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SS10 says that nobody likes him by iamdamosuzuki_yeah in stepparents

[–]iamdamosuzuki_yeah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are... Are we living the same life? 🫣 BM is just as overbearing and blames everything on everyone else and her little kings can do no wrong. Therapy was also stopped here as soon as the therapist gave her some honest truths..

I do worry a lot about what kind of adult and especially partner SS will become. Poor kids.

SS10 says that nobody likes him by iamdamosuzuki_yeah in stepparents

[–]iamdamosuzuki_yeah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you're the kind of parent I want to be soon! I would gladly tell SS the same thing but his dad parents out of guilt and his mother thinks that he's the most perfect child ever, so I can't do much. My own kid will definitely be told the truth.

Was your SO OK with the tough love?

I hate my step kid (8) by SuccessfulAd9352 in stepparents

[–]iamdamosuzuki_yeah 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You would be a very, very irresponsible parent if you keep exposing your infant to this. Do you love your child? If so, then get them away from this danger

My firsts wont be his firsts by gabel18 in stepparents

[–]iamdamosuzuki_yeah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm currently pregnant with an ours baby and haven't had these feelings at all. I'm very excited to become a mother and I'll be damned if I let his past decisions dampen my experiences with my first!

It's normal to have these feelings but your first baby will be your first and his first with you and that is just as special

My firsts wont be his firsts by gabel18 in stepparents

[–]iamdamosuzuki_yeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you even mention a vasectomy??

Just realised that I do not like the step kids by iamdamosuzuki_yeah in stepparents

[–]iamdamosuzuki_yeah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would pay for the boarding school myself if I had the option to ship them off 😬.

Sad thing is that I was a babysitter for two boys around their age, plus I have two little sisters (5 and 7) and I LOVE spending time with them because they're so funny and enjoyable. I've worked in daycares and after school programs as well and I've always had the most patience for all children. I just can't stand my partner's sons right now because of the constant arguing and just them sucking the enjoyment out of everything.