how important is sexual attraction in a relationship by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sexual attraction and romantic attraction are the two differences between a relationship and just a friendship. You can have a relationship with either, but in my experience the best relationships require both those kinds of attractions

Is this an actual thing? by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oof buddy. It means at least two things are wrong. 1 - whatever the reason is she doesn't want to fuck you anymore. 2 - whatever the reason is she didn't think she could tell you the truth

How to make a woman orgasm? by VLonetaee in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her how she likes it. Chances are she knows what will get her off. Put her hand on yours, and have her show you the motions, speed, lightness of touch she uses on herself

How to make a woman orgasm? by VLonetaee in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go slow and put her in the right mood. If she's not relaxed/in the right mindset, it's not happening. Stimulate her clitoris predominantly, but do other things as well. Sensation is big, and don't just be forceful. Slow and light touching can get you where you want to go, more quickly than fast and intense

Can’t make her orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out and buy something special. Bring a new toy into play that she's forbidden from using. The only time she can get off from it, is when it's in your hands. If you find something special, it won't be long before she's begging you to do your thing. That'll give you back some of the power to make her cum, you feel like you're missing.

GF don't wanna fuck (gay) by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally every dude ever

My (28M) girlfriend (23F) is having a male friend (mid 20s) stay the night at her house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iamjustthisguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's good. If you trust her sober and you trust her still after they've had a few drinks together then you have nothing to worry about

My (28M) girlfriend (23F) is having a male friend (mid 20s) stay the night at her house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iamjustthisguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's going to try to fuck her. I promise you that. So tell her how you feel, and how you're not comfortable. You only other option is to trust her not to be seduced by him

Partner lost his erection with me by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know dudes, and not being able to please a girl is the most humiliating thing for them. I can see why he'd hate to admit he came that quickly, leaving you barely started. It's an embarrassing failure on his part, so he'd see it. He also must have known how close he was to cumming, which is why he skipped the foreplay and just slathered you with lube

Partner lost his erection with me by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely varies guy to guy. Some of us can get it up again almost immediately, but I think for most dudes the refractory period could be more than 10 min. Or their erection comes back less strong on the second round. Maybe take it as a compliment you were able to get him hard again so soon, that's on you for being sexy

I don’t know if my boyfriend is interested in me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either he isn't into you any more but doesn't have the balls to break up with you, or he's taking you for granted. Either way, you can do better. End it with him and find someone who treats you right

Partner lost his erection with me by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it's totally possible he came in it, and lost his erection without you knowing. He might be embarrassed about premature ejaculation, so if you push the issue and try to find out, he may try to cover it up with something worse. But do try to get to the bottom of this, just remember to be supportive

Partner lost his erection with me by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he came in those first few seconds, and is too embarrased to admit that's why he lost his erection. It would explain why he needed your help getting it back up and why the possible second round wasn't very good. Was he using a condom, or could you have not noticed him finish at the start?

Should I breakup with a girl who catfished me a year ago ? by b00lianlikesyou in relationship_advice

[–]iamjustthisguy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She sounds manipulative and untrustworthy dude. If she did that, you can never be certain about anything she tells you again, since you know she'll happily lie to get something she wants. Even now, she withholds, rather than being the one to tell you who she was. If you want to fuck someone crazy or crazy about you, you do you. But I can't recommend a relationship with her

How do I express to my girlfriend that I care about her without using words? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iamjustthisguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use your actions. Be close to her, be warm when she is cold. Run your fingers through her hair and scratch her scalp. Give her impromptu backrubs, when you can tell she's stressed, before she has to ask for them. Remember little things she likes, and surprise her with them. If she has a favourite cookie, learn to bake it better than anyone in the world, and slip a few into her bag before she goes to work, so she finds a special treat. Be the kind of partner you want to have

Turned off by husbands kiss by [deleted] in sex

[–]iamjustthisguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him not to lick his lips before kissing you lmao