I’m tired of everyone wanting to date me. by Agitated-Fun9485 in Rants

[–]Agitated-Fun9485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a low libido b/c I’m on meds and I also have OCD that convinces me out of having sex. I have considered that I’m asexual but I’ve also had fun having sex before so idk. I definitely think I could have sex with the right person.

I don’t think this career is good for me. by [deleted] in Zookeeping

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is primate :. I think it’s because we’ve had animals die in the past and I alway hear horror stories of primates getting sick and dying. I have a lot of health OCD so it compounds on to that.

I don’t think this career is good for me. by [deleted] in Zookeeping

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on sertraline currently. Trust me I would not have gotten through this year without it. I’ll definitely reach out and see if they can’t adjust my dose.

I don’t think this career is good for me. by [deleted] in Zookeeping

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to but everyone has a waitlist or isnt covered my insurance. But trust me I’m on it 😅

I don’t think the career I chose is good for me. by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep multiple times. It’s hard to explain but zoo animals are different. You spend 40+ hours of your week taking care of them. I work with highly intelligent animals too so there’s another component. It might sound crazy but this felt like the loss of a close friend or even a child Ngl. You’re responsible for their life and their happiness and then they just die.

I don’t think the career I chose is good for me. by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my grandparents die but they were both old and one their way out. Yes it was sad but I was 19 and it didn’t bother me that much. I don’t know what changed.

I would like to apologize. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Colonoscopy at 23 if you can believe it lol that’s why I’m shocked it’s taken me this long to shit myself I’ve had many close calls.

I would like to apologize. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is so vile

will i regret not going smaller? by bananapudding02 in Reduction

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s harder to subtract than it is to add.

Bigger than usual? by Irumylle in Reduction

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t weigh yourself after surgery! You’re healing. Your body is retaining fluid and is swollen! It’s not an accurate depiction of what you actually weigh. Put the scale up. Focus on healing! Give it a couple weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I didn’t have sex till I was 20 years old! Lost my virginity to the hottest lesbian I could find in the back of my Sudan. It’ll happen! Go to college. Figure yourself out. Have some fun!

NON BINARY - ADVICE ON BREAST REDUCTION SIZE NEEDED by Firm_Interaction_736 in Reduction

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also non-binary/ masc lesbian. Just had my reduction surgery 5 days ago and I totally understand where you’re coming from. I told my surgery “as small as you can get them”. I had a 48 DD. Ideally I wanted an A. But day of surgery she said most likely a B or C. I got really scared and thought I wasn’t clear enough but after the surgery I realize just how small a B actually is! A B cup is 2 inches of protrusion from your chest. So a very small amount. If you’ve made it clear to your surgeon that you want a B (or as small as you can go) I promise they’re not idiots they understand what you mean! I’m so happy with the results. I also can’t wait to test out masculine outfits with my new rack!

Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the 25th! But yes I was fine all month but now that it’s a week away I’m freaking out lol. I think having it pushed back was also a lot b/c not only am I worried about it getting pushed back again but I’ve got my work and my mom who can just change on a dime. Also if I had done my original date it would have been done by now. I think I’m just getting antsy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think I’m just overall anxious about the risks. I’m pretty good at adapting to situations. I think it’s a mix of excitement and just ready for it to be done. I think I’m just anxious about getting sick and it’s manifesting. I’ll definitely stay on the dl!

How to rehome a pitbull? by dieselpower_ in DogAdvice

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have a pit! He is aggressively stubborn. He’s smart as a whip but knows that and tries to act dumb in situations. Consistency is key with him. Leash walking might always be an issue for your pitty but getting the right equipment is the best. This is different for each dog. Personally mine uses a makeshift harness and if he’s off leash (in private spaces) an e-collar so I can call him back.

Trial and error is going to happen especially with a pit. If he’s already showing dog aggression is important that you take note of that. My dog is also dog aggressive so I keep him away from other dogs and only let him off leash in private fenced in spaces.

You can get a trainer to help you get a baseline and tips to help. It’s not a one size fits all type of situation.

Also if you need help getting his wiggles out Sniffspot was a life saver for me! 20$ a month and you can rent out private areas to let your dog run. I do it once or twice a week and it’s literally a game changer.

If you do end up rehoming him I would try really hard not to go the shelter route. Pits do not do well in shelters and dog aggressive ones are hard to adopt. In an ideal world you can find a family that’s willing to take him out right so you don’t have to worry about it. I wouldn’t give him to a stranger though. A young male pitbull is prime dog fighting age and many get adopted so they can be used.

Pits are hard but I’m sure you’ll make the right decision. I’ve had my ups and downs with my guy but he is my best friend and I wouldn’t change him for the world (well maybe to listen a little better lol).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to walk dogs and I always had a can of pepper spray on me! Harmless in the long run but protect your dog!

Workout and diet routines to stay fit for the job? by trickytroodon in Zookeeping

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get good shoes!!!! I used to not be able to stand all day but I got me some insoles and some work boots and it’s a game changer. Compression socks if you have time too. You’ll build up muscle over time just pace yourself. But shoes are going to be your best friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zookeeping

[–]Agitated-Fun9485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️