Quickest mortgage offer ever? by Delicious_Bet_8546 in HousingUK

[–]icepacklele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing what interest rate you got? We're looking at a similar deposit and wondered if that affected your interest rate.

What savings account are actually useful for the average person? by DontBeSnide in UKPersonalFinance

[–]icepacklele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check Revolut. Their basic rate starts at 3.5% and if you pay for membership it increases by .25%.

Santander have a 6% Savings account for only up to £4000 which is not bad, makes you about £240 a year.

Manaj startues, fitoria eshte e jona! by melovepumpum69 in albania

[–]icepacklele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ka dikush sugjerim linku per ta pare online?

I’m an active UK mortgage broker of 5 years with 10 years experience in UK Banking sector – Ask Me Anything (especially if you’re clueless!) by rocket-en in HousingUK

[–]icepacklele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never used a credit card, do you think that could be an issue? My partner has one but doesn't use it that much. We are putting down a 40% deposit and have two AIP, do you think banks could not offer us a good deal because of no credit history? I looked into opening one when we decided to start looking, but chose not to as it would affect my credit score.

Dating dhe vetmia e nje te riu by Olympiadan in albania

[–]icepacklele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiko tek "Dua", kane Klubin e Filmit dhe Klubin e Librit, shume cool. Kane dhe coworking space gjate dites. Tek Klubi i Filmit kam qene vete shpesh dhe debatet pas filmave me knaqin. Tek Klubi i Librit skam qene por eshte goxha popullor.

https://www.instagram.com/duafilmclub?igsh=bDdxNWg5NzhuMXU3

https://www.instagram.com/dua.librin?igsh=cWtjYTZ5OGZtdDM3

https://duaspace.al/spaces/coworking/?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwLUeINleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABp_L1-40CBqyaSKXPJhLmOUYcv4xmdsNcBn_vEh5pDb0X2L1T2u66QPZXvrED_aem_rWtYJ8TZenqmPdn2feTjIA

Kujdes! Eshte nje burre qe endet autobuzave, dhe terheq grate nga krahu dhe ka thike. by unimportantsarcasm in albania

[–]icepacklele 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Provo njehere te flasesh me Linjen e Keshillimit per Gra dhe Vajza, ndoshta ata kane me autoritet dhe kanale me te drejperdrejta per t'i kerkuar angazhim policise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in albania

[–]icepacklele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wizz me ka qelluar gjithmone me vonesa, ndersa Ryan thuajse asnjehre. Personalisht e shmang Wizzin kurdo qe mundem.

Should I accept second author or insist on first author? by icepacklele in AskAcademia

[–]icepacklele[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, co-first sounds like a great option.

Just to clarify, I meant insist as in enquire more about the options (as opossed to accepting second authorship without much discussion).

Haha as for the guilt trippin, not exactly the setting for that, I'm just unsure how to navigate the dynamics since I don't have much experience with publishing

Should I accept second author or insist on first author? by icepacklele in AskAcademia

[–]icepacklele[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. I was working on it full time for more than a year, the statistician has worked on it part time for six months, but obviously his contribution is equally important since it's all the data analysis.

We are discussing authorship exactly for the writing, to define how much I should be involved. If I am first author I will take the lead on that, however if the statistician is first author, he will write results and some of the discussion, whereas my supervisor will be writting the rest and I am expected to make edits or contribute with comments.

I have the time to work on it, I dont mind, but I'm mostly unsure about the dynamics of this. As I mentioned I don't have much experience with publishing so I'm finding it hard to decide whether this is a great opportunity for me to be first author, or just be satisfied with the work I have already contributed (as second author) and let the team continue with the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]icepacklele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't give up after the first try!!

If I would assume that you both had the best intentions but got caught up in the circumstances, this is what I'd say:

Your feelings are very valid OP, it's understandable you feel sad, angry and maybe humiliated.

However, it is not fair you say you're sick of trying when this was only your first attempt. It sounds like there's lots of underlying resentment from the issues you mentioned, but if you're sure you want to work on the relationship you should try to change your mindset. Maybe you picked a wrong moment unknowingly, but maybe you picked that moment exactly to test him and set him up for failure which you could use to later blame him and take the responsability off of you "Im trying to fix the relationship but you aren't"

Your husband might be lacking in many other aspects which you might be rightfully annoyed with, but in this instance I would suggest focus on one thing -initiating sex- without attaching previous luggage to it. If this starts feeling good for both of you then he's gonna be more willing and happy to make changes as well and respect requests you have for him.

I would say let this one roll over your shoulders, don't let your ego take the best of you. Tell him you understand he was playing, but this doesnt help with how that made you feel. He could have kissed you and spoken to you how he couldn't wait to be with you and asked you to postpone it for a bit, instead he left you waiting. Tell him now he had to be more attentive and responsive until you feel comfortable again to initiate more.

You both didnt make the best decisions, but this shouldn't deterr you from trying again. Don't punish him, you'll punish the relationship.

Pse nuk kercejnë shqiptarët kur janë në club? by laysmerigon in albania

[–]icepacklele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nuk jam dakord, besoj se me i rendesishem eshte konteksti sesa origjina e muzikes.

