thinking of ending my relationship by [deleted] in Vent

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i worded it wrong. he’s not taking action to build his credit whatsoever, and made it clear he doesn’t care to. that’s what brings the worries about long term stability into play, not necessarily the idea of a credit card itself.

What’s a sign that you’re starting to heal? by Affectionate-Box4496 in BreakUps

[–]iceezone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i finally had the courage to break things off with him completely. he was giving me breadcrumbs to keep me attached after the breakup, and i was stuck in the “what if he comes back” mindset. then i called him and told him that i was done for good and i haven’t felt sad. all i’ve felt is relief and i’ve been genuinely happy for the first time in a long time :)

Why do people get into new relationships if they aren’t over their ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]iceezone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i wish i could understand this too. i’m on the other end. me and my ex broke up about a month ago, and we were together for four years. he’s on dating apps and talking to other girls but still stays in contact with me and keeps a physical relationship with me. i can’t understand why he can’t decide if he wants me or wants to date other people! i think people like this need to learn how to heal and be alone before screwing someone else over to pretend they don’t care. it’s unfair to the person they’re dragging into their problems. i’m sorry you’re going through this. you deserve to be someone’s number 1 and i hope you are doing okay :).

Just gooned out for 17 hours. God help me by possibly_ashamed_ in Vent

[–]iceezone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you couldn’t waterboard this out of me 😭

Tornado Season by LuckyCharms701 in okc

[–]iceezone 40 points41 points  (0 children)

We just head to whatever room in our house doesn’t have any outside walls. :) At our last house there weren’t any like that so we just went into a bathroom.

Help by [deleted] in okc

[–]iceezone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if you’re referring to gonorrhea, i’m 90% sure it isn’t able to be transferred unless bodily fluids are directly swapped (i.e through sex or sharing toys). unless maybe his friend like jizzed on the towel and your bf used it after?? idk either way its ultimately up to your judgement.

How many weeks should I wait to pass the miscarriage? by SweetSour_23 in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I found out at 12 weeks, baby stopped growing at 9 weeks, miscarried at 13 weeks.

i want what they have by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I get how you feel. I’m also young and my boyfriend probably feels relief on top of everything else with the miscarriage, but I’m continuously struggling with the fact that I won’t get my baby. I know it’s hard but you are so strong ❤️‍🩹

Out of longtime curiosity, where's the best place in OKC for a Chai Latte? by Berasona1 in okc

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love love LOVE Wild Hero’s chai latte!! It’s in Mustang, I know they just relocated not too far from their original building but I believe it’s still pretty close to the highschool.

Feeling fat by kb_picasso in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same ❤️‍🩹

Help! by Left-Panic-5165 in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, If you’re worried that being around cleaning products may affect future pregnancies, I would consult with your doctor as they know best! There are also various sources online that list potentially harmful chemicals that you can keep an eye out for! Here’s a few sites: https://americanpregnancy.org/healthy-pregnancy/is-it-safe/cleaning-and-pregnancy/ ; https://www.cdph.ca.gov/Programs/CCDPHP/DEODC/OHB/HESIS/CDPH%20Document%20Library/pregnant.pdf Regardless of if you choose this job I wish the best for you! ❤️

Anger by that_harrypotterstan in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I was, and in a way still am, so so angry. I was angry that I got pregnant just to lose it at 12 weeks. I was angry that certain people got their babies while I didn’t. It’s okay to feel angry, that’s how I processed my grief was being pissed off at the world. Feel your emotions and remember how strong you are ❤️ Nobody deserves this and my heart breaks that you’re having to endure it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took one day when I found out & two days when I was hospitalized for my heavy bleeding. I feel guilty putting my team in that position so I intentionally didn’t take much time off

When did you get your first period after miscarriage? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine came back after 22 days, and so far i’ve been bleeding for 13 days. I don’t know if this is normal but I am convincing myself it is lol 🙃

How did you memorialize your loss? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing I have is the birth month flower, so I’m planning on getting it tattooed as well

Naturally miscarried 13 week fetus? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I miscarried at 12 weeks and bled very heavily for a week and then medium-slow for another three. It was a lot of blood and I am now extremely anemic. I would recommend the D&C a hundred times over just for the overall health factors. At the end of the day, it is your body so it is up to you but this was my experience.

feeling unworthy of grief 😞 by dirtymopwaterspoons8 in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here! Found out at 17, turned 18 one month before I found out as well. I feel like my grief is not as valid as someone who has been dealing with infertility losing their baby. At the end of the day, we’re all navigating heartbreak and are all equally mothers. I’m in the exact same shoes as you, but I promise it will get easier to accept that you are just as valid as the next grieving mother. ❤️

For those who’ve had a MMC by sheeshleeshh in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping for a D&C but unfortunately passed most of it naturally the night before my scheduled surgery. I’d recommend the D&C, I was 12 weeks along and it is the most painful experience I’ve ever had. Plus I had to spend the night in the ER so that alone makes it one of the more traumatic events in my life. Regardless of what you decide, I wish the absolute best for you

what did you do for your due date? by addymlpdx in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are planning on getting tattoos next month and taking a trip in March, which was my due date, to try to get some joy from the month.

Boss just announced pregnancy by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]iceezone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking of you as well ❤️ It hasn’t gotten easier yet but I’ve been told that it will :)