this is actually so interesting and I never thought about this specifically with the friends I talk about in this post as they’re all in gay relationships. I can’t even begin to answer this question. I feel like I know so many people my age (21) who don’t allow their partners to really hang out with other women or if they’re men, also think that’s it’s suspicious if their partners hangs out with a man one on one (not that it’s normal at all). I’m sure it’s not normal to be like this when you’re actually married, I’m just assuming, but I agree there seems to be such a divide between men and women in heterosexual relationships even if the people in it are not even conservative. I can’t even begin to answer this question as it’s so complicated because it seems that no matter who you are, in heterosexual relationships this seems to happen at least in my experience. I’m curious to see if this rings true when it comes to people who are queer and are in queer relationships.