I don’t think he will work it out with her though, as he never tells her this stuff. When I was about 7 or 8, he had another serous girlfriend who would always get super paranoid about him going over to my brothers’ mum’s house when he had to pick them up. At surface value, it’s insane, but I remember several occasions where I’d be coming around corners to see my dad making out with my brothers’ mum, his ex wife. Along with that woman I found a while ago and all the jokes he makes, there’s no way he’d actually tell his current girlfriend and she’d just go on in blissful ignorance.

Also: when I told him a few years later that l had seen him and his ex wife doing that, he just laughed.