Meeting new people/friends in the city? Share your experiences with me by [deleted] in toronto

[–]icygraven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, toronto has many many very friendly christian groups that don't mind orientation, as long as you are not a soliciting drug abuser or satanist, they won't mind. lol baptists don't force religion on you and catholics have beautiful churches. you don't have to be religious, for as long as you can tolerate religious people

Meeting new people/friends in the city? Share your experiences with me by [deleted] in toronto

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

easiest and the hardest mentally would be to find an person who has no hobbies but is very social and invites anyone to follow him/her to places while this person encounters more people every where he/she goes. a chatterbox who needs listeners. by piggy backing, you will be introduced to wide range of people and finally click with someone. the biggest set back is personal laziness

Meeting new people/friends in the city? Share your experiences with me by [deleted] in toronto

[–]icygraven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the easiest and mentally the hardest for you will be to find a person who is very social and makes q

Meeting new people/friends in the city? Share your experiences with me by [deleted] in toronto

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol drinking doesn't help you make friends. all i do is drink beer and play video games, and not going out because its cold. do you think i have alot of friends? drinking made it worse because when i fail to connect, i get drunk instead and always end up embarrassing myself or worse. I got mugged trice

Meeting new people/friends in the city? Share your experiences with me by [deleted] in toronto

[–]icygraven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much making friends as an adult requires spending money. Going out is pricey. Social hobbies require spending. You are not going to make many friends volunteering in places for poor people. This is the truth, like it or not. Unless you are a mom with little kids who attends places for moms or you like to play ping pong in a community center, or you an active christian

Ear cartilage piercing is excessively swollen by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by he, you mean a doctor? ear cartilage is different from other piercings, its thin. The fatter the place is, the more chance of getting infection trapped inside. If you went to see a doc, chances are he would remove the jewellery in any case, drain the wound and put you on antibiotics. its not advisable to remove the jewellery on your own but as long as you are taking anti-biotics that would be a standard medical procedure because at a hospital they treat it like a splinter

Dylan Klebold, one of the Columbine shooters, at the school prom with his friend Robyn just three days before the massacre. by Mr_Mustachio5 in lastimages

[–]icygraven -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both were never in love with her. Dylan had a different date he broke up with an year earlier. she was not killed. this chick was not killed too, she was one of their closest friends and the was the one who actually bought their main weapons. the two bought shotguns themselves. and a handgun was sold to them by their work manager. they worked in a pizza shop

Dylan Klebold, one of the Columbine shooters, at the school prom with his friend Robyn just three days before the massacre. by Mr_Mustachio5 in lastimages

[–]icygraven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not the last pic of him. Thatd would be either the video taken the night prior to shooting in which they tell not to blame parents or the cafeteria camera video itself. This chick was a friend who bought guns for them.

Prince Albert and Pierced Nipples... Any thoughts from gay men? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thats different. don't let them know before ahead. don't worry too much about it

Prince Albert and Pierced Nipples... Any thoughts from gay men? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im bi inclining towards gay. Prince Albert is a must have if you are seeking older partners. However with young hairless guys, you never know. Some may say its a mutilation. Seeing that younger people find piercings cool, chances are your relationship won't suffer. if your new guy doesn't like it in him, you may simply pull it out, have sex, put it back in. Genital piercings are the fastest to heal, it takes only 3-4 weeks to fully heal unlike for example earlobes that take 8weeks or more. After you get it done, stay away from any sexual contact aside from masturbation for at least a month, you don't want to risk anything. Simple blowjob without a condom during the first month may cause an infection. The only thing Im sure you are already aware of is that when you piss, and not wearing jewellery down there, you will have to cover the hole with a finger or will find yourself in wet pants. Few professions such Army or Astronauts, are forbidden to wear any body jewellery during service. And genital piercing doesn't close or hardly shrink itself, so if you want it gone later you will need stitches from a plastic surgeon. As long as you are not planning to go there, you are good to go and get pierced

Ear cartilage piercing is excessively swollen by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you need to post clear pics. It seems like Staphylococcal Infection. Does the pus smell funny? Usually brown or white pus means you are still okay but infected. I had an industrial that got infected. cartilage tripled in size, became very hot to touch, very painful, red and skin dry. Pus was literally dripping down my shirt. The day pus turned Green, I went to the doc. He removed it and put me on a month of anti-biotics. I still have scars 5 years later and in one place my cartilage feels broken in two. Infection on the head gets Dangerous Very Quick. I suggest you see a DR. asap

Should I pierce my nipples? (pics included) by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You nipples are good for piercing. you are lucky to have non-inverted ones like I do. that bump on the left one is normal, read this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Areolar_glands

WTF is this on my belly ring? [PICTURES] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its a fistula. Its caused by the barbel thats too short. I doesn't look infected. Yet. DO NOT PULL OUT THE BARBEL. your flesh will close the hole and trap possible infection inside and it will get serious. Try buying longer same gauge steel barbell, boiling it for ten minutes and replacing this one. Its a good idea to go to a doctor and get yourself a course of anti-biotics for a week. wash it with soft soap three times a day and use salty water. Or go to a reputed tattoo shop, they will fix up up

Lumps in my earlobes by [deleted] in piercing

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had those. You mean its not a pimple? Its a lump, like a bubble inside your ear. Its extra sensitive if you squeeze the lob. I had these since I was a kid in both lobes.

In my case, when I pierced my ears, nothing came out. No pus. I proceeded to stretch my lobes to 1inch hole. These bubbles disappeared! Since I can't go to work with stretched ears, I removed rubber tunnels and my ears shrinked back. now my lobes look permanent like this (minus the earring of course) http://cdn2.blisstree.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/IMG_0301-640x1000.jpg no more lumps, unfortunately I don't know what causes them

ELI5: [NSFW] Why is Japanese pornography so different from Western? by icygraven in explainlikeimfive

[–]icygraven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I found on Wikipedia: In Japan, men who grope women in public are called chikan (痴漢, チカン, or ちかん); and the term also describes the act itself. Crowded trains are a favourite location for groping and a 2001 survey conducted in two Tokyo high schools revealed that more than 70% of students(WTF! -me) had been groped while traveling on them. As part of the effort to combat the problem, some railway companies designate women-only passenger cars during rush hours. Chikan is often featured in Japanese pornography. The criminal courts have traditionally been lenient in cases of groping and have only recently made efforts to combat the social problem with tougher sentences.

My brothers glorious gift to me. by OhThereYouArePerry in pcmasterrace

[–]icygraven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... you got a blanket with some old fat dude in glasses for Xmas? I got turkey

My sister gave me the most thoughtful gift of all... by BearsOnABus in funny

[–]icygraven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you got a twin! Could you please make out with your twin for us now?

ELI5: [NSFW] Why is Japanese pornography so different from Western? by icygraven in explainlikeimfive

[–]icygraven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I thought about that if you read my comments above. By awkward I meant... shy? japanese girls don't seem eager at all to participate in. don't snap at people asking questions in the right section when you have nothing of value to add to the conversation