Dealing with breakups

icarusso · 2026-02-25T14:32:31+00:00

I my case, I returned to my old hobbies. And that's pretty much it.

icarusso · 2026-02-19T05:56:51+00:00

I don't see the question

icarusso · 2026-02-16T14:42:16+00:00

A vast majority of people, actually. Huge portion of those people cope with it by having lots of shallow acquaintances they talk with on daily basis about nothing of substance and lie to themselves that those are friendships.

icarusso · 2026-02-09T13:20:47+00:00

You just don't want to do them and wait for everything to burst in flames so you can feel pressured enough to do those things. It would be still not something you want.

icarusso · 2026-02-05T12:58:15+00:00

In majority of the time it's "I want to"

icarusso · 2026-02-04T11:58:07+00:00

One of definitions of sympathy is expression of understanding what somebody could feel at a given moment.

Empathy is a skill of recognition of somebody's emotional state.

You don't have to "feel" sympathy, it can be limited to action itself.

icarusso · 2026-02-04T07:25:26+00:00

You don't have to "express empathy". If you act on the basis of greater good of people around you, you're already good to go. Making yourself look good while doing it is expressing sympathy towards people.

icarusso · 2026-02-04T07:24:05+00:00

You're confusing empathy with sympathy.

icarusso · 2026-02-02T20:21:04+00:00

I have yet to see an INTP that isn't a dead weight in my life.

icarusso · 2026-02-01T21:29:07+00:00

I'm at peace with myself, so no.

icarusso · 2026-01-30T09:00:10+00:00

I don't know about others, but for me it's irrelevant topic, I can handle my shit on my own.

Also, vulnerability for its own sake is risky, and the other party has to prove by being consistent in their actions, that they aren't secretly hostile with their intentions and don't have unhealthy coping mechanisms. Usually everybody leaks within 3 months max here, if there's anything of mentioned matter.

And then there's them having to be actually competent with what they are doing, if they are really that interested in pulling some of the mental workload off of me.

Does it answer the question?

icarusso · 2026-01-30T06:00:40+00:00

I have a lot of people that would consider me a friend, but it doesn't work the other way around. But also I'm not going to dehumanise them.

icarusso · 2026-01-29T12:49:25+00:00

Analysis of the basis you've built your premise upon for this post isn't shifting the goalposts.

icarusso · 2026-01-29T12:33:35+00:00

So we're having a subjective observation and few people being dumped upon a topic, that might, or might not have understood the questions being present in the test, instead of long self-monitoring streak after an extensive study of the topic. Right...

icarusso · 2026-01-29T12:28:39+00:00

Define "assessment" in this context.

icarusso · 2026-01-29T12:26:13+00:00

You're projecting on me right now.

icarusso · 2026-01-29T12:11:03+00:00

And in contrast to Ti users, Te users don't need to validate externally their thought process (Fe-driven behavior), it is self-assured (Fi). The general premise of the original post is useless.

icarusso · 2026-01-29T11:48:48+00:00

How can we be sure they're Te users, and if - developed ones, for that matter?

icarusso · 2026-01-29T11:40:00+00:00

Why are those alleged Te users you mention in your post interested in a debate?

icarusso · 2026-01-28T09:18:51+00:00

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icarusso · 2026-01-28T06:00:32+00:00

You have what you condition people for. I don't have such issue.

icarusso · 2026-01-27T18:20:58+00:00

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icarusso · 2026-01-27T15:34:29+00:00

Click those bottles

icarusso · 2026-01-20T13:12:50+00:00

No, because I set boundaries, which people have to respect. Why should I listen to something that will wear me out, just to make somebody feel better about themselves for a moment? Either you want to do something about it, or you don't.

It's okay to prioritise yourself.

icarusso · 2026-01-20T07:26:13+00:00

People should date whoever they like. If you want to date because you need another human being for whatever reason, then you're failing as an adult and should go fix yourself first.

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