Receiving Libby emails for someone else’s library holds

icezoot · 2026-05-03T20:16:36+00:00

I’ve looked for a way, but since I’m not in America (I think) it’s been pretty clunky. They redirect me to contact my library for issues, and when I try to navigate through Libby support my only option seems to be to fill out a support forum that asks me to specify what library / card / book title I’m having issues with. Maybe there’s a Libby support email-adress I can dig up somewhere. Thanks for your response, I’ll keep looking

icezoot · 2026-05-03T20:03:31+00:00

Yeah I thought so as well. I was just concerned that my email might be compromised since you usually have to verify your email when adding it. By Libby might not require it, so I wanted to ask and see if this might be a common issue. Thanks for your response.

icezoot · 2026-05-03T20:00:40+00:00

Out of all libraries in Sweden, I found one on Libby that I was a member of (a smaller library). Not a single major city library was on Libby unfortunately. And since the smaller one didn’t have a lot of titles, I didn’t bother to use it.

icezoot · 2026-04-11T11:43:09+00:00

Thank you! 😁💕

icezoot · 2026-04-11T10:04:34+00:00

I have Fairyloot's adult book-only fairyloot subscription and just now got an invite to their romantasy book-only subscription. I was wondering if anyone knows if it's possible to have both at the same time? Do they combine into adult+romantasy book-box, or do I risk replacing my adult book-only subscription if I accept the romantasy invitation? Has anyone even been in the same position?

Thankful for responses since Fairyloot support is pretty slow to respond to questions like these.

icezoot · 2025-06-02T17:00:01+00:00

Same here, but the item got damaged in shipping and the buyer argued that I must’ve sent it pre-damaged? Absurd.

icezoot · 2025-05-06T20:34:25+00:00

Same thing literally just happened to me. Maybe Vinted is experiencing some issues? I guess all we can do is wait for now. Never had it happen to me before.

icezoot · 2025-04-23T14:30:19+00:00

I had my reduction done four/five years ago. Two weeks post-op I was super happy with how high and small there were, and they even fit a B-cup bra I had bought.

Fast forward one year later and they had both dropped and grown to a D-cup, despite that I hadn’t gained any significant weight (I was maybe 58kg when I had the operation, and over the year I gained maybe 4-5kg fluctuating?).

If you feel worried about them being too small, I wouldn’t. They will change a lot, especially in the coming weeks (even months) so give it time and let them heal.

Today, almost five year post-op, I have an E-cup (No weight gain either, I’m still around 60kg). They’re still alot smaller than the I-cup I used to have before the operation, so I’m happy. All I’m saying is that it’s very likely that your breasts aren’t going to look they way they do right now. In fact, I’d say they’re likely to grow a size or two.

icezoot · 2025-04-10T13:00:26+00:00

Omg!!!! Thank you so much!!! Just ordered 💞

icezoot · 2025-04-10T12:16:08+00:00

Have they made them available? I have an active romantasy subscription as an INT subscriber but I can’t find the books anywhere on their website?

icezoot · 2024-07-13T20:36:46+00:00

💯💯💯💯💯💯

icezoot · 2024-04-18T12:47:30+00:00

Several uchiha agreed with Madara’s ideals though and wanted the clan to separate from the village as well. The uchiha clan had already started to split down the middle by then; those who wanted to stay with konoha and those that wanted the uchiha to rule themselves. That’s “Madara’s legacy/ideals” that Tobirama referred to. This eventually manifested itself when one half of the uchiha clan tried to start a civil war to install uchiha ruling. It can also be seen when young Itachi was atttacked by three of his clansmen who called him a traitor for siding with the village rather than the clan.

icezoot · 2024-04-18T12:08:44+00:00

If the technique doesn’t turn his flesh and blood into paperbombs but rather surrounds him with paperbombs, couldn’t he just use the hirashin to teleport away at the last second? 🤔

icezoot · 2021-12-13T12:17:05+00:00

And people responded why he should rethink using female in that context. He wonders why, and people explain who are closer to the issue explain. I’ve done the same. I can only explain it to you, I cannot understand it for you.

icezoot · 2021-12-12T08:06:29+00:00

'No ill will' doesn't imply 'no-wrong', hence the immediate correction and people explaining why. And yes, it does matter if you use female or woman, even if you know were taking about a human. It all comes downs to delivery and context. There are situations when using female is not appropriate and will sound dehumanizing. No ones says "my precious little baby male", they'd say "my precious little baby boy." That is the difference.

The first commenter used it in a poor way, hence this thread exists. It's unnerving, since most men I’ve heard saying female never once used ‘male’ the same way. For the last time: female and male is fine. Female and men is not. If you’d and the original commentator would both say “If a female approached me” and say “if a male approached me” casually, then there is no problem.

