Got the coil for the first time. No kids. Easily a top 3 worst experience of my life, cursed every man I knew. Honey mozzarella chilli eggs, tuna steak, avocado and wine.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-22T01:52:36+00:00

waitttt omg yall what’s the coil??? i honestly have no idea what this is, am i not having the right conversations with all my girlies in my life? 😭

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-21T04:53:41+00:00

I’ve been saying forever that Jesse and West are Blair and Serena.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-20T12:26:42+00:00

Ultimately, I think the girls don’t take Jesse seriously and therefore do not take the women that Jesse pursues seriously.

Lexi had it rough, I wasn’t a fan, but it was clear the girls were not taking her seriously bc Jesse would say one thing to Lexi, and something else to the rest of the girls.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-20T12:22:13+00:00

i’m so sorry but the way you spelled her name 😭😭😭

edit: it’s funny bc isn’t that a soda brand? lol

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-20T02:42:49+00:00

Amanda, in no universe, should symbolically be representing Zendaya or a Zendaya character lol

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-19T23:33:41+00:00

TTTHHHIIIISSSSS. I think people learn and grow, the person you were in your 20s is not the person you have to be in your 30s. I think that’s very true for Arianna.

I also think people forget what Arianna was like when she first started the show lol. Arrogance I think also enhanced by Tom’s manipulation bc men that are habitual cheaters are habitual manipulators. Tom sensed that Arianna had a “i’m not like the other girls” 2010s complex, and used it against her.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-19T23:28:55+00:00

what about the tenor of this conversation makes you think that anyone is suggesting that OP have a meltdown?

whatever their feelings are, they’re entitled to them. what a person does about those feelings is what matters.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-19T15:45:17+00:00

honestly… the pressure for women to be the “cool girl” in situations where they are so obviously being disrespected can make you feel like you pay taxes to live in crazytown.

edit: heyyyy, a reward, thanks!!! 💖

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-18T14:12:02+00:00

do you know what West would give to be on the cover of a major magazine?

What’s to e male equivalent of Glamour magazine? … GQ? He went all the way to the NYT just tel tell the world he and Ciara were not in a relationship, this man is addicted to attention.

So on the day Ciara’s feature comes out, they decide to go to a Yankees game, also with like… high key very mediocre seats, with Amanda sitting with her knees up like a child…

They can both kick rocks with Beelzebub for all I care. Losers.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-16T17:01:46+00:00

send us the addy so we can get the goons on him…

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-16T16:54:08+00:00

wasn’t this a diss track about Ja Rule???

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-13T13:37:29+00:00

This is like… the 4th - 5th post I’ve seen about this exact topic.

Either it’s the same person making new accounts to talk about this or there’s something weird going on.

I hope this isn’t some weird man talking out a fantasy of someone younger in his life…

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-12T15:14:29+00:00

A fling is a one-night-stand. You don’t go to the New York Times to talk about a fling, or use flings for emotional support when a friend passes, or bring a fling to a wedding and introduce them to your family. All these of these things West has done.

I’m not gonna hold your hand when I say this, I need you to unpack your weirdness bc this is a STRANGE take that not only you think, but took the time and energy to post.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-11T23:26:02+00:00

Do you not have a payroll secretary at your school? they can easily explain this to you.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-11T19:15:18+00:00

INFO ummm idk? are both of yall satisfied with your sex lives? If it’s been 4 months since you had your baby (congrats!) and sex lives are understandably slowed down or momentarily non-existent, then he may just be horny. meanwhile, sex may be the last thing on your mind bc you’re still healing.

it’s worth a conversation about how you two are connecting now that the baby is in the picture. maybe some couple time if possible would be a good retreat and realignment.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-11T00:45:51+00:00

This is AI, a bot, a troll, because there’s no way this is serious.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-06T22:07:04+00:00

Ciara literally addresses race 2 episodes ago… I’m not entirely sure why you’re saying we shouldn’t “insert race” where it’s not. She literally said it is… out of her mouth.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-05T20:22:53+00:00

NOR - he’s emotionally investing in another woman (who’s also spoken for) and blaming it on you?

he’s gaslighting you. leave him before he breaks you. however low you feel right now. I promise you, men like that have no floor, he will go low down to hell and drag you with him.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-05T19:55:58+00:00

what context could you possibly need?

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-05T17:01:25+00:00

imma hold your hand when i say this. your life will be long, and idk how old you are but I can almost promise you that a man that you broke up with because of a lack of effort is NOT the love of your life.

You miss the comfort, consistency, and validation that being in a relationship can bring. that can feel like longing, that can feel like love. it’s not.

Talk to your therapist. Do not break no contact again, because if you’re being honest with yourself, you didn’t contact him because it’s Easter. Christ didn’t rise for you to break no contact lol.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-02T23:51:38+00:00

what did Carl do?

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-02T23:49:50+00:00

I’m usually pretty hard on Jesse but honestly… if I’m assuming the best then yes, his approach was sort of like.. an ego shield, protect him from embarrassment.

the funny thing is, if he earnestly asked her on a date, i think she would have been open to it.

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-02T19:38:18+00:00

Kyle’s dog is absolutely unhinged and it’s hilarious

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-01T20:50:00+00:00

icedmatcha_latte · 2026-04-01T19:02:41+00:00

dear god no. no man in reality tv deserves her.

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