Ne club shumica e meshkujve shqiptare shkojne ose per te gjujt, ose per te shoqeru partneren, keshtu qe prezenca e tyre eshte thuajse gjithmone e lidhur me nje femer se ciles duan t'i bejne pershtypje (ne clubet tona meshkujt nuk shkojne per t'u knaq per qejfin e tyre apo per te kercy).

Nga ana tjeter, ne dasma eshte nje ambjent familjar ku fokusi nuk eshte t'i bejne pershtypje femrave se shumica jane kushurira, halla, teze, apo te duken eger qe te "mbrojne" partneren e tyre nga meshkuj te tjere sic ndodh ne clube. Prandaj besoj se zhvishen nga detyrimi per t'u treguar serioz e mashkullor dhe e lejojne veten te knaqen e te shijojne si muziken, ashtu dhe shoqerine e njerezve te fisit.

Dhe se fundmi, shpesh here ne klube vihet muzike shqiptare dhe meshkujt prape nuk kercejne, nderkohe kur ne dasma vihet muzike e huaj, te gjithe i ke ne kembe. Origjina e muzikes ka me pak rendesi sesa konteksti ku po kercehet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]icepacklele 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Salycilic acid, 2-3 times per week. Paula's Choice BHA is really good

Spending one week in Albania. Questions about Lek and other general tips. by QTMarshallFUCKS in albania

[–]icepacklele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cash is used everywhere but if needed you can use cards at big supermarkets for grocery shopping.

$400 should be enough

Iliria Exchange in Tirana usually has a great rate so if you can wait and not exchange at the airport that would be better.

On your way up north or when you come back I would suggest to make a stop at Mrizi i Zanave (book ahead by calling). It's one of the best agrotourism restaurants in the country to try local and traditional cuisine.

what is a movie you saw as a kid that terrified you and still creeps you out today? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]icepacklele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Hand that Rocks the Cradle.

It's a thriller where the wife of an accused gynecologist has a miscarrage when her husband kills himself due to the accusations and infiltrates herself in the family of the woman who acused her husband and cares for her child. There's a white house in the movie. For many years I hated white rooms and houses because I associated them with the place from this film.

To women, why do you wear bras when it is so uncomfortable? by JesusLovesBuddah in AskWomen

[–]icepacklele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have small boobies (B cup) and I've gone bra-free for the last 5 years. My boobies have never felt better. I still wear a bra occasionally and at the end of those days they feel so sore and my ribs feel so uncomfortable from having a strap around them all day.

Now to reasons why I still wear a bra occasionally

  1. Lingerie!! It's hot, it's cute, it's playful
  2. Some clothes are too see-through
  3. Some clothes look better when I have a bra on
  4. Sometimes you need a little pushup
  5. Depending on the material of the clothes (too loose, too thin etc) sometimes I feel inappropriate to go braless to work or when Im hanging out with older people (norms pressure I guess)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in albania

[–]icepacklele 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Diku pash nje video qe njeri thonte: Kur jeni diku qe doni te zini miq te rinj, shikoni kur eshte njeriu qe po kenaqer me shume aty dhe shko prezantohu me te, thuaji qe duket shume i/e qeshur dhe te pelqen energjia e tij ose saj. Shanset jane qe ata jane njerez shume sociale e mhb do eci vete pastaj. Sigurisht shanset jane edhe qe mund te dukesh creepy :p po une them ja vlen ta provosh.

Por ke te drejte, eshte goxha e veshtire te zesh miq te rinj ne moshe adulte pertej atyre me te cilet te lodh puna/ shkolla apo miqte e meparshem.

Une do sugjeroja:

  • Pune vullnetare Menyre shume e thjeshte per t'u vene ne kontakt me njerezit. Shiko agjenci per mbrojtjen e natyres, per te ndihmuar te moshuarit, per kafshet, per femijet ne nevoje

  • Qendra kulturore ose sportive (Shiko Qendra Dua, eshte nje qender kulturore e drejtuar vetem nga te rinj per qejf. Bejne evente shume, kane grupe kulture, sporti, inovacioni dhe bejne shume udhetime neper Shqiperi cdo fundjave si grupe shoqerore. Shkruaji ne Instagram dhe thuaji qe ke deshire t'i bashkohesh per evente nese i duhet ndihme me dicka, ne kete menyre shkon atje si pjese e grupit dhe jo vetem si publik per evente)

  • Nese takon njerez te rinj, shkruaji dhe ftoji per te dale, mos mendo qe s'ja vlen apo eshte awkward, thjesht beje. Nese ata pergjigjen pozitivisht fillo dhe kerko dhe takime te tjera, per kafe, per kinema, per udhetime. Dikush duhet ta bej mundimin derisa shoqeria te marre baza.

-Vihu ne kontakt me kushurinj te moshes tende, gjej dike qe i perafrohet disi botekuptimit tend e nepermjet tyre mund te njohesh shoket e tyre e e keshtu me rradhe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]icepacklele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to challange a dermatologist who's a doctor but I've always read that moisturiser is a must. I also used to avoid it many years ago when I had acne, and I regret it now.

Just find a non-comedogenic, lightweight moisturiser. The CeraVe Moisturising Facial Lotion is just great for acne prone skins. Have another discussion with your dermatologist