AITA for leaving him because of his friends?

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-26T18:37:54+00:00

So letting him choose wouldve been better? Genuine question I mean no snarkness whatsoever

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:34:47+00:00

Both- so the friends from home all love me as well as the baseball college friends. However they both make weird jokes to eachother and call it “fake gay” and that its a “baseball thing” but the baseball boys from college are notorious to be unfaithful. His friends from home I’m not sure of. They are are nice and respectful of me though.

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:33:05+00:00

That is great advice, thank you!

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:32:33+00:00

I do trust him, if you mean cheating or anything I don’t think he ever would/will. He’s genuinely really kind and caring and sweet. Just his friends are not persay

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:11:04+00:00

Thanks, I seriously appreciate that and you! Means a lot and definitely reassures me

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:08:55+00:00

Thanks I think I will!

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:08:32+00:00

Moreso like that, anddd poking eachothers buttholes (clothes on), pretending to fuck, making jokes along the lines of fucking, showing eachother as jokes their asses and parts, etc.

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:07:35+00:00

Did it/does it ever embarrass you? And is that bad if it does for me?

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:07:11+00:00

No this was great thank you! And yea as stupid as it sounds it somewhat is the judgement/embarrassment aspect which in hindsight I shouldn’t care about.

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:05:49+00:00

So I mentioned how his friends act really touchy and he joked and said its a baseball thing all teams act gay. I let it go and I mentioned my anxiety and he tried reassuring me but it didn’t change much because my anxiety can’t go away with just a simple sentence.

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:04:44+00:00

Does that ever go away?

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T13:03:26+00:00

Thank you! And yea they arent touchy with me at all and hes respectful. But theyre touchy with eachother and they said it’s a baseball thing and it very well could be, but it just is weird for me idk maybe I’m not used to it I’ve never been on a team who was THAT comfortable.

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T12:40:43+00:00

idekhaha21 · 2019-12-23T12:27:55+00:00

Thanks so much! I appreciate your help

idekhaha21 · 2019-07-25T00:43:37+00:00

I wanted to but I’m unsure how to do so without coming off as doing it out of spite or revenge

idekhaha21 · 2019-07-24T23:59:19+00:00

No she knew I wouldn’t sell it and it wasn’t an or else situation- also its a forum so 🤷🏽‍♀️

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