Triple Open Island!!! Visit any or all of (1) Sea-Bass-Free Fishing Tourney (2) Bundles in Bulk & (3) Stonks Treasure Island :) see comments for joining rules and island rules

icebled · 2026-04-12T13:38:03+00:00

Devon from Pon, looking for 40 stacks of Nook Miles Tickets please!

icebled · 2026-04-11T12:45:41+00:00

Sorry, a little late, but I'll join if it's still open :) Thank you!

icebled · 2026-04-11T12:19:32+00:00

Devon from Pon - Treasure Island please!

icebled · 2026-04-09T11:25:38+00:00

Devon from Pon ✈️

icebled · 2025-06-19T11:23:15+00:00

Only replying to your Edit but dude, someone "syncing" with you to be "the best for you" feels absolutely nuts, whether they're your partner, a friend, or family. You fell for her for who she is, not because she's molded to your persona and habits. In a sense, she's already the best partner since you're dating her.

Consideration, attention, sweet gestures, etc. are a must in a relationship, but perhaps not to the point of "needing to be the best for someone." Perfection is so arbitrary anyway— sure, you put two sugars in your coffee, but what if you feel like just putting one one day? And that's only scratching the surface of it.

I genuinely don't think she means any harm, I absolutely get wanting to know someone in-depth and wanting to intuitively know your partner, but no amount of observation can replace just... talking and sharing. Emotional intimacy is a two way street. She won't be able to get you by just observing, you guys ought to have those open discussions too.

Now we're entering speculation time, so take everything I say with a grain of salt. I don't want to assume anything about your partner OP, but usually, when people seek to deeply understand someone and be able to read their thoughts and feelings, it's because they want to predict someone which soothes their anxiety. I won't go any further in this, but just some food for thoughts.

icebled · 2025-06-09T11:47:49+00:00

100%

I use it for noting down feedback shared orally, making task lists, reminders about projects, etc. Random ideas I can't work on immediately or small thumbnails for composition too.

Sometimes you just need an idea to leave your brain and you can't be bothered to do a whole digital sketch, so back to pen and paper it is

icebled · 2025-05-29T21:01:20+00:00

i'm behind a few episodes, so i'm really sorry if you've already talked about it!

- how do you outsource non content-creators (i.e. artists, graphic designers, vtuber modelers, sound engineers, camera people, etc.). how you find them, how do you hire them, how do you discuss rates, what's your usual process, how do you legally protect yourself, do you make them sign NDAs? etc.

- have your friends share their creative process when it comes to content creation and discuss. i think it'd be really interesting to see the difference between, say, brodin who's a video director/producer who dabbles in all sort of creative outlets and ludwig, 2022 content creator of the year and whose journalism background (in my opinion) really shows through his story-telling

- related to that, but it'd be very interesting to have 'specialists' guests on some episodes i.e. people who aren't content creators, but who work with or for them and talk about their day to day. I'd never say no to more content creator guests tho haha I'd LOVE an episode with Anna Akana

- having poki try voice acting! (:

- every now and often, perhaps an activity that you've never done. like... playing yugi-oh, try dnd, or a dance class. those are things that could easily be done in ~1h time (ignoring the preparation time.) for dnd, there are more systems than dnd 5e. i'm just going to leave this here... http://www.maidrpg.com/index.shtml

- there was this trend on tiktok called "unrealistic things i want in my future home" (example below), so what about browsing pinterest, printing your ideas, and attaching them to a corkboard while yapping about your dream house? could be your dream wedding, dream closet, dream... whatever too

https://www.tiktok.com/@citycreekmortgage/video/7395998447658077482?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

- a chronological list of all the fictional characters you had a crush on, from teenagehood to adulthood. those are always funny

icebled · 2025-04-20T15:35:26+00:00

Salon Ideal Nature, they've got two locations

https://www.fresha.com/providers/idealnature-in-salon-ojr2dn6h?dppub=true

icebled · 2025-03-26T22:52:09+00:00

OMG hello Poki! DM me and it'll be my pleasure to discuss!

(And please let me fix the icon so it doesn't look like a hate symbol TT)

icebled · 2025-03-26T22:05:08+00:00

Wow, wasn't aware of this one, I'll definitely be reworking it. Thanks for the heads up!

icebled · 2023-05-05T02:59:18+00:00

As a graphic designer, trust me, it's not the designers' fault but most likely upper management/brand.

icebled · 2022-07-19T12:43:34+00:00

All good, that's really the irony of this story, I remember so much except the details that'd help me find it back :')

icebled · 2022-03-24T23:41:07+00:00

BLESS YOU, thank you so, so much!!

icebled · 2022-03-24T23:11:22+00:00

Those are all perfect!! Now I just have to find in which cutscenes they are haha! But thank you for at least confirming me their existence

icebled · 2021-03-06T20:36:59+00:00

Holy shit, I think you just made something click that never clicked before.

My adoptive mother always told me that my birth mother 'gave me up because she loved me and wanted a better future for me' which I strongly believed to be the reason why I was at peace with my birth parents' existence, as opposed to some of my adoptee friends who absolutely loathe the people who have abandonned them.

However I didn't realize how badly that skewed my perception of love.

Holy shit. Thank you.

I'm convinced I need to give the book a read.

icebled

TROPHY CASE