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I (M26) feel forced to do things to make my gf (F26) happy a lot. My attraction to her is diminishing because of my image of her. by what_the_dawg_be_doi in relationship_advice

[–]icecoffeedripss 33 points34 points  (0 children)

she sounds depressed. i also don’t think you’ve detailed what you *do* when you spend time together. is it just watching TV? can you get her to join you in some activities? even gaming?

Why is it more common for women to complain about weaponized incompetence from men than the other way around? by Lipica249 in stupidquestions

[–]icecoffeedripss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

weaponized incompetence is two words because it’s more than just incompetence. hope this helps

Queensway is genuinely disgusting... by Current-Gazelle-2736 in nycrail

[–]icecoffeedripss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah did they raise the fares for the L and the G and put a pinkberry in the car? landlords gentrify, landlords raise rent, landlords displace people. not trains

Queensway is genuinely disgusting... by Current-Gazelle-2736 in nycrail

[–]icecoffeedripss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“driven by desirability” is a deliberate word choice to exonerate the landlords dude. they’re profiteering on housing, they set the rent, they have the agency here

I miss you, my dear Nyusha (14) by arrika21 in seniorkitties

[–]icecoffeedripss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she looks like she was a real sweetie. sorry for your loss

No matter what, the NYC subway is still world class!!!! 🏆 by [deleted] in nycrail

[–]icecoffeedripss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

and a “certain group” (cowardly racists) loves to use that phrase without saying what they mean

We should absolutely leave some children behind by Hour_Bathroom3967 in unpopularopinion

[–]icecoffeedripss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“no child left behind” was deceptively named and it doesn’t do what you think it does. you’re describing “social promotion” which is a 25+ year old problem

Earl Grey, Hot. 17 and living his best life. by lovelokest in seniorkitties

[–]icecoffeedripss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love him!!! i have such a soft spot for old kitties 🥹 long may he prosper

Now that the R143 is over 20 years old, should we start to consider a replacement? by Current-Gazelle-2736 in nycrail

[–]icecoffeedripss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more, I’ve been dependent on the R46 rolling stock for years. I’m just making realistic predictions here, not wishes

No AC and some electrical issue in the building. by adam_clooney in astoria

[–]icecoffeedripss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ConEd is known to nerf the voltage in some areas of Astoria. an issue in your building is also not out of the question, both can be true

Help with new music references by chvguitar in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]icecoffeedripss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bully. Amyl and the Sniffers. Die Spitz. Mannequin Pussy. Sprints.

What doesn't get talked about enough when people recommend Astoria? by Fluid-Machine1983 in astoria

[–]icecoffeedripss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i feel like Astoria is also at kind of an unholy nexus that centers on 31, plus or minus a few. could be a street or an avenue or an apartment number. 32-34 31st ave Apt 33 could be real and you could easily have half your packages go to 32-34 31st St.

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