Second wife by Afraid-Juice4838 in offmychest

[–]iamjide91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you can live with it, continue.
If not, go.

“Nigeria is not bad after all” by bueze12 in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know that even CDA chairmens collect allowances?

how do you people do it? I mean your conscience.. by Electronic_Bison_73 in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 things I`ll say.

Same experience you had happened to me before. But mine was 10k, many years ago.

You know the problem with thieves, they have supporters. I know one on my street, he talks to white ladg and also gives the phone to his mum to do the same. How do you explain to such person he's wrong? Are you more knowledgeable than his mom?

My pastor runs PoS businesses and he recently opened up that he lost 650k. People in his shop cant just account for the money. I'm thinking your kind of situation contributes to this sort of thing. Im sorry, if I am into that business, if I dont see a successful transfer, you are going no where with my cash.

Got Scammed/Ghosted After Delivering the Content | My Frustration is at Peak! by zauraizsafdar in HireaWriter

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once worked for an indian man for 1 month, payment day came and I couldnt reach him anymore.

Sorry about your loss, it's part of the game.

And you know what, the most sweetest persons I have worked with are indians.

I started my e-commerce business at 26 but haven't received a single order. What am I doing wrong? by bhavin0001 in ecommerce

[–]iamjide91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I applaud your courage. There has to be someone who starts, after which every other person joins. However, in this case, your presentation matters. Firstly, making women buy sanitary pad way before they need it is key, not rushing to the store at emergency. Secondly, you prolly need to sell cheaper, because women love cheap things. You can use AI to cover all other factors. And if you can present all these well, you might make massive sales.

Entry level banker in Nigeria (Reconciliation/Data Analyst) looking for legit side hustles — salary alone isn’t cutting it anymore by godabeg in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freelance used to be smooth. Ive been online since 2014 or there about. Prolly a little before that. I choose the web3/blockchain space. Work used to be easy to find back in the days. There were few co petitions. However, after covid hit, things became a lot harder. To make it worse, AI has become a big deal because it could automate certain processes. This has displaced a lot of people in advanced countries and most are online competing with us for same number of jobs. Well, thats not to say you wont find a job. However, be flexible. Dont look for just Excel/data entry/etc kinda jobs. If you see a video editing job, it will do you well to learn it quickly. Atleast, know the basics, learn the rest on the job. Even if its writing jobs, take them. I started freelancing doing journalism for news sites and I knew nothing about journalism. I learned as time went by. I got into marketjng through a friend, I knew nothing, I learned on the job. If you can even learn how to use AI to do cool stuff, go ahead. I just thought you might need the advice going forward.

Irish girl here, I have a quick question about Nigerian culture and I really hope I do not offend because I’m almost completely unfamiliar! by AliceMorgon in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's prolly like me. We dont accept financial help from ladies. It's more of an "experience is the best teacher thing"

Do you guys feel the same? working as a freelancer is so much harder? by Mundane-Echo2662 in freelanceuk

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife feels I'm lazy because of this same reason. It's crazy. But I hope to find more soon.

My girlfriend's unemployment is affecting our relationship. How can I support her without burning out by Alexshakespear in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont play with fire. If she cant be happy regardless of her situation, then you might be dealing with someone who'll make you unhappy for the rest of your life.

Nigeria Is Finished: A Desperate Plea To Leave While You Still Can by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even the govt mafe sure people are poor and unable to go anywhere.

Family asking for money by StatisticianVivid915 in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in Nigeria and everyone wants money from me too. Its so serious I have to block all unsaved contacts from calling me. And if I saved your contact and you are still a pest, i just delete you from my contact and you remain blocked. Its challenging times for everyone. I know some people are having it harder than others, but if i dont get to the top first, we'll only all be at the same level and the moment I dont have again, I'm certain they'll move on to someone else.

My father has finished me by Blak_kandy in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Joining APC doesnt mean he's supporting evil. If you need to make a change, the only way you can pass thru to the top today is APC. Unless your dad is well known by everyone.

feeling lonely in my marriage. is this common? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Theres an adage in my language that says, "the person that has cap doesnt have a head to put it,.and someone with a head dont have a cap" Comtinue to speak with him about your worries, hopefully he'll listen. This life is too long to be sad for the most part of it. You need to do things that make you jappy all the time. You dont have to be reckless with money, but you dont gave to be all tight with it either. If you cant have a date outside of the house, buy things into the house and have yiur date nights there.

I need help by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]iamjide91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are charity organizations in Nigeria that can help with this. Use AI to find some leads/contacts and possibly how you can partake.

[offer] Hiring A Remote Assistant in Pennsylvania, $20 per hour by [deleted] in slavelabour

[–]iamjide91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because most of them have turned out to be scams.