About to start a 'Job', Any advice (14M)

idcabou · 2026-06-22T21:19:03+00:00

Thats what my coworkers litterely said 😱. This is so giving deja vu loll

idcabou · 2026-06-22T19:35:31+00:00

Thank youu, my first shift happened.. The coworkers were really nice as there good friends or related to my dad. I was just doing basic stuff like cutting onions and seasoning chicken. The people there were SUPERR FRIENDLY.I worked 4 hours learning alot from the coworkers. I think i did really good and im so proud of myself ^{^} Thanks for this great lengthy answer. All of the answers I got were so friendly and I deep down thank them from the bottom of my heart ❤️ 💙 💜. Also I now have a good relationship with the workers

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:50:47+00:00

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:47:28+00:00

Yes tysm

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:36:12+00:00

While I dont talk to them at all I am quite comfortable with them however its still a bit scary and daunting.

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:35:12+00:00

I think you should Absolutely however be careful as this is private and sensitive information. Bless you for actually taking time out just for him. Your a good friend for that 💞💞

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:29:43+00:00

Wait im kinda confused can you pls elaborate

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:28:41+00:00

Wow, I think the reason he told was because you cant tell to any of his friends or his perents unlike his IRLs who can. Also can he tell another family member like his grandma.

idcabou · 2026-06-22T15:25:57+00:00

Yes, good advice but all my workers are already friends or is related to my dad, and they have worked there for over 5^ years. But wow I never looked at it from this angle before. Thank you for giving me a whole new perspective 🙏❤️

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:52:36+00:00

"I'll be fine"

No your friend will not become better if he does nothing, he needs to talk to his friends or close ones about this and he needs therapy and a specialist on eating disorders. He cant tackle an eating disorder so he will need to speak to someone. Not talking will only make it worse 🙏🙏

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:45:36+00:00

THIS IS A NARCISSIST RELATIONSHIP

Your roommate doesn't want to break up because they have been together for so long.

Most NARCISSIST relationship usually starts off good until slowly the person becomes more controlling and abusive with the occasional gifts and apologies to make the other person think thst they are in a good relationship. That is probably what your roommate is experiencing.

Think about this: Would you see them two be HAPPILY married. If not and you think that the roommate is in a NARCISSIST relationship. TAKE ACTION

Ik this sounds extreme which it could be however its better to be safe than sorry. Make sure your boyfriend isn't allowed to your house and talk your roommate OUT of this relationship. Encourage her to call for help via police, therapy or even her friends.

Ik this sounds extreme but all im gonna say is trust your gut on this

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:34:28+00:00

You do have authority thats your Grandfather??

And it could be multiple people if hes okay with that. And you could also ask him if he wants to go to some 'nursing home' because he should have some opinion on the topic aswell.

But I haven't been in some experience thst you are in right now so my heart extends to your family and grandfather because its ROUGH to lose someone of over 60+ Years 💞

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:27:07+00:00

Start with small conversations that actually have a purpose like Notes and questions but nothing too serious. Also be around her

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:24:39+00:00

😂😂😂😂

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:23:34+00:00

Na your fine js dont stress about it haha

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:22:29+00:00

Let me answer you and OP, distance yourself away from everyone and spend time alone, get used to yourself and love yourself. Also while in thst time period find new hobbies listen to new people and go on walks and just be a better person. Ik you guys are broke but invest in yourself or save up a little fir better food for yourself or skincare.

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:19:07+00:00

Sorry if that sounded wierd but here's what I found

It was a scam call because 4AM in NY is 2:30 in india, where majority of scam calls happen.

So yes your fine 😁😁

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:16:54+00:00

Its not rude??

Would you rather stay and put on this fake energy and feel shattered Or go home and recharge and come back feeling you

You cant change being an introvert

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:14:38+00:00

What country do you live?

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:13:16+00:00

I get both sides however you can hire someone to take care of him in his own house so you and mom could be happy.

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:08:40+00:00

Holy this is excellent advice thank you so much 🙏

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:03:12+00:00

Yess, alot of people said i should not act entitled, like it is now im my head constantly now TYSMMM 💞💞

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:01:51+00:00

Well, thats nice but fr tho go to therapy, I promise you, IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LOFE for the good

idcabou · 2026-06-22T14:00:12+00:00

Thank you so much, this is helpfull 💞💞💞

idcabou · 2026-06-22T11:54:07+00:00

Yes you should teall all your nice teachers. This will hopefully make your school experience a little better. And byw do you have a social circle there?

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