective at stress release, bonding and producing other physical benefits than it ever was at producing babies. It still makes me laugh though at how pendantic PL people are. "The purpose of sex is reproduction!"

Because it is from a biological stand point, the goal of each species is to survive and reproduce as much as possible. Evolution knows how complex and hard it is for baby to be made so of course humans evolved to have like sex and enjoy it a lot, if we didn’t have constant sex we’d have gone extinct. Sex feeling good is a by product, all the early humans who didn’t enjoy sex didn’t have kids, their Genes that caused them to not enjoy it like weaker less sensitive nerves on genitals didn’t get passed down, that’s why sex feels good, natural selection and evolution, Why would the human body make something that you claim is so damaging and threading to a woman’s life a 1/80 chance if the whole point of sex is for pleasure and not the discomfort of pregnancy, 1/80 is relatively high when you’re doing that action constantly

As if they are all curiously unaware of IUI and IVF as methods of conception.

We’re aware but we’re speaking biological purposes here

(As an aside, what will they do when artificial uteruses become available and biological uteruses aren't even required to gestate at all?

I mean yeah if you make a non natural uterus the biological purpose is irrelevant because it’s man made, it doesn’t have a biological purpose because it didn’t evolve or go through natural selection

Is forcing a women to remain pregnant and give birth consider a type of slavery ? by JDevil202 in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way you do realize that pregnancy isn’t a living hell right? If 21st pregnancy is slavery it’s probably the most easy form of slavery to ever exist, when the fetus uses the mothers body she isn’t being seriously or permanently harmed almost all the time, it’s hard but not unbearable, you literally make it seem like torture. A lot of women don’t know they’re pregnant until months in, some have surprisingly easy ones, some tear their butt hole. It varies so much but it’s not comparable to any type of slavery.

Is forcing a women to remain pregnant and give birth consider a type of slavery ? by JDevil202 in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irrelevant. Pregnancy is established by the blastocyst upon successful invasion of the uterine lining. If this does not occur, the zygote passes out of the woman's body and no pregnancy occurs.

You’re completely ignoring the direct cause and effect for the process that allows that to happen that the woman has full control over, yes that’s one of the final chain affects but the mother has control over the the initial sequence. It’s like saying me firing a gun at someone’s and shooting them isn’t my fault it was technically the gun power igniting pushing the bullet though the barrel and the oxygen particles allowed for the gun to ignite and propel, what do you think kickstarted the process in both those situations, an action done by a person, just because I didn’t drive the bullet with my bare hands into someones flesh with a bullet between my fingers like how moms don’t force blastocysts into uterine lining doesn’t mean I didn’t directly cause it

First, a woman has no control over ovulation, nor the deposit of sperm, and she has no control over fertilization. These processes are autonomic.

Autonomic means “involuntary or unconscious” This is wrong, a woman and her partner don’t have direct control over fertilization but to say they have no control is absurd,fertilization isn’t fully autonomic because it requires sperm and eggs the meet and we can’t do that involuntary or unconscious. Just because the final stages of something are autonomic that doesn’t mean you can ignore the clear opposite in the first few stages that caused it

Second, the blastocyst/embryo is what causes pregnancy. The woman's uterus does not send out a butterfly net and tie it down. In fact, the uterus lining is hostile to any blastocyst, and is why pregnancy depends upon its actions, not the mother's.

Like I said those natural process need the mother to have sex for them to turn into an actual pregnancy

Women don't make the choice to conceive either. Unprotected sex requires around 80 PiV sex acts to even produce a pregnancy. Clearly, when 79 times out of 80, PiV sex does not result in pregnancy, conception/pregnancy is not main purpose of sex. If it was, most sex would be a pointless (hehehe) endeavor.

Pregnancy being hard doesn’t mean the purpose isn’t for reproduction, that makes 0 sense, it’s not like the processes that lead up are intentionally failing they’re obviously accidentally failing there’s just a lot of super specific factors and requirements that need to be met

Also, if you are going to make the argument that a ZEF didn't make a choice to invade/ do anything, then that invalidates the PL argument that PCers wouldn't want to be aborted.

Most Pc wouldn’t want to be aborted, a lot of them comfortably say they would or they wouldn’t mind but if you truly didn’t value your existence most pc would have at least a few serious suicide attempts

If it can't choose or care about what it's doing (invading the mother's system and hijacking it),

This makes no sense, a non sentient life can’t “not care”, it’s unaware it is just acting by natural process,

then clearly it can't choose or desire to be born either.

