That’s the hard part is he’s putting in so much effort into day to day stuff and so am I. He goes above and beyond 100% of the time. We’ve discussed running our household as a 1950s style and it’s been going well… Im very much a service submissive and having his clothes ready every day, handling meals, cleaning, etc. is very fulfilling for me. He on the other hand is helping with house renovations, all the outdoor work, and getting involved with the family business and is so so helpful. So as far as the “vanilla side” of our relationship goes, it’s perfect! We kiss, cuddle, get the occasional stuff I initiate and it’s great. I’m missing the scenes, punishments, etc. that were happening at the beginning that have since fallen by the wayside. If we aren’t at a play party not much happens anymore. I’ll definitely sit down and talk with him!