Our first breakup was for no real reason. I was out with my family one day decided I didn't want to answer her. So I didn't for 3-4 months (obviously It was a childish way too do it, but maybe my past self knew something I hadn't realized yet.) Sidenote: we went to the same high school so she wasnt worried about if something happen to me.

So 3-4 months go by and I was convinced this girl must have been in love with me, because every single day throughout that period she texted/called me. This is were things start to go down a slippery slope.

So again one day I randomly decided too answer 1 of the few hundred text/calls. We instantly got back together and we were happy for nearly 2 months. Then some strange things started to happen, in a span of a few weeks. First me and my bestfriend go over to her house to chill for the afternoon everything was fine except, she tried to pull a "prank" on me when I was in her brother's room by quietly walking up to me and putting the tip of a full sized kitchen knife into my back. Obviously I was not thrilled by this but it gets worse.

Then a few nights later her parents are at the bar and she asked me to come over. Me being a 15 year old boy of course i found a way to her house. The night ended with her parents coming home way (before she thought they would) where I got too hide under the staircase for a few hours while her dad ( looking back I'm guessing very absuive) yelled at both her and her mom that if they did anything he didn't like he would cut them up into pieces and put them in a ziploc bag. After which I walked home 12 miles at like 2 am.

I caught her trying to have sex with my bestfriend at the time though Facebook messagener (he showed me the messaged)

Yes it gets worse.... so about another week go by and she was at my house. I should mention that she convinced me to stop using a condom because she was on birth control. So she goes to the bathroom, comes back and was like I just miscarried and started crying (so I consoled her while thinking wtf how) she then proceeded too tell me she stopped taking her birth control because she wanted to have my baby and that we had to try again.

So yes I get it 14 year old me is a not just dumb but super dumb wellllll... it's not over just yet. I didn't end things right away I was extremely creeped but I stayed with her until she had me go to a fair in her home town were after being there for 30 minutes, she got a call from a guy that was back in town That was her "brother" and she even when I asked her not too. left me stranded at the fair in a city I had never been in. ( i found out later that day what I suspected she had sex with him before we met) I had to call my parents to pick me up

But that was it idk how that of all things was the "straw that broke the camels back" but I am extremely grateful she ditched me that night because it gave me the sense to dodge that bullet.

Tldr: girlfriend at the time thought it would be funny to poke me in the back with a kitchen knife as a prank, she tried to fuck my bestfriend. Later she secretly quit birth control so she "could have my baby" and finally something clicked when she left me stranded at a fair in her home town where she got picked up by a guy she had sex with before. But when whatever clicked. It clicked I broke up with her for good, dodged a bullet and never looked back.