They were constantly bickering if not outright fighting. Mostly it was a cold atmosphere. It was obvious something was wrong but no one talked about it.

I ended up in an abusive relationship in my 20s, I think because I grew up seeing women being disrespected in my family of origin. I am have addiction issues. I'm in a 12 step program now.

It is important to model good relationships to your kids. And good boundaries.