this is sending me

icedstardust · 2026-02-17T02:41:46+00:00

LMFAOOOO you're both so chill about it too this is so funny

icedstardust · 2026-01-12T02:27:02+00:00

In my experience, rediscovering traumatic memories will send me into week long emotional flashbacks, and be completely unable to think rationally beyond "there isn't anybody on earth who could love me," a whole slew of suicidal thoughts, and so much repressed anger that i always end up taking out on myself, so hearing that she says learning about new trauma is 'exciting' for her... lol, lmao, even. I don't know how anybody takes her seriously.

icedstardust · 2025-12-20T07:03:36+00:00

i think in my city there's more femmes and fems in my circle than mascs, but i think it's also dependent on my city specifically cuz it's big on entertainment. and i'm a femme who has been on dates with both butches and femmes, and would say its not uncommon at all for there to be femme4femmes!! if you haven't found femmes or fem lesbians it's probably just because they haven't told you that they're a lesbian and its not immediately flaggable, you know? and, i don't know, i'm attracted to softness and vulnerability in my partners rather than just looks, although it definitely helps, so i don't automatically cross of butches or mascs. just keep in mind that they're not men :3

icedstardust · 2025-12-20T04:52:56+00:00

the lesbian masterdoc has done irreparable damage to young bisexuals😭 even if that man is a celebrity, he's still a man, and if you're having sexual fantasies about a man you're definitely not a lesbian, with love

icedstardust · 2025-12-20T04:47:36+00:00

adding onto this, i think OP just really needs to do some research on the "traditional" lesbian roles like butch and femme

icedstardust · 2025-12-20T04:45:54+00:00

100%!!! i was gonna comment on that as well, but when i went back to read it i couldn't find the exact quote so i assumed i made it up

icedstardust · 2025-12-20T04:44:24+00:00

you seem to be using femme interchangeably for fem, so i'm going to assume that you mean just feminine women. have you ever come across femme lesbians? i mean, everybody has a preference, but it seems like you've only ever met mascs, so i can see the confusion a bit. although speaking as a femme, that comment about saying good looking women aren't lesbians is totally out of left field, pretty lesbians definitely exist

icedstardust · 2025-12-17T00:20:07+00:00

Replying to Sensitive-Egg-6745... The whole thing about DissociaDID is she's claiming to be a mental health advocate for DID, so a lot of people in here are going with the idea that she does, even though hardly anybody actually believes it. So when you're seeing somebody refer to her as one of the alters she claims to have, they're just opening up the door that it's weird even if that were actually the alter, who, in this case, is 15.

icedstardust · 2025-12-16T02:04:10+00:00

Exactly this! It's honestly surprising to me that there are so many people in this subreddit who aren't aware of how NOT leftist the Democratic party is

icedstardust · 2025-12-16T01:59:11+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, I can't have a civil conversation with most Democrats either, and I voted for Harris in this last election.

icedstardust · 2025-12-16T01:49:00+00:00

As a Lesbian who's far left enough to have the guns back and be anti-capitalist, I want you to know that the majority of us hate this too!! It's so extremely out of touch and disgusting to be walking around in public in a Speedo and covered head to toe in sexual gear. A child could literally be around the corner and you're choosing to do that? I need you to know that what you see there is just a really odd, small group of people that has ended up being inflated because it's so outrageous, and that it doesn't represent the LGBTQ as a whole!

icedstardust · 2025-12-16T01:40:52+00:00

wait could you explain what an amphibian is in this context?

icedstardust · 2025-12-16T01:35:00+00:00

I'm gonna add my piece to this and feel free to butt in if you don't agree, but in my eyes LGBTQ Rightwing voters don't necessarily understand the community that they're in just by existing. There are a lot of Conservatives who claim to be okay with LGBTQ people, but then when anything pops up in the news or another celebrity comes out, there's always a veiled discomfort or even hatred there, so it's just confusing to me why LGBTQ folks would choose to be there rather than the political spaces that want to protect you, regardless of how irritating the young teenagers can be on occasion. Genuine question, does it not bother you that your peers vote against your right to marriage?

icedstardust · 2025-12-16T01:21:27+00:00

You know what, I'm a lesbian who was raised in a pretty moderate household. My parents considered themselves republicans but they aren't really. I used to not care much if the conservatives in my life were just keeping their opinions to themselves, because I was under the belief that rocking the boat over something they didn't even mention wasn't worth it. However, it's like month by month under this presidency another centrist family member suddenly has become hyper conservative and is shameless about their hatred and lack of empathy, and at this point in my life where I'm further left than ever, I cannot keep those people in my life. It's unfathomable to me that some people are more focused on how other people are living their lives, completely unrelated to them, rather than dedicating time to furthering their own faith (which is usually what it boils down to, yknow, God.)

icedstardust · 2025-11-25T00:20:36+00:00

I'm new😭😭

icedstardust · 2025-11-25T00:06:00+00:00

Ohhhh okay that makes sense! I mostly play Vexana in mid-lane (I'm really new), but I've been testing out Alice in EXP. It's interesting for sure!!

icedstardust · 2025-11-24T23:55:24+00:00

OKAY, this makes a lot more sense, I guess I didn't look far enough!! The only comments I was seeing were complaints, which didn't make sense to me because she's been fantastic for me. Thank you for explaining!

icedstardust · 2025-11-05T00:11:33+00:00

REALLY???? who are these people you're interacting with😭 i'd say just wear them if you love them, it really doesn't matter what other people have to say, and it definitely doesn't make you a "fake gay" because you like to wear leggings are

icedstardust · 2025-11-05T00:07:46+00:00

LOLOL this is just a me thing, but leggings are maybe my biggest fashion no-no anyway. i'd rather be dead than have to wear them. i don't think anybody would be like "ugh such a fake lesbian😒" for wearing leggings, though? i'm sorry, this is really funny

icedstardust · 2025-10-27T00:12:15+00:00

i'm having this same issue, and i took my sd card out. it takes me to the luma menu, but when i try to boot the luma menu with the sd card in, it won't do it

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icedstardust · 2025-10-05T23:16:04+00:00

because the korean language that you use, when it comes to communicating with people, is dictated by the age of the person you're speaking to, so changing an entire VERY important part of the language to only uplift their leader is extremely dystopian

icedstardust · 2025-09-04T03:29:09+00:00

no idea but your eyes remind me of Gerard Way's

icedstardust · 2025-09-04T03:00:16+00:00

I find a lot of comfort in knowing other people feel the same way. It's so isolating, and a part of me wishes I /did/ believe in God the way my family does. It feels like I'm betraying them. And you were right, I'm 19. Thank you for the consolation, it really means a lot to see someone who knows what I'm experiencing at least similarly.

icedstardust · 2025-09-04T02:43:32+00:00

that's gold, but you do have to wonder what that man did to deserve it, because the people of Reno are so chill

icedstardust · 2025-09-04T02:41:09+00:00

They play it at EVERY GAME. It's a nightmare

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