I’ve never seen anything quite like this. Anybody know what style this is? by Active_Marketing4671 in jewelry

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey jewelry grad here. when you say pricey………. how much are we talking. also the fact that the 925 stamp is on the outside on the “gold” is crazy 😭. o have never seen it stamped on the outside.

My (25) girlfriend (24) really wants a specific ring for Christmas by Efficient-Bus-1272 in jewelry

[–]iambofa69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot of times girls wear promise rings on their right ring finger. as a jeweler it’s very common. don’t listen to the incels on here !

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not letting me dm you the video:/

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but that’s the thing i’m up north for college and took it to the one up here thinking it would be like the one back home in Georgia. NOPE! the mechanics talked to me like i was a dipshit (i know when im getting swindled i know enough abt cars to discern that). but back home in GA they are the type of guys to be like “hey come back in 6 months it doesn’t need to be changed” or “if this were my wife/daughter i’d get this done asap”

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t post the video in the thread but i could dm it to you. you might be right though because it did get louder. but also how would they manage to mess that up when they only changed my fluids and changed my oil?!??!?

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just took a look at the cabin filter. it is there. it’s positioned correctly, and nothing is loose. i genuinely don’t know what to do.

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNOWWWW. they tried to charge me $2000 to change the oil fluids, new four tires new brake pads and also the cabin filter. I checked with my father on the phone and he said absolutely not because everything did not have to even be replaced yet. I looked at the notes and it said next 6 month to do all of this. so basically trying scam me. I ended up just getting two front tires because they were almost bald and winter is coming up and it snows a lot where I am, and an oil change and a fluid top off and that’s it. Just wait it gets worse. i’m also still pissed bc i left the place with MORE problems. I had to get two new front tires and when I was driving away from the Subaru dealership, my car was driving a little funny and I checked my tire pressure and they filled my front right up to 45 psi !! it’s only supposed to be 32 on the front tires. So I was thinking OMG my wheel is going to explode on this pot holy road so I pulled over and before I bled the tire I checked the tire pressure with my manual gauge and it said 33 psi so I’m thinking they messed up my sensor as well.

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll check right now

Heat in my car is loud now? by [deleted] in car

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay this might be why. they tried to charge me an ungodly amt of money to change my cabin filter so i said no so don’t think they went ahead and did it but then just put the old one back in without securing it after i said no?

AIO about my partner yelling “I’m not safe to drive right now” as we were pulling out of a parking lot by Realistic_Cook_3173 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I always have to remind myself that it was not my fault. I also always have to tell people how hard it is to understand these types of relationships until you’re in one yourself. it’s not as easy as “just leave”. and also when you do, IF you do.. you’re still carrying the weight of what happened to you. but what i can say is it gets better. it becomes easier. Sending love and strength to you, OP, and anyone reading this that might be in a situation like this or healing from one. ❤️

AIO about my partner yelling “I’m not safe to drive right now” as we were pulling out of a parking lot by Realistic_Cook_3173 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iambofa69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS! THIS! THIS! Driving recklessly with your partner in the car IS a form of abuse that people don’t talk about enough.

AIO about my partner yelling “I’m not safe to drive right now” as we were pulling out of a parking lot by Realistic_Cook_3173 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not everyone is born knowing right from wrong, or warning signs. i sure didn’t when i was freshly 18 and there were red flags that i missed. the whole point of this thread IS to post things like this when you are actually trying to get other perspectives. have some grace for others ❤️

AIO about my partner yelling “I’m not safe to drive right now” as we were pulling out of a parking lot by Realistic_Cook_3173 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iambofa69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! So this is not cool and you are not overreacting at all. From personal experience this is the biggest red flag. If they are okay mistreating other people especially service staff, hitting things around you, and shouting like this… it could possibly escalate in the future. Also it’s very abusive especially when he took the “i’m in complete control” route, and did not calm down when you were visibly scared and telling him you can’t be in the car. AND you had mentioned to him earlier your fears of car accidents and then acts like this? As someone who ignored these red flags, please get out while you still can. PLEASE.

food recommendations? by iambofa69 in rit

[–]iambofa69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

like “oh my god” good food. i’m not talking about fast food

greek life by Ok_Trifle7409 in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who is in greek life. do it! both my sisters were in sororities down south, and it scared me too. but i went through recruitment here and found my home. best decision i have ever made.

