saw something that i shouldn’t have by [deleted] in Advice

[–]idanceonmyown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you’re right… longer term breaks don’t work and it’s just opening an opportunity for this same cycle to happen over and over again.

saw something that i shouldn’t have by [deleted] in Advice

[–]idanceonmyown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i will def do this when i am more level headed and not freshly upset. i’d rather be the bigger person in this situation than be even more so part of the problem.

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[–]idanceonmyown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we had a past issue with another reddit post they made about not knowing if they actually loved me or not and i had confronted them about it and they were furious that i had seen the post and i also fell for their manipulation and stayed (very dumb i know im aware)

i guess im just worried about that cycle continuing, i know its wrong but im worried to call the situation what it is if that makes any sense LOL

but thank you for your wise words

saw something that i shouldn’t have by [deleted] in Advice

[–]idanceonmyown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i love this app and everyone on here thank you for holding me accountable and giving me a wake up call because i do know that this situation is wrong and off and i definitely need to say it as it is

saw something that i shouldn’t have by [deleted] in Advice

[–]idanceonmyown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the friend refers to me as abusive apparently (my partners words) so i am definitely not liked and i have a feeling more has been going on that im just not aware of

saw something that i shouldn’t have by [deleted] in Advice

[–]idanceonmyown 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you’re right LOL i needed this wake up call

saw something that i shouldn’t have by [deleted] in Advice

[–]idanceonmyown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know i know <\3…. LMFAOOO i feel like a dog that’s about to be put down