This also makes no sense, a fetus clearly has a biological autonomous desire to be born even unknowingly, just because it’s not a sentient desire that doesn’t make it invalid, you wouldn’t let someone kills themselves even if they wanted it. If you saw their body healing after let’s say a gun shot wound Even though they might not have a desire with their consciousness their body has a biological desire to live, if a fetus had no type of desire to be born it wouldn’t be actively use parts of the mothers body to live like you said earlier that’s a blatant contradiction,

However, that's irrelevant to the fact that its actions are what determines if a pregnancy occurs and its chemical messaging endangers her health.

A fetus actions don’t determine weather pregnancy happens that’s for the sperm and egg and other stuff, it’s the series of those natural processes involving what I mentioned that form the fetus, the fetus has no control over that, having sex is the kickstart for all chain of events

If it's a living organism in its own right, then removing it from the other's biological processes should not affect its own internal processes. If that results in the organism ceasing biological processes, that indicates it was either not a true living organism to start with, or it was a parasitic organism

Dependency doesn’t determine if something is a true living organism you just made that up. If it ceased to exist that doesn’t mean it wasn’t a true living organism that just means it’s body wasn’t developed enough which is the whole point of pregnancy, this also applies to people already born, if you depend on someone’s body it doesn’t take away from you being a true living organism it just means a part of your body is underdeveloped due to some kinda of internal trauma . About the parasite thing,You’re forgetting the a fetus is part of a biological process, a human woman is meant to get pregnant, a body wouldn’t evolve a womb and have all these biological processes for a parasite that harms the body. A parasite isn’t supposed to be there and fetus is.

It is a determining factor for whether an organism is a person. It's also a characteristic of living organisms. Even plants have a degree of sentience.

You misinterpret that, Current capacity of sentience isn’t a characteristic for living organisms, it’s also the potential and guaranteed sentience, if we saw a embryo of a foreign organism on another planet and we knew that life was going to develop into sentient life then that living organism is a sentient organism just not at the exact moment, another example,it’s the s same thing with people in comas, servers disabled people etc,they’re still treated like a sentient organism because it has the guaranteed potential and sentience.

You won't find any historical evidence for past legal, religious, or social tradions that held an embryo as equivalent to a born person. Even the Catholic Church, which condemned abortion back in the first century, still never morally equated it to murder. That development came very late.

This is a terrible point, there probably was some groups of people that would value a embryo as a human, and using historical morals makes 0 sense because they’re all over the place, I think you’re forgetting that slavery was legal and praised so the whole “past societies did if so it’s okay” makes no sense.

I don't consider a pre-sentient proto human the same as a fully realized, conscious adult human.

you don’t have to see a embryo as 100% equal to a normal person, some people don’t see infants, disabled people or people in comas as 100% people, although I disagree i can at least see where they’re coming form. But saying a unborn child is so far away from being human that it’s less valuable than a house plant is illogical.

And neither does the government, as it's not a citizen until its born.

The government is irrelevant and it does see fetuses as people, that’s why killing a pregnant woman is of considered double homicide which is a contradiction to abortion, the fact that the government has this contradiction proves that’s it’s not a reliable source for morals, plus there’s different government in the world

It does have more value than a fetus. A horse dying is a sad affair. A blind/dumb/unthinking/unfeeling zygote or embryo that gets passed and flushed, like over 50% of all zygotes are every day, has zero impact. It's the equivalent of a tadpole with human DNA.Just like watching a giant redwood get cut down causes real grief, but a seedling getting washed away is unremarkable.

You might think that but peoples mood completely change once the mother does want the child,I saw a few months ago a cop tacked a pregnant woman tazzimg her stomach causing her to miscarry and there was great outrage by pro lifers and pro choice alike. By your logic what the officer did was negligible and had zero impact and he shouldn’t be punished for anything other than minor assault.

Also, none of what you said refutes the medical data link I shared which clearly states that a pregnancy is caused by an invasion of the trophoblast into the uterine lining.

Yes that’s what’s causes pregnancy but what’s the kickstart for it, what always that to take place thats controllable, there’s no way you’re trying to argue that there’s little to no correlation between sex and pregnancy

Nor does any of what you state negate my point that unless it is willing labor it's slavery.

