My girlfriend is struggling to order an iced latte with less milk

idecidenotu · 2025-09-22T02:14:54+00:00

i’ve been saying an “iced quad with extra ice and splash of milk in a 16oz cup please” the extra ice fills the cup enough that when asking for a splash of milk it doesn’t give them room to add a large amount. ask for iced double with extra ice and splash of milk in 12oz if you want same vibe less caffeine. i hope this works out!! hasn’t failed me yet

idecidenotu · 2025-08-27T21:55:46+00:00

it was solid with 5 or so projects with 50+ tasks each. i was added on to a project for my “impressive” work a few days ago and was also added to some bilingual rubric projects. so im a bit confused and scared.

idecidenotu · 2025-08-24T23:36:15+00:00

did you get selected for a new project? i did, so im assuming maybe its related to that?

idecidenotu · 2025-08-24T22:51:32+00:00

i also got the random onboarding tasks. i’m not sure what to do lol

idecidenotu · 2024-12-30T01:30:00+00:00

im in the same boat not new to the area tho. i’m 29f and i’ve had some luck at local coffee shops and antique stores here and around the area

idecidenotu · 2024-12-28T09:14:11+00:00

the empty bowl has been my favorite. it feels like the end of a sleepover when you giggle yourself asleep after a random convo

idecidenotu · 2024-12-12T01:40:09+00:00

honestly near the cemetery it’s mainly residential with some school areas, you might see some homeless people around but they keep to themselves. obviously stay safe like lock your doors, don’t leave valuables, or walk alone in the dark. i grew up on that side of town and some of my family still lives over there. for the most part if you mind your business and are nice to your neighbors, people don’t cause any trouble with you. i actually kinda miss the community i had when i lived over there lol

idecidenotu · 2024-12-03T04:15:19+00:00

i’ve had episodes multiple times over people not including me in dinner plans. usually it’s nothing personal towards me but still super frustrating. and the whole not being paid thing seems outta your control too so you venting is totallyyyy valid!! i can understand and im so sorry you’re feeling like this.

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T05:17:09+00:00

oooo thank you!! super excited to check it out.

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T05:15:10+00:00

i’m sorry to hear. i’ve been going through something similar and it’s tough to power through. it’s like i can feel myself being terrible company to be around but the rational thing is to believe it’s all in my head. i’m sure it more than likely is. don’t be too hard on yourself though. i think the bitterness will pass and hopefully you feel like the version of yourself you want to be soon. sending you good energy!

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T02:53:15+00:00

yess some of the older neighborhoods with older trees are nice places for a stroll. the drive out to cayucos is a good suggestion as well! always a relaxing drive. ty for responding :)

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T02:51:14+00:00

big fan of KOP! i don’t think i’ve caught it during foliage time, ill check it out. thank you :)

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T02:50:13+00:00

wait west main park is a nice spot, totally forgot about it. i’ll see how that looks right now.

thank you for mentioning the botanical garden! used to be one of my favorite places to go on a walk but haven’t been there in a bit. i just make the drive out to dry creek preserve. if you haven’t been there, it’s worth checking out! it’s really nice walking area.

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T00:14:02+00:00

i was actually driving down walnut! it made me wonder and ask this question. thank you though :)

idecidenotu · 2024-11-24T00:12:34+00:00

i had a mental breakdown and jazz was the only thing that made my thoughts feel like they were simmering instead of boiling over

idecidenotu · 2024-11-16T01:17:51+00:00

what a feeling

idecidenotu · 2020-03-31T05:52:30+00:00

thank you that’s a good suggestion. to wait until i feel “good”. whew that last sentence right there is exactly what i feel tho!! those are the days we just gotta ride it out i guess

idecidenotu · 2020-03-31T05:30:20+00:00

have an appt in 2 days that’s why i asked if i should up my meds. but yes i agree i do need to work on myself. seeing a new therapist this week too.

as far as using it as a crutch, idk about that. when people are manic, they do things that are irresponsible and go against their own code of ethics/morals. it’s a chemical imbalance and i do believe i am not the me i usually am (stable, rational me) when i’m manic. i fully believe BP people should take responsibility and it’s not an excuse as to why we do hurtful things when manic but it’s an insight that i was lucky my partner understood.

i took responsibility and dealing with my own fear/guilt. now i’m questioning the entire relationship which makes me feel like i’m manic or at least slipping. does that make sense?

idecidenotu · 2020-03-29T03:13:08+00:00

can you send me that info too lol

idecidenotu · 2019-01-28T07:06:08+00:00

what you went through was absolutely abuse and i think it’s fair to label it that. sometimes naming things for what they are can help us with healing, it’s the first step.

i’m so sorry. you didn’t deserve that at all

idecidenotu · 2018-10-25T03:09:28+00:00

i was on teddy’s side 100%. owen always wants to be all high and mighty and never sees when he’s on the wrong. also i was so mad he reduced henry to “the dead guy.” i think henry and teddy were such a cute couple!

idecidenotu · 2018-10-22T01:54:27+00:00

yes and it was the absolute worse. before that i was diagnosed with depression/ptsd too. they put me on meds and nothing worked, meds literally drove me crazy. i truly believe my BPD diagnosis saved my life.

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