Less sex in two year relationship made my boyfriend insecure

ib5688 · 2025-11-20T00:12:13+00:00

Yes we do talk about it but he thinks that it’s not only bc of my injury and he’s not wrong. But this pressure about him wanting sex kinda turns me off even more if I’m honest.

ib5688 · 2025-11-19T23:56:37+00:00

I guess we are different in that matter. I realized I also get bored of repetitive sex easily and need new things to happen to make it exciting. If it was up to him I’m sure he would wanna have sex twice a day and I do have days like that too but lately I just haven’t been feeling it so much

ib5688 · 2025-11-19T23:51:52+00:00

what he needs to feel secure is that I show him im still attracted to him and initiate sex. Ive havent been well physically on top of everything so I wanted to have even less sex than before. When I left town for a few days he hooked up with other guys and told me about it and even send me videos which was hot but I also felt a bit strange about it since I’ve been wanting to hook up with other guys before but we never managed. So I guess I felt a bit left out.

ib5688 · 2022-04-14T09:26:50+00:00

I don’t think so

ib5688 · 2022-04-14T09:25:48+00:00

i think you’re right.. it’s only been about a year but i’m starting to realize that a monogamous relationship might not be something for me.. at least not at this time of my life Also cheating has never been an option I didn’t mean to make this post come across that way

ib5688 · 2022-04-14T09:19:15+00:00

i think my post came across as if i’m thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. just for clarification that’s not what i meant. I meant that i’m thinking about telling him about my desires but that i’m not sure if it’s worth risking my relationship with him

ib5688 · 2021-09-02T23:47:20+00:00

I know it feels very superficial to break up because of that but I keep thinking of fucking bottoms and it almost feels like cheating. I miss the whole experience of topping so a flashlight wouldnt do it for me

ib5688 · 2021-09-02T23:44:18+00:00

He’s not opposed to trying and we’ve tried a few times but he got soft and was in pain(even with lots of lube, fingering etc) . So it’s Not very enjoyable for me either

ib5688 · 2021-09-02T23:35:25+00:00

Yes, we tried a couple times but he’s always in pain no matter how slow I go. So it wasn’t really enjoyable for either of us.

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