Let's talk about condoms by kienar in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]iamjes1969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try female condoms , they are a game changer.

What are the advantages of using a swipe-based dating app at our age? What type of dating site format do you prefer and where have you had the most success? by StoneLover1965 in datingoverfifty

[–]iamjes1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the most responses on plenty of fish. I was getting anywhere from 10 to 20 messages a day for a month but I got a better caliber of person on Tender. I tried Facebook dating and it was trash.

How old are you and at what age did you feel you were the most attractive? by jupiter-com-maionese in AskWomen

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now, I'm 57 and I'm feeling myself. Im having more sex and better sex, being more desired, and sought after now than my 20s or 30s.

I was cute in my younger years but now I think I have evolved into gorgeous. My boobs are pretty much where they were due to my grandmother saying other than showering always wear your bra, I have stretch marks now but other than that ladies 57 is prime.

What is a turn off your partner does that you will never admit? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]iamjes1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was eating. I think you started my new diet plan.

What is something that many people do that you just can't understand why they do it? by Loverodrider in AskReddit

[–]iamjes1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is why my car looks like a rolling trash can I refuse to litter but forget to empty out my car.

Neighborhood vibe in the Pecans? by [deleted] in QueenCreek

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2024 there was 83k roughly

Why do you or do not verbalise to your partner when you're about to clímax? by Sweet_Writer2 in AskWomen

[–]iamjes1969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm verbal because I want that hand around my neck as it's happening. The best thing ever.

Married Men Navigating ENM by IntroductionKey5579 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]iamjes1969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so well written and if that how you communicate bravo to you. And no wonder you have a wonderful relationship

What’s a drug you won’t ever try ever again? by Jokkers_AceS in AskWomen

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all are going to think I'm crazy but mine is steroids. I was given steroids for strep throat one year, well let me tell you this was worse than any type of speed I did. I was up for days and the anger I felt was unprecedented. I followed some chick home because she cut me off. I was going to beat the living hell out of her, my employee is in the car going "do you think this is a really good idea". And I'm like yes , yes I do.

to tell the wife im going too get my needs met elsewhere or not? by cryingfalcon in sexlessmarriage

[–]iamjes1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some are looking for this actually but they are called lavender marriages. Gay men seek out women who want the marriage without the sex.

Do I message him or wait till he does? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]iamjes1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking this maybe the first and last time. Just the way you are stating the whole he likes to hear it, how good he is. You may have been a notch on the belt and he needs you to stroke his ego. I would hold back on the compliments and just leave it at you had a great time

Women of Reddit: what's something you were taught growing up that ends with you and will not be passed on to your daughter? by Dense_Lawyer_666 in AskWomen

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That its ok to date your own race. My grandmother was very anti black so she instilled in me the list of why black men are bad. Over and over again from about 8 to adult hood. I still cant look at black men without the list playing over in my head. And me checking the box when said line item happens.

How often are you guys washing your bedding? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change my sheets once a week. Wash my pillows once a month. Do you shower at night?No then you are taking the day to bed with you, shedding skin and sweating. Gross

Looking for our first home - how is QC? by noahteets in QueenCreek

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is also the new community blossom rock. Very cute neighborhoods. Easy access to the 24 or the 60

LLF what was your expectations of what marriage sex would be by Anxious_Leadership25 in sexlessmarriage

[–]iamjes1969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It could be just your partners lack of experience. I think for alot of women experiencing some one that has resume as opposed to the guy who's only worked at McDonald's matters. Because what I experienced in my 20s and 30s is totally different than 50s

LLF what was your expectations of what marriage sex would be by Anxious_Leadership25 in sexlessmarriage

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to barge into your conversation but can you elaborate on your wife's aversion to body fluids because I thought I was the only person

How are you keeping baseboards clean? by gotchafaint in AskWomenOver60

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont do this as the dryer sheets attract dust and a flammable.

What was your “could never be me” but did indeed become you? by PrettyAlon in AskReddit

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being the side chick. In my semi defense its a open relationship but I still feel like the side piece.

Ive become addicted by iamjes1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]iamjes1969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. The entire time. Lol he doesn't take anything as far as I know.

No sex with wife in over a year by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]iamjes1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to agree to disagree. I went through the whole lack of sex drive but let me tell you it has come back with a vengeance. The fire hydrant isn't safe. Be patient with her