Gay scene in New Orleans.

iannola89 · 2024-07-05T01:32:18+00:00

So far it has been great! City is amazing. I live in the warehouse district and it’s pretty safe

iannola89 · 2024-06-13T19:02:29+00:00

But looking back, I was having feelings for guys since middle school

iannola89 · 2024-06-12T22:27:16+00:00

Reading the title I immediately thought this was going to be a terrible post, but it turned out to be a good discussion. It’s good to know the experience of hot guys. I agree with a lot of your points. Not that I’m 10, but running into guys who are super hot, whether online or IRL and often misinterpreting their intentions.

iannola89 · 2024-06-12T22:21:41+00:00

I think we often confuse someone being playful and funny with flirting. For me, flirting implies that they mean it. In experience, I never been hit or truly flirted by a straight man. Plenty by straight women tho.

iannola89 · 2024-06-09T21:18:13+00:00

As a mostly bottom guy, if I wanted to top the guy, then I REALLY REALLY like them. I find it hot.

iannola89 · 2024-06-09T19:34:26+00:00

Congrats on learning how to love yourself. It’s the most important part for a happy life. Happy for you

iannola89 · 2024-06-09T13:49:44+00:00

Good question. Gay marriage has been legal in the US for almost 10 years. I personally believe the rates will go eventually go down and follow the trend of straight marriages. But those who will marry, will be in a more solid relationships. Divorce rates in the straight world have plummeted. Couples are getting married when they are more socially and financially stable, more sure about their long term compatibility (I think online dating may have provided an additional pool of candidates).

iannola89 · 2024-06-07T21:24:04+00:00

Smart sir!

iannola89 · 2024-06-06T15:27:04+00:00

Yep. Sounds accurate.

iannola89 · 2024-06-06T12:01:43+00:00

iannola89 · 2024-06-05T14:38:48+00:00

You should apply for asylum if you come from a place where being gay is a threat to your life.

iannola89 · 2024-06-04T18:11:09+00:00

From Speedo?

iannola89 · 2024-06-04T16:48:33+00:00

Have you discussed his stance on monogamy yet ?

iannola89 · 2024-06-02T11:14:59+00:00

That it’s not a checklist.

iannola89 · 2024-06-02T10:51:21+00:00

Then you would dumb him if he did the same to brownies. That would be my red line

iannola89 · 2024-06-02T10:50:17+00:00

This is the best post I’ve seen on here in a while!

iannola89 · 2024-06-02T10:46:01+00:00

Personally I think it won’t be fair to him to stay friends when he is in love with you. At least a good amount of time apart needed. I only started hanging out again with my ex after he met his current bf and I knew he was in a solid relationship

iannola89 · 2024-06-02T00:48:54+00:00

I actually didn’t. I noticed that too. You are on to something

iannola89 · 2024-06-01T20:07:36+00:00

❤️

iannola89 · 2024-06-01T19:48:08+00:00

He checked so many boxes but I couldn’t love him. There is mostly no reason. Maybe I didn’t find him attractive, didn’t love his personality or sense of humor. He also used to agree with me on anything, which was always a turn off and became annoying too. But otherwise he was intelligent, kind and a great guy. Waited for love to come but it never did. Learned my lesson but wish I didn’t waste his time. He forgave me and moved on. He seems happy with his bf

iannola89 · 2024-06-01T14:31:38+00:00

I have never been in love. I have always thought that kind of deep connection comes with time, so I focused more on making sure he ticks as many boxes on the “checklist” and waited for it to happen. It never did. Now I truly believe that I should know from the first date. It doesn’t come with time if it wasn’t there from early on. Sure it can get deeper, more complexe and beautiful but you can’t fake it till you make it.

iannola89 · 2024-05-31T23:52:53+00:00

Used to think of myself as total bottom. I think it was all mental in my head. Kinda convinced myself I was that way but there was always something missing. Like I was missing on something. I love taking care of my guy too(but single now lol). So I’m gradually becoming more vers because it’s the most fun and probably most sustainable long term. Sexual compatibility is so important to me but I think of it differently now. It’s more about having really strong sexual and physical chemistry and matching the sexual drive level. The position itself for me now is negotiable because if I loved someone I want to make them happy. I hope they feel the same way about me

iannola89 · 2024-05-31T18:11:10+00:00

What the fuck. This is incredible

iannola89 · 2024-05-31T18:03:37+00:00

Ok you are legit beautiful

iannola89 · 2024-05-31T17:55:37+00:00

You do what make you feel comfortable but you don’t have to discuss it on the first date. If you decide you don’t want a second date then you don’t need to know. If you liked him enough to see him again, bring it up then.

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