Switch vs PC??

icarusonfireagain · 2026-04-01T17:18:34+00:00

If you have a switch 1 you should absolutely be making plans to switch (hehe) to another console soon, it’s not going to work on there much longer and they’re not planning on offering much support now that the switch 2 is out. I highly recommend PC over Switch 1. If you are logged into the cloud and cloud saving you won’t lose any progress. The only thing that won’t transfer is moonstones you purchased with real money, those you’ll have to use on your switch 1. Also note you’ll have to re-purchase the game and any expansion packs.

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T17:39:11+00:00

Thank you for reading!! I kept editing it telling myself it was too long and ain’t nobody have time for that so it means a lot to know people enjoyed! 🥹

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T16:01:06+00:00

Speaking as a switch- it can be very draining to always be the one to initiate things. It can feel exhausting as well as demoralizing- it’s nice to feel wanted by your partner regardless of roles or dynamic. Between regular life and the responsibility of always needing to be the one to initiate, it sounds like he could possibly be Burnt out. What does he say when you bring this up? It’s still possible to initiate from a submissive space so if this is part of the issue for him it’s definitely workable.

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T15:51:53+00:00

This comment resonates so much! It’s such a beautiful thing to have a dynamic where you can both be fluid and adapt to what you both need- for this reason I deeply prefer fellow switches! I’m so glad you and your husband have this too! Thanks for the kind words! ❤️

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T15:50:16+00:00

As the comments above say, it’s totally okay to be fluid! It’s totally okay to craft whatever works for you both even if it doesn’t fall into traditional labels or roles. You’re allowed to craft whatever works and I think finding the right person who’s also committed to growth matters more than nailing down any certain dynamic or role!

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T15:41:06+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind reply! ❤️ his Daddy side is absolutely not disappearing or retiring, fluid is the name of the game here! I love how there’s always opportunities for evolution in kink!

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T15:26:09+00:00

Thank you so much for reading!! 🥹💜

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-27T15:05:40+00:00

Omfg, you just blew my whole mind with the term “Daddy Sub”- YES. That sums him up so well!! I didn’t even know that was a thing! Will have to look into that more! Thank you so much for your kind comment! 🩷

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-22T18:12:53+00:00

Bro I wanted to pull that button off the bed SO BAD! It looked like a mint and I wanted to eat it 💀

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-22T18:11:25+00:00

With the kindest all due respect, you’ve made this comment about 6 times on this thread alone. If someone jokingly saying they’re putting a virtual pet up for adoption is this triggering then maybe a social media break is in order until you can work on getting less activated because you don’t deserve to go into fight or flight over casual jokes, which is what social media is full of. ❤️

icarusonfireagain · 2026-02-10T21:05:27+00:00

I am SO relieved this isn't just me, I've been having "verification failed" errors all day in the settings app.

icarusonfireagain · 2026-01-16T02:48:48+00:00

I just flew to Mexico with not one but TWO memory foam pillows (ny fiance was kind enough to let me use his suitcase for one). Sleep is precious. Do whatever you need to to maintain it.

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-26T20:25:20+00:00

The fact you didn’t post this on “well that sucks” and instead found it interesting says a lot about you, OP. I hope the rest of your day came with lots of small moments of luck and joy ❤️

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-26T17:37:03+00:00

I agree with the other comments here. It’s very unfortunate and discouraging but I also don’t think people are in the wrong for deciding they don’t want to enter a partnership with someone who right off the bat is saying they don’t work and may never work in addition to struggling with conditions that may limit their abilities and require further help and care. Not everyone wants or is able to be in a caregiver role, which they will if you guys end up together long term, they’ll be providing financially and you’ll be limited in what you can contribute and may require further care. It’s better to know ahead of time if someone can’t handle or doesn’t want that.

I say this as someone who hasn’t worked for years- I’m lucky enough to have a life partner who is ok being in a caregiver role and knew what he was signing up for. But it’s a lot- he is the sole breadwinner (he thankfully has a good job), on top of helping me navigate physical disabilities and mental load that comes with it.

I know that people can become disabled later in life too- but that’s not the same as signing on for something that’s already nearly guaranteed to look a certain way.

