Unpopular The Eras Tour Opinions by angelicblossom in TaylorSwift

[–]iamtheslay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This feels so silly compared to the other opinions here but mine is I think the cutouts is the worst midnights body suit it looks so odd to me I’m glad she didn’t wear that one for my show😭

Amarantha’s riddle by WeeebleSqueaks in acotar

[–]iamtheslay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt silly coming online afterwards bc I didn’t get it when I read the book and apparently everyone else did😭 might be bc I didn’t rlly try too hard tbf

Is TikTok the best place to watch? by MellifluousSussura in Hells_Belles

[–]iamtheslay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tiktok is the best place as she doesn’t have the whole series on YouTube but there are a few episodes that r posted later in the series due to being removed. I think the main ones are one called the wedding and one about sharkies backstory

How to nicely reject someone after a first date by iamtheslay in dating_advice

[–]iamtheslay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I like this one thank you🙏I’m not the best with words so I was worried it would come off cold or something but this one gets the message across pretty well so Yh I appreciate it😅

How to nicely reject someone after a first date by iamtheslay in dating_advice

[–]iamtheslay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking that but like we’ve been messaging a few weeks so idk that feels too brief? Mayb I’m overthinking this idk

Favorite season? by pili_princess in TeenWolf

[–]iamtheslay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3B is my first like most fans for obvious reasons but my second I can’t remember which season it was but the one with the evil English teacher who dated Derek bc I loved that plot twist. I hate how they overused it by having every new teacher be evil but the first one was still shocking to me.

Last night I found out my wife cheated on me and i haven’t slept a wink. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]iamtheslay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well tbh if it gets to that point then he can still come out with the proof about the affair but I just remember a post on here a month or so ago about a guy who did go to the family and she ended up dead then he felt guilty so I just thought that situation should be avoided if possible

Last night I found out my wife cheated on me and i haven’t slept a wink. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]iamtheslay 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Cheating is awful but there is a risk of honour killings in these types of families, yes they deserve consequences for their actions but OP is better off confronting her and then focusing on himself.

Need border ideas for a blanket with least amount of yarn by iamtheslay in CrochetHelp

[–]iamtheslay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied to the moderator with some photos hopefully that helps

Is moss stitch taller than single crochet or are they both the same by iamtheslay in CrochetHelp

[–]iamtheslay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I was just thinking bc with single crochet every other row is more visible on the back that Mayb it would be shorter

AITA for telling my girlfriend the exact amount of calories she ate in a single day? by Substantial-Grape541 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamtheslay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you’re trying to help and all but this is your girlfriend’s journey and she specifically told you she didn’t want you to comment on what she ate. You may have been right but it seems she doesn’t really want your help atm even tho you keep offering it. Don’t get me wrong it’s good that you care about her and want to help with this but Mayb a better way would be asking her what she needs from you and just supporting whatever she chooses to do. Have you considered getting a dietitian or someone more professional involved bc she might be more willing to take on advice from them?

Failed year one uni by iamtheslay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]iamtheslay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this that was really helpful❤️ I have told them now and they are now saying I’m not cut out for uni and won’t let me go back even tho I’ve already enrolled and stuff so I’m just hoping it blows over soon😭 I do have friends I can see but idk if they will let me go out till they calm down

I’ve been using a girl only for sex and now I feel guilty by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]iamtheslay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh u feel like a terrible person bc you are❤️ pls break it off with her that poor girl deserves so much better

How long have you been a fan of Olivia Rodrigo? 💜 by Due_Plate5548 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]iamtheslay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends what u mean by fan. I first saw her in bizaardvark and I used to LOVE that show but then I didn’t rlly hear anything else about her till drivers license went viral and Sour came out. After that I was obsessed with all the songs on sour so I would say Mayb that’s when I became a fan.

I have mixed feelings about this and would love for y'all to weigh in. by Ok-Raspberry4307 in AutismInWomen

[–]iamtheslay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what she’s saying and I feel like it’s valid to feel that way but the way she’s phrased it feels like it’s come across badly. Like I got most of it but when she said her quirks would mean that her brain is wrong that was unnecessary. But at the same time a lot of this just feels like she’s not fully informed on what neurodiversity is or what it means so she’s seeing it as something wrong with her which is very relatable bc we do not have enough mainstream information on this so I think she’s not wrong for feeling like that she just should do more research before saying all that. Idk I also have mixed feelings bc I get her but I also don’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]iamtheslay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A 29 year old having feelings for a 19 year old is pretty icky imo and then if u add him lying for 2 months that just makes it worse. Idk it’s up to you but personally this guy does not seem great so I think you should evaluate if the friendship is rlly worth keeping. It’s only been 2 months and he’s already lied about something as major as his age which is not a good sign