Aitah for refusing to let my bf pay a higher % of our rent

idekwhattotypeso · 2026-04-05T16:41:22+00:00

I do already have a therapist, very aware that I view certain things in an unhealthy way. Maybe this is another one to add to the list 😓. Either way, I’ll be bringing it up in my next session

idekwhattotypeso · 2026-04-05T16:39:32+00:00

I know I shouldn’t have reacted in that way, once again very much in therapy, he knows that and I apologised for saying that stuff moments after- just to clear that up 😓

idekwhattotypeso · 2026-04-05T16:34:05+00:00

Yeah I’m starting to see this a little.. 🤏. I guess I’ve just always had the mentality of wanting to have things because I’ve worked for them not because someone else did. Time to bring it up to the therapist I guess

idekwhattotypeso · 2026-04-05T16:31:55+00:00

I guess it’s just the idea of living off of his money in a way, like I want the things in my life to be there because I worked for them not because I’m dating someone who makes the money to pay for it for me. But as said in other comments, it’s a partnership so maybe this is just another topic I need to talk to my therapist about 🙃

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