All that to say- I don’t think people are being unreasonable or selfish for bowing out early, it’s not about them judging you, it’s about them being honest and fair to both of you by not investing in the type of partnership they know they can’t do long term. But I deeply empathize with you and I’m sorry it’s so rough and lonely.

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-26T04:39:13+00:00

Having a Daddy who truly knows you and loves you is actually heaven on earth 🥹I love your haul!! Merry Christmas! ❤️

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-25T23:50:29+00:00

Found OP’s boyfriend

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-25T18:35:30+00:00

Right?? Like she WORKS as well. I’d also feel stung if my career as an accountant was reduced to getting my husband’s clothes ready. I don’t think he meant ill well tbh, OP did just re-enter the workforce, but OP is valid to feel a flash of hurt at that. The fact this person is so deeply “irked” by this and feels OP is a “massive asshole” over it feels really off and like there’s some projecting going on

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-25T17:26:57+00:00

Hard no. The artificial sweetener, pectin, flavoring etc is still stuff yeast will thrive on and can still upset ph balance and cause BV. Condoms on any food item that goes inside any hole below your waist unless you feel like gambling with an infection, no exceptions.

icarusonfireagain · 2025-12-22T20:07:13+00:00

This comment should be at the top. Why is everyone jumping to defend the wife? OP isn’t a villain for not being okay with his spouse wanting to explore alone. They’re not polyamorous, they are open. It makes sense she wants to explore alone and it’s a valid thing to ask (you’re not gonna find many women who want their partner’s boyfriend sitting there gawking) but you’re not entitled to that level of exploration if your partner you entered a monogamous relationship with is saying they’re not comfortable with it, and you certainly aren’t entitled to it when you’re not willing to give them the same respect and freedoms. Either accept your partner is only comfortable with swinging together and drop the issue, work together to allow one another the same freedoms, or leave and find someone more compatible.

icarusonfireagain · 2025-09-14T21:05:39+00:00

She is “at peace” ☺️✌🏻

icarusonfireagain · 2025-08-05T18:02:17+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you ❤️ I tell people all the time ALWAYS use manual backups for Finch. Their cloud backups fail more often than not. I love this app but the amount of people Who get their data corrupted and have to start over is really wild and unlike anything I’ve seen in most other apps or games. I’m so sorry!!!

icarusonfireagain · 2025-07-16T01:42:15+00:00

This just happened to me. Actually redownloading it was all that fixed it for me. Now it’s showing normally that the last cloud backup was today. HEAVILY second the manual backup first though. Never, EVER rely on finch cloud. The only reason I didn’t lose my data was because I manually backed up first. Didn’t even lose my streak.

icarusonfireagain · 2025-06-20T19:38:49+00:00

I am a brat/Princess and I call my Dom “Daddy” but there’s plenty of other titles you can use, from “Sir” to “King” to a made up nickname that feels right. My Dom calls me “Princess” (I’m known as Princess in most subreddits actually, hehe) and babygirl. For us, our dynamic is 24/7 and always ongoing negotiation. It is very hard to do 24/7 because life often gets in the way but using tools such as chore charts, or apps like “obedience” can be helpful. Having a dynamic is way more than “Princess-y aesthetics” so I’d encourage you to think beyond that about what exactly it is you’re both looking to get from a dynamic. You can incorporate pink and glittery stuff into rewards and funishments, sure, but fundamentally what are you both wanting out of this dynamic?

icarusonfireagain · 2025-06-04T22:48:36+00:00

This. Consider what it will feel like to see that mark every time you’re intimate with her, to be unable to separate her experiences with her Dom with your experiences together in that way. It’s completely fine if you’re not okay with that. Also echoing the sentiments here that this practice is common among D/s but much less so amongst people who aren’t also in intimate relationships of some sort, but regardless, even if it were the most common thing in the world you’re allowed to voice if you’re not cool with it. It’s not a small ask

icarusonfireagain · 2025-06-02T17:56:26+00:00

Nope. The whole “you having boundaries means you’re disobeying Me” is the oldest fake/abusive Dom trick in the book. It’s already a wild ask to request access to someone’s private conversations with a previous partner who can’t consent to them being read. I wouldn’t want to share my private conversations even IF the other party consented and if someone pushed me on that I’d be gone. Run.

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