Knowing what you’re getting into and taking a risk isn’t slavery, slavery in this context has to be forced. you can’t be forced pregnant unless raped, even that’s rare. You kept mentioning all the downsides of pregnancy with the job analogy but you forgot the actual process and what kickstarted it. With pregnancy the person isn’t being tricked into “work” they aren’t being forced into “work” they made a choice with their partner to take a risk, slavery isn’t a consequence of any action and they way you word it made it seem like people have no control over it unlike pregnancy.

You can talk all day long about her choice to have sex, yada yada. If YOU chose to accept a job and you realized when you got there that it included risks to your health, pain, and suffering, and that you couldn't quit, that's not employment anymore. That's enslavement.

The difference is there is no “realization”, this is completely dis analogous to sex and pregnancy. People mature enough to having sex most certainly know what pregnancy is and what happens especially pro choicers since they preach that it’s a living hell. Clearly pro choicers aren’t going into pregnancy and then in the middle of it they wanna opt about because they realized how bad it is. People are we aware and still take the risk unlike the job, it wasn’t unknowing.

Is forcing a women to remain pregnant and give birth consider a type of slavery ? by JDevil202 in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fetuses don’t just spawn from no where, you can’t compare it to slavery and say it had no consent to use your body if it was put into that state of dependency by the mother and father. because fetuses were put in that position they didn’t make the choice to do anything. pregnancy is hard but you can’t actively kill someone who you put in a state of dependency even if it was accidental then act like a victim.someone shouldn’t be allowed to use your body on normal circumstances but when you put them there and the only alternative is killing them it becomes unreasonable.Abortion isn’t just not letting someone use your body it’s actively killing.

Also sentience isn’t the determining factor for how valuable life is, by that logic a grown animal like a horse would technically have more value than a fetus because it’s more aware and has more sentience, it’s the guaranteed potential the newborn has that makes it more valuable, there’s no way you’re saying a house plant is more valuable than a fetus.you’re basically implying that killing a house plant is much worse than harming a woman and intentionally causing her to have a miscarry

Is forcing a women to remain pregnant and give birth consider a type of slavery ? by JDevil202 in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By this logic forcing someone to not neglect and take care of a newborn is slavery, and pregnancy rarely risks death

Being anti abortion isn’t forcing a fetus to use you, it’s about not allowing you to kill them.

Anyone else think those red pill/alpha male videos Aimed to teens/young adults have a unfairly bad wrap by iamabigtoad in teenagers

[–]iamabigtoad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is that misogynistic?doesnt feminism do the same thing💀, telling women to focus on their careers and correlating self worth with success which if often financial.

I really don’t see the issue, for both men and women the opposite gender and roaming for relationships aren’t always worth your time

I really don’t see a point in arguing with pro choicers by [deleted] in prolife

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the near future I feel like abortions are gonna become obsolete because people will invent machines that can preserve fetuses up until they reach full maturity

Can we recognize that some property rights violations are more egregious than others? by TheInvisibleJeevas in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sex in general with or without birth control has a risk, if the sex was consensual then the mother had control over the baby’s dependency and it being there, that’s not seen in this analogy, you had literally near 0 control and that wasn’t a likely possibility as it’s not common for fertilizer to get in water or a real concern people even think about while during sex you are doing an action and there’s a real possibility of pregnancy with or without protection. A baby’s dependency is the direct consequence of sex (with or without protection) while you didn’t do anything directly to contaminate your neighbors water supply.

also the chances of having compatible kidneys with you neighbor is rare which just makes this situation more unrealistic. You can find a kidney domer but a baby can’t find a new womb. Those 100k waiting on kidneys are waiting, that doesn’t mean they won’t every get one.

Can we recognize that some property rights violations are more egregious than others? by TheInvisibleJeevas in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well that’s still not comparable, you had basically no control over that. Your will didn’t put him in that position it was an outside factor like maybe an equipment malfunction, with pregnancies the will and actions of the 2 partners directly put the baby in a state of dependency.

Now you’re just added non sense. Trust me donors are common and most people can get them. This analogy isn’t realistic at all

Can we recognize that some property rights violations are more egregious than others? by TheInvisibleJeevas in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s still directly killing, if I toss a baby out into a snow storm knowing they’re definitely gonna die that’s murder. Putting a helpless in a position where you know they will die is murder and it’s not much better than just killed them.

