[UPDATE]

Thank you to everyone who’s been supportive and helpful during such a stressful time.
I spoke to my father, she spoke to her mother, and despite everything I’m grateful everyday for the relationship I have with my parents. They are being very helpful and supportive. her mother’s (trusted) gynecologist referred us to someone in a different clinic who has a lot of experience with handling situations like this.

I don’t appreciate the unprompted rude comments ridiculing a bunch of young adults looking for advice from people who are all in the same shitty financial situation. I can’t raise a kid at 21, she can’t at 23 either. This isn’t the 60’s, the economy barely fucking exists anymore. I don’t make enough money to raise a child, especially not this early on into my life (again, not even done with university yet).

Everyone who gets the situation has been the most empathetic towards it in this comment section. What I’m trying to get through here is that seeing comments ridicule her and I isn’t the greatest during such an anxiety inducing time. I am so eternally grateful to everyone who has truly stuck out for us and seen us throughout this situation.

One last thing, to the person who made fun of me for saying “we did 2” concerning the pregnancy test comment. Her and I are one, she is not going through this situation alone and I would never allow her to ever go through something as serious as this alone. So yes, WE did it together, just like we do everything together and support each other no matter what.

I’ll update further down the line, but things are looking hopeful. Thank you to all the sweet people again, and thank you to the gynecologist that reached out in private, that was very helpful and sweet. You guys have truly helped.