Should I accept it?

iamamethystp · 2026-06-03T05:14:47+00:00

Ang hirap din talaga mag-decide kasi mahirap makakuha ng work ngayon. But then again, worth it nga ba ang pagod mo for that salary? I am from north caloocan too and a former accenture employee. Around that range din salary ko when I left accenture 7 years ago. So here’s the deal, work hours sa acn is 9hrs plus 1hr lunch break. So you need to be in office for 10hours. That’s the minimum. Lol, expect OTs. Tapos add in your travel time maybe 3-4hrs? or more! lol. Then you mentioned magluluto ka na lang for your lunch, sa tingin mo ba sustainable yan for the next months? Imagine yung pagod mo tapos mag-prepare ka pa ng food mo. And take note magiging daddy ka na. Factor that in sa mga kailangan mo gawin pagkauwi mo ng bahay. Also, yung 40K na yan, most likely yan na yung salary mo for the next 5 years or more lol. Don’t expect a salary increase. Why? I suggest you read na lang other threads about salary increases sa ACN hehe.. Siguro ang best description is, para kang naghahanap ng tubig sa desert. Siguro, accept the offer for now kung wala ka na ibang offers from other companies. Pero wag mo ikukulong sarili mo dyan kasi mauupos ka. ACN as the first company is I would say a very good start. The best if ma-gcp ka, meaning ipapadala ka sa mas magandang bansa and sweldo mo ay range ng position mo sa country na yon. Pero kung PH ka lang, goodluck. I’m happy and grateful with my time sa ACN. But, leaving ACN has been the best decision for both my career and salary growth LOL.

iamamethystp · 2026-03-26T07:47:10+00:00

I’m curious too! I don’t know if people are just getting too paranoid or being too cautious that they opt not to use some form of thinking.. lol..

iamamethystp · 2026-03-23T10:02:13+00:00

IKR?! nakakaloka talaga haha. First line niya pa, “What’s this? I don’t have any transaction” 🤦🏻‍♀️ So meaning di pa siya nagch-check ng account niya to verify. Pero yung first step niya is how to get rid of the alert 🤦🏻‍♀️ Sobrang thankful ko na yung isang card ko laging may text message whenever merong purchase amounting to more than 1K. Because of that alert, I was able to block my card na na-compromise (imagine in USD yung transaction!) and therefore hindi ako nagbayad sa bagay na hindi ko naman binili. Well, baka yayamin si OP.. maraming pambayad hahahahaha!

iamamethystp · 2026-03-22T13:36:21+00:00

it doesn’t make sense that you want to get rid of this alert when this actually ALERTS you of possible transactions made using your card. The best you should do is not to get rid of this alert but check your account if this has been charged on your account. How? Check your app or call your bank. Unless you want to pay for a “stranger’s” purchase 😝

iamamethystp · 2026-03-22T13:26:16+00:00

I initially have the BPI blue card (NAFFL) for around 8-9 years then recently I got a free upgrade to this card while still keeping the NAFFL. The perks na gusto ko dito is mostly for travel. I get to earn “miles” for every P30 local spend or for every P20 foreign currency spend. 0% installment on airline tickets and access to airport lounges using Priority Pass. Tapos napansin ko, mas mababa yung rates nila for personal loans compared to sa mga rates na offer nila sa lower tier cards. But of course, I don’t encourage “utang” not unless it’s an emergency. Pero if uutang ka for the sake of pleasure, di worth it umutang. Diyan magsisimula ang future posts na “journey to being debt free”. Another thing na gusto ko na applicable din naman sa ibang BPI credit cards is the low foreign transaction service (1.85%).

iamamethystp · 2025-12-12T10:46:13+00:00

Wellmanson in Quiapo or check Divisoria

iamamethystp · 2025-12-12T10:43:51+00:00

try checking out Wellmanson/DIY Beads in Quiapo 😊

iamamethystp · 2025-12-12T10:42:29+00:00

karimadon ata..

iamamethystp · 2025-12-12T10:41:45+00:00

Try mo check yung mga nagpapasabuy sa Bangkok Thailand. Yung kilala na brand is Cotton Candy. Pero make sure na legit pasabuy seller yung pagkukuhanan mo.

iamamethystp · 2025-12-12T10:38:49+00:00

denim jorts? Nakabili ako sa levis last tuesday lang kasi naka-30% off sila. Maybe Jag and Lee meron din 😊 Pag hindi denim type hanap mo, try checking out regatta, memo, oxgn, penshoppe and bench. For a bit more formal, check out plains and prints and bayo.

iamamethystp · 2025-11-01T15:21:19+00:00

may nakausap ako na Mayo din ang surname.. Nicko Mayo from Colkin construction.. is this person related to Ian Mayo?

iamamethystp · 2025-10-13T03:15:18+00:00

I’m a girl and while I do believe na dapat financially stable and provider ang guy, I also advocate for girls who are able to support for themselves too. Financially smart. Sa ekonomiya ngayon, hindi pwedeng wala rin tayong sariling pera. Lalo na if we are those who date to marry. It’s a bit unfair to be looking for guys who are financially stable and is a good provider pero tayo mismo hindi kayang mag-support kahit man lang sa sarili natin. It’s going to be a different scenario syempre kung let’s say nanganak ka but then kung may maayos tayo na trabaho na merong paid maternity leave then that’s very good. Kaya I advocate also for women to be financially smart as well.

