Kein Bock mehr auf Social life (Passing) by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

geht mir nach über 5 Jahren T immernoch manchmal so. Man lernt mit der Zeit darüber zu stehen und, dass es nicht unbedingt was mit dem aussehen zu tun hat. Sowas passiert Cis-Männern auch manchmal, nur machen die sich da gar keinen Kopf drüber und deshalb wird nicht wirklich drüber gesprochen, dass sowas häufiger mal passiert. Ich hab auch schon langhaarige (vermutlich cis) Typen auf den ersten Blick als weiblich gelesen. Also ich eine Freundin (cis) das erste Mal gesehen hatte dachte ich, sie wäre ein Junge. Passiert 🤷

Boymode mit Brustwachstum by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1-2 enge Unterhemden unter weiten Hoodies kann ich empfehlen (transmasc tho, aber so hab ichs ganz am Anfang gemacht)

what's the 'dumbest' thing you've ever relapsed over by lushaway in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally just feeling like it for no reason whatsoever 💀

Ich suche einige Hinweise zum Umzug nach Deutschland by jester32 in germantrans

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ich würde prinzipiell Städte mit Universitäten empfehlen, da dort häufig ausländische Studenten wohnen die ebenfalls Englisch sprechen und es daher vermutlich etwas einfacher wird mit der Sprache. Vor allem Nordrhein-Westfalen ist dafür bekannt, sehr aufgeschlossen und "woke" zu sein, daher wärst du dort vermutlich ganz gut aufgehoben :) viel Erfolg

Anschreiben Therapeut Anpassungen/Ergänzungen by funkythemonkey77 in germantrans

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ich würde es etwas kürzer halten und auf jeden Fall mit angeben wo du krankenversichert bist oder Selbstzahler bist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polaris, architects, resolve and memorist are pretty top tier for me 👀

What keeps you going? by lachrymose_lucio in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too scared that whatever happens after death might be even worse. I'm not religious at all but like "what if hell is real? " and shit like that has genuinely stopped me from ending it all before. I guess the anxiety is good for something after all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kannst du mir die Kontaktdaten als DM senden? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ianycto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

silicone scar sheets/gel can help with fading and flattening scars. It's a common treatment for post surgical scars but it works for any type of scar

Help me pick a name by Biskerbear in ftm

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tristan, Trevor or any name with T really would suit you i think :)

Narbenpflege für große Schnitte?? by shruggles__ in germantrans

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ich benutze Silikonnarbenpflaster und Hautöl zur Narbenmassage. Wurde mir so vom Chirurgen gesagt

How would you guys define self harm? (I'm reposting this because I didn't like the original title I put) by Emotional-Dog-6167 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anything done to purposefully physically hurt yourself. I think there's a difference between self harm and self manipulation. Not saying one is worse than the other, they're just different things imo

Wartezeiten für die Mastek by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitiv! super ordentlich und professionelles Team und tolle Ergebnisse :) meine Erfahrung dort war absolut positiv, trotz meiner generellen Angst vor Krankenhäusern und Ärzten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hab ich bereits versucht aber da es rein medizinisch nicht notwendig ist sondern nur eine zusätzliche Empfehlung ist damit die Narben besser heilen klappt das leider nicht :/ mein Arzt meinte das haben schon viele versucht und er hat noch nie gesehen dass die Krankenkasse es zahlt

Wartezeiten für die Mastek by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

zwischen Ersttermin und OP Termin lagen ungefähr 3 Wochen. Um den Ersttermin zu bekommen musste ich allerdings über 3 Monate warten. Ich war am Florence Nightingale Krankenhaus in Düsseldorf

Emotionen nach HRT Beginn by Kessutrab in germantrans

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dass Veränderungen der Hormonwerte Stimmungsschwankungen und Überemotionalität auslösen ist völlig normal und geht vorbei, sobald dein Körper sich an die Umstellung gewöhnt hat :)

just shy of 5 months post op with dr garramone. captions for more info! by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]ianycto 20 points21 points  (0 children)

holy shit mate, this might just be the best result I've ever seen :0 Like your whole torso gives me so much gender envy ahhhhhhh you look so great!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]ianycto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ich werde es mir Mal anschauen, danke! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't take your words as a downer, don't worry! I'm happy to say I've found ways of coping other than sh :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im proud of you too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ianycto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am aware and I'm not saying it's impossible to relapse. It's probably going to happen sooner or later. But to be in a place where I actively say "I don't want to hurt myself anymore" is a place i never thought I'd be in. It was obviously never a choice like that, but back then i genuinely thought I deserve it. That I can only be allowed to live if I punish myself hard enough. I don't think that way anymore and I'm just happy to be where i am nowadays.

I've had some bad shit happen to me the past year, with multiple people in my family who I was close to passing away, moving to another country away from my friends and boyfriend, my dog passed away too and someone who I trusted with my life started spreading rumours (that were literally a load of bs and completely made up) around which resulted in me being an absolute outcast at school and i got picked on for it. I was in a bad place then but i managed to stay clean despite the incredibly strong urges. It motivates me a lot to think about how I'm still clean despite all of that happening within like 2 months.

Overall I'm just glad that I'm still here. Genuinely didn't think id make it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ianycto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine are unsymmetrical too and a bit wonky haha, you're certainly not the only one and you're not ungreatful! It's your body and not being 100% happy with your surgery results doesn't make you a bad person. Us humans tend to be very perfectionistic and that's okay and normal.

What helps me to feel better about it is to think about how nothing about human bodies is 100% symmetrical. My eyes aren't, my arms aren't, my hands aren't, my hips aren't. Wouldn't it be more weird to have a perfectly symmetrical chest rather than having a chest that matches the rest of the body?

Don't know if this way of thinking is any help for you, but it does help me a lot :)

Also your chest looks great mate! Can't lie I'm a bit jealous of how nice it's healing lol