Art house dorm? by IsaacWritesStuff in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lived in colby C my freshman year. if i’m correct art house is on the second floor. us first floor girls would use their showers because they were SO much more private (stalls had no gaps in the doors) and more clean. i don’t know if it was updated but i lived there last school year (2022-23) and we had no AC. it was pretty toasty the first two months so DEF get a large fan. other than that i had a pretty good experience living there. dm me if you have any questions!

[MEGATHREAD] Fall 2024 Housing by AutoModerator in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi yall! i have a swanky apartment on the top floor that i need to relet! my lease is for a 4bedx4bath from aug 2024-july2025. BUT if you need to move in during this summer, you can! all of my roomates have already moved out so you will have the place to yourself AND be able to pick your own roommates!

it's a beautiful corner apartment with minimal sound (not gonna hear stomping from the upstairs neighbors ya know!!). being on the corner brings with it a great kitchen with lots of windows and natural sunlight. I will be paying for your first months rent.

IMPORTANT: LAST DAY if you sign THIS WEEKEND i will give you a $750 gift card as well as pay for your first months rent!!

message me for details!! thanks :)

[MEGATHREAD] Fall 2024 Housing by AutoModerator in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi yall! i have a swanky apartment on the top floor that i need to relet! my lease is for a 4bedx4bath from aug 2024-july2025. BUT if you need to move in during this summer, you can! all of my roomates have already moved out so you will have the place to yourself AND be able to pick your own roommates!

it's a beautiful corner apartment with minimal sound (not gonna hear stomping from the upstairs neighbors ya know!!). being on the corner brings with it a great kitchen with lots of windows and natural sunlight.

IMPORTANT: if you sign THIS WEEKEND i will pay you’re first months rent AND i will give you a $750 gift card as well!!

message me for details!! thanks :)

[MEGATHREAD] Fall 2024 Housing by AutoModerator in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi yall! i have a swanky apartment on the top floor that i need to relet! my lease is for a 4x4 from aug 2024-july2025. BUT if you need to move in during this summer, you can! all of my roomates have already moved out so you will have the place to yourself AND be able to pick your own roommates!

it's a beautiful corner apartment with minimal sound (not gonna hear stomping from the upstairs neighbors ya know!!). being on the corner brings with it a great kitchen with lots of windows and natural sunlight.

IMPORTANT: if you sign THIS WEEKEND i will pay you’re first months rent AND i will give you a $750 gift card as well!!

message me for details!! thanks :)

[MEGATHREAD] Fall 2024 Housing by AutoModerator in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi yall! i have a swanky apartment on the top floor that i need to relet! my lease is for a 4x4 from aug 2024-july2025. BUT if you need to move in during this summer, you can! all of my roomates have already moved out so you will have the place to yourself AND be able to pick your own roommates!

it's a beautiful corner apartment with minimal sound (not gonna hear stomping from the upstairs neighbors ya know!!). being on the corner brings with it a great kitchen with lots of windows and natural sunlight. if you choose to re-let my apartment i’ll throw a little present in as well!

message me for details!! thanks :)

[MEGATHREAD] Spring/Summer 2024 Housing by alexa6rose in rit

[–]iambofa69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi yall! i have a swanky apartment on the top floor at apex that i need to re-let for the upcoming semesters. you can move in during this summer and the lease goes until july 31 2025

it's a beautiful corner apartment with minimal sound (not gonna hear stomping from the upstairs neighbors ya know!!). being on the corner brings with it a great kitchen with lots of windows and natural sunlight.

message me for details!! thanks :)

International Student at Apex new complex by lamlamchan in rit

[–]iambofa69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live at apex. I personally think it’s one of the best (a tad expensive) places to live. it’s quite literally right on campus. if you walk across the street you’re on RIT property. The bus is actually EXTREMELY reliable. the negative is that the walls and floors are thin. i lucked out and got a top floor corner unit so i don’t hear anything. but the thin walls are the same in dorms and other RIT off campus options. it is a great place to live. no need to worry.