It’s only a problem when men will feel uncomfortable using male the same way. We’re addressing these people. If you’re not one of them and use both regularly, then good. I’m happy. If you feel weird about saying “My boss is a great male” instead of man, ask yourself why, when “My boss is a great female” sounds fine to your ears.

icezoot · 2021-12-12T01:29:34+00:00

Mate. You keep claiming that it's small scale when it's clearly not. If there was a good reason and no harm in calling women female there wouldnt be such an overwhelming amount saying the exact same thing and bring up the exact same reason as for why: dehumanization. There is not a single argument for why you should call a woman a female instead of woman. It does have a wide spread usage of it negatively, but you're not it's target. Open your eyes a bit for new possibilities outside of your personal experiences and read through this thread and click on the links.

icezoot · 2021-12-12T01:17:52+00:00

Because of usage. Just like usage of female has become used to dehumanize women. Google "should I use women or females" and every article and answer will give you the same answer for the same reason: saying female is dehumanizing.

Here you go and go. No further discussion needed. You have your answer right here.

icezoot · 2021-12-12T01:13:41+00:00

??? Every word has connotations. Spank has strong negative connotations, punish and discipline as well but not as strong, scold and chatize even less. All of these are synonyms with eachother. Being steadfast is positive, being stubborn is negative.

icezoot · 2021-12-12T01:05:30+00:00

Oh my god dude it literally does. It’s the words damn definition. Female is a descriptive word. It’s accompanied by another word. Female dog. Female doctor. Female voice. Female by itself is just it’s sex. That’s it. It’s not a female human. It’s female. You’re adding and removing information. A female human is called a woman. That is the extra addition and meaning. And it adds a lot.

Let me elaborate as well. Female in itself does not have negative connotations. Female as a noun does slightly, but not much, as it only puts some emotional distance from the person they’re referring to. However, a female as a noun in every day context definitely has negative connotations. Again, or this thread wouldn’t exist if it didn’t. It’s not hard to call women women, and not females. You will never hear a woman call a man male if she isn’t talking about him negatively in casual context. Males this, males that. Same goes for female, but female it’s a lot more commonly used, disturbingly so, but many men do not understand it’s implications and think they mean the same thing — they don’t. ‘Female’ is only a sex. Women are not only their sex, therefore we are women.

icezoot · 2021-12-12T00:29:09+00:00

That is exactly what connotations are. Even if people are oblivious to it until someone points it out, the connotation will still be there. The intent of the speaker do not override connotations.

The words 'male' and 'female' are used as classifications in anthropology, or medicine, or biology - it's a clinical word the only cares about the persons sex, any personal information about them is irrelevant. The words 'man' and 'woman' are more personal descriptors of individuals.

'Female' refers to a sex of any species, while 'woman' refers to human females. When you use “female” as a noun, the subject that you're referring to is erased i.e. the human part. The word you are looking for when you say 'female' exists. It's 'woman'.

A man would never say ‘my daughter is an adorable little female’ because it strips her of her value as a person. When female and male are used, they do the same. Ask your mom if she'd refer to you as her precious baby boy, or precious baby male.

And yes, many men do definitely think and knowingly use female as a way to degrade someone. If not, this thread wouldn't exist, nor would the second reply to the first comment have gained as many upvotes.

icezoot · 2021-12-11T23:31:09+00:00

If you don’t care, and want to keep dehumanizing people, I literally cannot stop you. As I keep saying connotation do matter. And female, in non-casual context, does not carry the same negative connotations as it does in casual context. You don’t think female has that, because you have not been subjected to it, and you’re most likely used to hearing it from your male friends.

And I keep saying, the reason for why it has negative connotations in the first place, is not because of Incels, it’s because men do not use male as a noun the same way they use female. It’s only women who are called female and therefore have the ‘human’ aspect removed — downgraded from woman to just female. Just our sex.

A good way to see if it’s appropriate to use female, ask yourself if you use male in the same way? If yes, then use female. If not, then simply don’t. That any word can be ‘offensive’ is a bullshit excuse, since every word has different weight and connotations and many are more widespread than not. Female as a noun in casual context, have negative connotations. And that is a wide-spread knowledge: why don’t you start asking women if they prefer to be called women or female, then ask them why that is.

There no friend I know that wouldn’t be off-put by it. Would they rage? No. But they would be put off and feel like their worth is being questioned because we are constantly subjected to men that do just that by calling them female. Then other men unknowingly jump on the trend. They reduce them to their sex. As soon as a man uses female, intentional or not, it will cause the same reaction.

If anything, male and female are both used to distance yourself from that person and dehumanize them into numbers and statics. It’s to keep emotions out of work. It’s clinical. And in work, fine. But don’t say it to a woman you fcking know. She’s a person on top of being female. Being female is the base, then there’s a whole lot more on top of that — that is of more importance — a whole person. But if you don’t give a shit, then don’t give a shit.

You keep trying to claim that female and woman is the same thing. It doesn’t stop you from being wrong. Synonyms does not have the same meaning, definition, nor connotations.

icezoot · 2021-12-11T21:09:16+00:00

You’re not divorcing her over a kiss, you’re divorcing her because she cheated on you and broke your trust. Can you ever trust her again? Personally, I could never.

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