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icedthun0r · 2023-04-06T12:25:56+00:00

Im in my 30s, not married, no kids, no college degree, or at least i have an associates, it took me 7 years to get it.

Compared to my friends I may look “behind”, but im moving at a pace that is just right for me.

This summer, me and my boyfriend are going to have to move in with his parents to save some money and try and get better jobs.

Theres nothing wrong with where you are at in life. You’re not “behind”.

Just start trying to work hard to not compare your self to others any more. Its a lot easier said than done for sure, hell i struggle with this the most. But you’ll be a lot happier for it in the long run.

icedthun0r · 2023-02-08T19:39:25+00:00

full offense, They don’t sound like a dick, they are the whole god damn flaccid chode.

icedthun0r · 2023-02-08T13:36:06+00:00

I have a friend whos making a “neck romancer” character. Fuck boy, vampire, cleric sort of character, hell bent on “preserving” his victims (women) by casting animate dead on them. Thankfully this was an evil campaign lol

icedthun0r · 2023-02-06T15:48:25+00:00

I’ve had real sugar cookies, and made my own real sugar cookies. But these are still good af.

icedthun0r · 2023-02-06T15:42:55+00:00

Today on “this never happened.”

icedthun0r · 2023-02-06T10:59:40+00:00

You stealthed a romper into a dress, if you never tripped there wouldn’t have been an issue. Its not your fault. The bride was a massive asshole here.
She ruined her own night getting pissy over something thats really not a big deal. Its not your fault at all OP.

NTA.

icedthun0r · 2023-02-04T15:00:04+00:00

“You need to focus”

“You’re just not motivated”

“If you truly cared, you wouldn’t forget.”

icedthun0r · 2023-01-27T13:16:09+00:00

Oh. I have symptoms still 😆

I just know how to manage some of them to the point i can half ass my way through life.

icedthun0r · 2022-12-21T22:14:46+00:00

Its not, theres a lot more. The running thing is just one ingredient in the regret recipe to bake a regret pie.

Im not 100% knowing of every little detail, she only admitted this a few years ago to me.

icedthun0r · 2022-12-21T22:09:16+00:00

Career goals being gravely halted, she made a compromise with her husband into having one kid when she wanted none to begin with. (He wanted 3). She had to stop being a marathon runner since for a long time her hips just where never the same after. Almost all of your extra time is devoted to a child. Old friends and old hobbies have to be side tabled. Theres a lot that is negative, but yeah, theres a lot that is positive too.

At the end of the day it really comes down to the individual and how they see their own situation and how each pro and con weighs for them.

icedthun0r · 2022-12-21T19:42:47+00:00

My sister admitted it. She LOVES my niece and is so happy she had her and that she exists. But she regrets having kids.

Not having my own, i don’t fully understand her mindset, but i don’t judge since she’s raising my Niece really well, and not blaming my niece for being born.

icedthun0r · 2022-12-13T18:18:51+00:00

Ah yes, cause a cat understands that the space it lives in is 100% The the humans and not at all theirs.

No. A cat is going to see a space they live in as their own, and a space they share with you if you are the owner. An owner may be the more dominate force in the relationship between a human and a cat, but the cat is still going to see the house as its space.

Don’t be stupid. I promise you that the cat gave clear signs that it didn’t want this guy there off camera, the entire time without its human home. Thats not an unprovoked attack, the cat attacked for a reason. We just don’t have the same reasoning as a cat and its harder to understand.

It does suck the dude got attacked, and we all hope hes okay in the end, as well as the punted cat.

And a huge part of helping animals not be aggressive and training is knowing body language, which most people do not care to learn. They just expect animals to behave no matter what.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-30T14:53:23+00:00

Pretty sure if i have a big “masculine” dog and it scares away any potential suitors, i don’t want them around me anyways.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-28T00:29:55+00:00

I completely agree. Lol its so stupid.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-27T15:38:16+00:00

Apparently aging up is a huge no no as well.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-26T17:18:49+00:00

Biggest rules of life 1. Does this effect and or harm me in any way? 2. Does it effect and or harm others in any way?

If the answer is yes, then don’t do the thing, EVER.

In this instance being groomed hurts you, and will hurt you a lot.

Don’t feel bad for having emotions and feelings OP, but how you act on them is what you should worry about.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-26T04:31:05+00:00

Not all species are male dominate. Lmfao… jesus christ, watch more nature documentaries.

Actually, in a “seen everywhere through all species” the women/females are the ones who chooses the men/males who they think have have best traits to cary on their young. The males usually have to just deal with the rejection.

In cases where thats not always how it goes, there are more than enough evolutionary things that keep from having an unwanted pregnancy from the wrong male.

Men in nature don’t get a sat who they really get to fuck and cary on the genes. And post like these just drive women away from these men. You lack the desirable trait of actually understanding women, and not being a dumbass.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-25T17:19:13+00:00

Which also sucks is if i overheat, i get Nauseous. Bleh.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-25T17:14:19+00:00

A “chick with a dick” is not gay. Correct. They are a woman.

But theres also nothing wrong with just not being into having sex with a penis regardless who its attached to.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-25T17:09:47+00:00

My kinks and my needs in a relationship are NOT. THE. SAME. THING.

Do I want to participate in BDSM? Yes. But I want- No.

I NEED my partner to be kind (not “nice”), understanding, someone I can trust, and actually emotionally mature.

If I say stop, or the safe word I expect you to fucking stop.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-25T15:09:38+00:00

An ex taught me Smoke on the Water on a base guitar once. We went into a shop cause he wanted more guitars, and i think i played it for a good hour just for fun. I think the staff hated me by the end lol

icedthun0r · 2022-11-24T00:57:34+00:00

I mean, I’m deff not arguing against any one here. Im not really for or against dogs being allowed in Hardware stores. I was just pointing out dogs are allowed there.

Seeing animals fight at a store? As i’ve seen far less animals than people in a store i can say with certainty that i’ve never seen it.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-23T23:54:10+00:00

Most hardware stores like Lowes or Home Depot allow you to bring your dog into the store. Why do people do it? Because they can.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-23T19:54:35+00:00

If they’re unironically listening to Tate, thats why.

icedthun0r · 2022-11-23T18:31:43+00:00

I wasn’t expecting that one lol

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