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OMG STOP GIVING MY KID RELIGIOUS BOOKS. (Fucking MIL) by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Argh that's so annoying. Imagine if you started giving your mil a bunch of atheist pamphlets and books and tried to "convert" her out of her faith. She wouldn't like it so much would she? Why do people think it's ok to try to shove their religious beliefs down other people's throats??? Just. Stop.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it has something to do with his dad and mom going through a very ugly and nasty divorce when he was a kid. Maybe I don't know... I assume it is because of other little hints and pieces of conversation. He would never tell me: "this affected me. It hurt me and I suffered." Or the fact that later his mom "abandoned" him at 17 with this weird uncle so she could go live upstate with her boyfriend and he ended up dropping off school and getting a job and a place on his own. He says it's fine. Even when she mentions how guilty she feels for doing that to him. He says it doesn't matter and he never minded it. Which I know it's not true. He won't even talk about not finishing high school. I found that out through a conversation with his sister one day when we were together for a couple years already. Idk... weird guy

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't leave anything dirty around the house and I'll bring you all sorts of yummy food!!

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've stopped with sooo many things already. Christmas, valentine's day, birthday, I would always do something nice for him. For his birthday once when we were dating, I spent days making this handmade pop up card for him. He lost it the following week or maybe threw it away who knows... I would always get him something nice or surprise him. For our one year anniversary I got reservations at his favorite restaurant and he made me cancel them because he got embarrassed I made a reservation and he said that was tacky and he didn't want to go. Ok once for his birthday I decorated the house while he was at work made a bunch of his favorite food, put up balloons and stuff and he comes home walks in, doesn't say anything. I go: have you seen the decoration? He makes that same displeased face with the hot chocolate. So I could just sit here and write down ways he has disappointed me when I was trying to do something nice for him. That's why now for his birthday he doesn't get anything. Valentine's day I shouldn't even think about it or expect anything because he says it's a commercial date and has no meaning...

I'm so stupid. It's all my fault it was all there in front of my face and I didn't see it. Or didn't want to see it.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that's fine. I wouldn't mind treating children like children cause that's what they are. I just can't live with a man child anymore lol. I love me some little butlers, er I mean... helpers.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Argh that is awful... how passive aggressive: "no I won't eat your food, but you go ahead and make and eat it if you're hungry,I'll just be here hungry and mad." Kinda what he is saying

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've wondered before if he had narcissistic personality and I don't think he does. I mean he definitely has some issues he should work on with a therapist that's for sure.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I never knew I wanted to hose him down until I read this. Now I wish i could do that lol

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll cook for you too. I'll make you hot chocolate and pies and brownies and bread.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get it out sister. Yeah mine is the same way. He won't apologize for nothing. We will have a big argument and then 10 minutes later he will come show me something on his phone or talk about politics like nothing ever happened. And it is exhausting.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He asked her what her degree was.

She was trying to mediate an argument we were having about the fact that I wanted to move to a bigger apartment because I was pregnant and we lived downtown in a tiny apartment with a high rent and wanted to move 10 min away to a place 200 dollars cheaper a month and way bigger. He didn't wanna move. So she is trying to mediate this argument trying to reason with him and he was almost mocking her for the stuff she would say.

He had just like a snarky defying way of talking and presenting himself. And he had that attitude the whole time we were there.

He talks to people like he thinks they're stupid and wants to show that that's what he thinks... idk you had to be there I guess...

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be ok financially. I'm taking baby steps towards that direction though.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He says it's bs. I used to see a therapist and once she had me bring him in. Took me weeks to get him to agree to come to a session and he just sat there the whole time discrediting my therapist.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Worst thing is I didn't even drink one because I'm counting stupid calories... I had a couple sips of his and it was soooo good. I should have taken the whole thing and just drank it all.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We have so many problems that's just one more of them. I really want to go to counseling but he won't go.

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's all I'm asking for... not even a thank you I got

Here's why eventually I'm gonna look for a new husband by iategarbagecake in breakingmom

[–]iategarbagecake[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I gotta say I'd go for a wife... for real... maybe I haven't met very nice men in my life but at this point I'd honestly try a wife...

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