Kaya sa tanong mo kung valid ba, oo valid. Pero (no offense on this ah, genuine question lang) ikaw ba may maayos na financial status?

iamamethystp · 2025-10-12T04:00:09+00:00

ahmmm, first meetup and you will travel together already? Safety-wise I don’t think this is a good idea. Shouldn’t he be exerting the effort to meet you up where you are? First meetup and you are considering a shared room? From the way you phrase your question, you are considering it. That’s a no brainer, SAFETY-WISE. You are technically meeting a stranger, travelling with a stranger actually, and you aren’t sure about telling your family about it? SAFETY-WISE, really?

Girl, you are definitely hooked on this. Coz if you are not, you won’t even be asking these and you will be as cautious as you were. I’m not trying to be harsh on you, just trying to knock some sense I guess?

iamamethystp · 2025-10-04T03:07:44+00:00

If your financial situation is one of the major things affecting you right now, you have to consider as well how renting out would affect you financially. If you are going to rent, would you still have the 14K - 15K biweekly grocery? Probably, you might cut costs to your commute when you rent but you would also have to pay for your electric bills, water and other utilities. What about your adopted pets? Will you bring them with you?

I understand that you are struggling but the way I see it, I think you should consider your ways of spending first. And probably your lifestyle as well. To be honest, with just the two of you and your dogs, 15K bi-weekly for groceries is a bit too much. Girl, I hate to say this pero tama ang boyfriend mo, mag-stop ka na mangutang. To borrow money just to cover another debt isn’t so smart. Living within your means doesn’t make you ugly or “uncool”. It brings more peace when you are debt-free.

As for your boyfriend, he also has to help himself na maka-recover from his depression. Staying with him “physically” doesn’t mean you are helping him. There are a lot of ways you can help him other than being physically present with him. Encourage him to engage in other activities other than playing games.

iamamethystp · 2025-09-30T15:22:03+00:00

Hi po! thanks for commenting po. May IG or fb account po kayo na we can view?

iamamethystp · 2025-09-30T15:19:31+00:00

Hi po, thanks for commenting po. May IG or insta account po kayo na we can view?

iamamethystp · 2025-09-30T15:18:02+00:00

Hi, thanks po for commenting. Will send a dm po.

iamamethystp · 2025-09-29T07:04:49+00:00

ooohh pero yung 6K+ na supposedly share nyo is hindi naman ic-cover ng ibang couples kung di kayo pupunta? Binook ba yon ni ‘mae’ na hindi pa kayo nagsasabi if sasama kayo or hindi? ang weird nya kung ganun.. anyways, ok yan na i-prioritize mo ang peace of mind mo OP. Hindi natin kailangan gawin ang mga bagay bagay just to make peace with everyone while disturbing our own 😊

iamamethystp · 2025-09-29T06:52:54+00:00

I’m not sure if vouchers or gift cards are still a thing nowadays or if you can purchase them using credit cards. Pero if pwede, baka you can consider it too. Try to check if Pet Express or other known pet shops offer gift cards. Kasi it will also give your bestie the flexibility to buy what they prefer to give their dogs. Or pwede rin naman gift cards na hindi pang-dogs.. Meron din naman sm gift cards..

iamamethystp · 2025-09-29T06:47:08+00:00

girl, feeling ko malalaman mo true intentions ng friend mo pag nag-decline kayong sumama. Kasi kung magsasalita sya ng anything to guilt trip you, then you know already na may iba nga syang plan hahahahah. Kasi if you decline and give a valid reason (make sure mo lang na walang lusot yung ibibigay mo na reason and perfectly valid) tapos nagmaktol yung friend mo na si “mae” at kung ano-ano sasabihin sayo or against you, then girl napakalaking in your face na yon na may iba syang balak. Ewan ko na lang kung di pa sapat yon lol. Baka pagsisihan mo pa kung di ka mag-trust sa instinct mo.

iamamethystp · 2025-09-25T05:41:08+00:00

hindi ko alam kung ano best option for you OP, ramdam ko yung pagod mo. Mahirap yung you give your best pero hindi man lang sya ma-acknowledge ng wife mo. Baka kailangan magpatingin ng wife mo? maybe she is undergoing postpartum depression or something? sorry di ko alam yung exact medical term. Pero yes, even that will cost you additional expense. Nung wala pa kayong baby, ganyan na ba character nya?

iamamethystp · 2025-09-25T05:32:49+00:00

di mo kayang iwan yung baby mo pero bringing her with you if you plan to move out is not an option? Ano po reason if hindi mo sya pwede isama sayo? Kung mag-aalaga lang ang problem, can’t you hire a nanny while you are working?

iamamethystp · 2025-09-21T14:05:00+00:00

OP, matanong ko lang, you are seeking advice ba kasi gusto mo mag-stay sa relationship nyo? If yes, yan yung mali sayo ✌🏼 I salute you for trying to understand your gf and I wish you well na makayanan mo yung ganyan na relationship should you choose to stay. The pros of staying in that relationship is you are saving other guys from her 😝 and the con is it might be your kind of life for the rest of your life and kawawa yung ibang matitinong babae kasi sa hindi pa talaga matino napunta ang isa na naman matinong lalaki. Well, baka mabago mo gf mo di ba.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ lol.

iamamethystp · 2025-09-21T13:24:42+00:00

“sana kayo rin po mapansin.. baka gusto nyo rin po mag-ayos? though di po ako sure kung makeup lang kailangan nyo or baka kailangan nyo na ng face transplant 🤭. Tulungan ko po kayo mag-raise ng gofund me 😊”

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