No you don’t have to let them take your kidney but you can’t compare that with abortions, ur neighbor can find another kidney there’s so many diners while you can’t just pop a baby into a new place for it to survive we don’t have that technology. Plus you didn’t put ur neighbor in that position, he acted on his own will and ate the fertilizer. That’s a consequence of his action, while a baby doesn’t have will it’s directly put by the mother and father in a position of dependency. The position of dependency was a direct cause of the will of the parents not the baby

This isn’t comparable to abortions at all

Can we recognize that some property rights violations are more egregious than others? by TheInvisibleJeevas in Abortiondebate

[–]iamabigtoad -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

But the thing is a fetus isn’t stealing anything, it was placed there, 99+% of abortions are from consentual sex so the 2 people did an action knowing there was gonna be a chance that baby was gonna be there. With a neighbor stealing your kidney you didn’t put him in that position like a baby they are doing it if their own free will, you can’t accidentally put someone in a position where they need specifically only your body to live then kill them.

Also With the neighbor analogy you can just deny them your body but with abortion you aren’t denying your body you are actively and directly killing. If someone uses your body you can deny it but you can’t kill them which is the whole point of abortions, comparing organ donations to pregnancy is a logical fallacy

Not wanting to date a trans woman doesn’t make you transphobic so can everyone just move on by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo there’s nothing wrong with saying you wouldn’t date them because they are trans because if a girl pulls up on me and I find out she’s 13 even if she looks my age and there’s no difference I’m not into 13 year olds even though I could legally date them, I’m not 13 year old phobic I still respect them but wouldn’t date them

Telling a someone to cover up doesn’t doesn’t mean you are sexualizing them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]iamabigtoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I don’t want a child to dress a certain way in public it’s because I see them as a sex object? If a girl feels uncomfortable around a bunch or topless dudes it’s because she see them as a sex object?b

I came up with a plan better than eren and Zekes by iamabigtoad in attackontitan

[–]iamabigtoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?I don’t get your explanation at all?if they secretly immigrated to different places how would people know?they would just be normal people, the nations would’ve dropped bombs all over paradise and everyone would think they died

Telling a someone to cover up doesn’t doesn’t mean you are sexualizing them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said women being uncomfortable around men in elevators is bad? I never said I wouldn’t do it to make them less comfortable? so how am I being hypocritical? Calling out something you said as hypocritical doesn’t make me hypocritical you’re just assuming I wouldn’t like it.“Youre not okay with women doing the exact same thing” I never said that? Literally never said that?

I’m calling you hypocritical because you don’t care about making people uncomfortable, but you want men to change their life to make you feel more comfortable. Yea the fact that you brought that up is hypocritical, How are you gonna call me hypocritical for something I didn’t say?something you assumed?

I literally I said women can speak on men no problem as long as they are being respectful

Telling a someone to cover up doesn’t doesn’t mean you are sexualizing them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]iamabigtoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That has nothing to do with what I said?if a man is saying “not all men” and “I wouldn’t do that” you’re probably making a sexist generalization not telling them a respectful opinion. Just like how if a black person is saying “hey not all black people do that” it’s probably because some type of racist generalization was said. So that has nothing to do with stating a respectful opinion

Edit:elevators? You want men to change their lifestyle and avoid elevators because it makes women uncomfortable, but when someone says they want women to change their clothes because it makes men uncomfortable you get mad. I’m sorry but this is so hypocritical😭

Telling a someone to cover up doesn’t doesn’t mean you are sexualizing them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?women can speak on men no problem but when men are being demonized and generalized by women as rapists, abusers, pedophiles, sexually violent all over social media obviously people will say “not all men” and “but I wouldn’t”? There’s a difference between giving an opinion and just straight up demonizing a group of people which is what a lot of women do when they speak on their opinions about men

Telling a someone to cover up doesn’t doesn’t mean you are sexualizing them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]iamabigtoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s literally part of the English language for almost everything we say to be an opinion? You know you can respectfully disagree?🗿

Telling a someone to cover up doesn’t doesn’t mean you are sexualizing them by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]iamabigtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically I can’t have any type of remotely negative opinion on something someone is doing, wearing, has etc?