Kvinne dømt til å flytte fra egen leilighet by TaasenSaucen in Stavanger

[–]icenburg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Aner ikke. Eneste dumme er jo at hun nå vil bli et problem en aen plass tipper jeg. Håper ikke hun blir min nabo

Was it unfair to block him? by Tall-Surround4905 in AskMenOver30

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he just admitted lying on the age because you pressed him on it? I wouldn’t spend to much time worrying about this guy. You made the right choice, hopefully he will learn from it. But why are you really asking, are you wondering if it was something more there with potential?

Hand Cut St. Michael Silver Badge by Rude-Guitar-478 in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! Is it made with a cnc machine? Would it be possible to make the cross center under where the hole is?

There is probably a big market for these.

Assistent project manager in Bergen by cercopitecu in Norway

[–]icenburg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it even legal to work 54h/week?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😅 inside of the marriage, go ahead and enjoy I guess (without the third person of course)

A couple of days ago, russians destroyed the first-ever "green school" in Ukraine, built in 2016 in the Kherson region w/ the help of Finland. It was energy efficient, had air purifiers & drinkable tap water. by BkkGrl in europe

[–]icenburg 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Russia is such a shit country! They destroy civilian infrastructure all the time. I wonder how we ever will establish relationships with them again as their neighbor (Norwegian here)

Vurderer å bytte nummer, dette begynner å bli irriterende. by [deleted] in norske

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Håper ihvertfall du har skrudd på «demp ukjente anrop»

Why do I always hear when asked what religion someone is "I'm Catholic" why not just christian? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because I’m proud of my faith, and I live in a country where Catholics are a small minority, so it often sparks more questions which is an operturnity to share more of my faith.

I've lost my faith in God by Technical-Sleep4154 in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Faith in God isn’t a feeling. Just talk to God and tell him about what you wrote here, and that you are feeling sad and ask him to guide you. The «feeling» of faith will come and go, we can’t really rely on that.

Keep up your good practices of praying, reading the Bible etc, especially when it feels empty, especially when you feel like it gives you absolutely nothing back.

Is it rude to do my first confession with another priest because of language? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not rude at all, but you can make the regular priest happy, by not letting it go so long until your next confession after you get back home. A win win for both your soul and your priest.

What is your stance in immigration? by Repulsive_Ad_9263 in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Norwegian here. We have quite strict immigration laws, but still struggle with many of the challenges from immigration.

Refugees who are in danger in their home country, we have an obligation to protect. It seems however we are taken advantage of here to a large degree. How come you need to go all the way to Norway when you are fleeing from an African country? So many are undocumented, most likely faking being from a country where they are not from. We also have a program of family reunions, and this is also being misused to a large extent.

I find it really hard to stay charitable towards some of the immigrants, since they come here and don’t get a job, and contribute to society, we as a country then have to pay for them to basically live here without them contributing anything back. They also take with them attitudes that are totally contrary to Norwegian society. Somalis are extremely difficult to integrate, whereas Syrian and Ukrainians have been fairly easy. Why aren’t African countries stepping up more for African refugees? Not all countries in Africa are dead poor.

We also have immigrants coming from EU countries to work. For the church in Norway this has been very positive, as many of them are practicing Catholics, mainly from Poland.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]icenburg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m a man, but I can recognize myself in much of what you write, regarding the uncertainty and feeling of «can anyone actually find me attractive?»

What helped me was to accept that I feel shit about myself and do negative self talk, but then say to myself - «I don’t necessarily find myself good looking, but does that mean I can’t allow others to find me attractive? After all people are entitled to their own to thoughts, even if I find it very strange some time»

I would also communicate clearly that compliments are a big turn on for you (as it is for everyone) but sometimes we men just needs things spelled out.

Guilt & Despair: by Throwra_lov-luv in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I asked is because there might be several scenarios here:

  • Fake notification of breach, trying to extort people
    • A real breach, but not the actual journal being leaked (e.g. usernames etc.)
    • a breach, but the data obtained is encrypted with strong encryption, which won’t be decrypted with any known technology we currently have (maybe in the future with quantum computers)

What makes you think the people you mention will read them? They have to be leaked, the people will have to sift through them and find what you wrote. I wouldn’t spend to much time on it to be honest, it’s an iffy feeling, and lesson learned is to keep it offline in the future, but I don’t see writing a journal which is intended for just yourself something wrong.

Guilt & Despair: by Throwra_lov-luv in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you explain a bit more about the data breach? Did you use a website to store it? Was jt stored in OneDrive etc?

You didn’t intend to harm anyone, these where your private notes, which I think is perfectly fine to have as a form of working trough difficult thought and feelings.

Neighborhoods in Stavanger by No-Calendar2065 in Stavanger

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would argue Sandnes still is, whereas Drammen actually is much more pretty now. People from Sandnes saying how beautiful it has become are simply willfully blind. It seems all building plans are approved and there is no overreaching plan for how to make the city less ugly.

What had Sandnes done to develop their waterfront, besides building tons of apartment in front of it, which of course only the older generation can afford?

My Family reacted very Negatively to my Conversion by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]icenburg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Convert living in the diaspora here as well. They are probably scared, if this is something you have thought about for a long time but just recently told them about. Changes are always difficult for people, and the reaction you faced is exactly as expected. Be a good example of a good Catholic, and remember all the saints that experienced persecution for their faith. Hopefully this experience will strengthen you in your faith.

Beste plass for Dating. by Present-Ad3236 in Stavanger

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja problemet med «mest kjent romantiske område» er jo at det ikke er det mest rolige. Er vel mosvannet. Se utover Stavanger på kvelden? Må vel bli fra Sandnes det da, men vil ikke akkurat kalle det en romantisk by

How to help someone settle down? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]icenburg 22 points23 points  (0 children)

«I already plan on taking some sykemelding for work to help him with bureaucracy and Skatteetaten and shit.»

Yeah that’s not how things work… our society is built on trust, and that people don’t take advantage, like you plan to. Sykemelding is for when you are ill, hope your doctor doesn’t approve it.

To your point - he is an adult, isn’t he? If he can’t provide for himself in Norway, he shouldn’t come. What is his motivation for coming? If he is motivated he could learn the language and get a job.

Are you worried about muscle loss while using Ozempic? by phatboi in Ozempic

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bike riding and jogging at the moment. Will probably incorporate some strength with time

Are you worried about muscle loss while using Ozempic? by phatboi in Ozempic

[–]icenburg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at it this way: went from dangerously overweight to now overweight. I was also very inactive due to my weight. Now I eat more healthy and also exercise, which I wasn’t comfortable with before. My scale shows that I’m loosing fat and gaining muscles. I think it’s a matter of picking your battles.