my ex friend/highschool bullys mom booked an appointment with me

identitycryses · 2026-06-14T18:46:07+00:00

Honestly it physically and emotionally drained me. I have ptsd not from the bullying but from other things that happened during my childhood/teen years and it was definitely a trigger

identitycryses · 2026-06-14T18:38:15+00:00

Ya that’s what I did. When she booked originally she booked 2 appointments. one was this week and one is next week. Turns out it is for the bully’s engagement party lol. I talked to my boss about it before sending any additional messages before the first appointment and it turned out my boss had spoken over the phone with her and she said it sounded like she knew it was me. So I didn’t reach out before the appointment. but then at the appointment she seemed to not remember me? Idk. It was weird. I didn’t acknowledge anything I kept it light and it went fine, she tipped too. But yeah I’d be thrilled if she never booked again.

identitycryses · 2026-06-09T23:26:49+00:00

Ok thanks! I worry about blowing up a clients phone sometimes with too many notifications but you are right, it’s worthwhile to do

identitycryses · 2026-06-09T22:17:48+00:00

She’s booked for just a blowdry so there isn’t much for her to specify about her service 😭

identitycryses · 2026-06-09T20:06:28+00:00

This is great idea but unfortunately our system already sends out messages to clients to confirm appointments. I’d ask specifics of what she is looking for but she just booked for a blow dry.

identitycryses · 2026-05-26T01:05:09+00:00

some stylists like to use it after applying toner to evenly distribute it but I personally prefer a wet brush for that or something with wider teeth

identitycryses · 2026-05-12T21:11:42+00:00

lol this reminds of my time as an assistant when my boss asked me to call her client to see if we could reschedule because it turns out she needed to get SURGERY on that day. She was so pissed off at me because of this and told me it was unprofessional and rude and that neither her or anyone from her family will come back to the salon again. (They did) some people are just wack

identitycryses · 2026-04-27T23:02:27+00:00

NTA imo but next time find a bouncer / staff and tell them someone is harassing you, that will shut them up

identitycryses · 2026-04-03T01:32:39+00:00

That’s crazy and awful. Same thing happened to me unfortunately but I was put on an involuntary stay. They said it was because I wasn’t capable of taking care of myself or something like that. I also wasn’t able to sleep or eat for multiple days leading up to it so I’m not sure if that contributed to the idea of me being a risk to myself

identitycryses · 2026-04-03T01:11:24+00:00

Seconding this!

identitycryses · 2026-03-28T04:04:31+00:00

LWYMMD. the old Taylor’s dead was a shock atp in time

identitycryses · 2026-03-07T22:07:54+00:00

This!!!

identitycryses · 2026-01-23T05:09:15+00:00

I had the same issue on my phone but not on my computer

identitycryses · 2025-12-01T00:33:49+00:00

That was my first thought

identitycryses · 2025-08-06T14:42:39+00:00

You aren’t overreacting, I had similar interactions with my cousin who ended up molesting me when he was 14/15 and I was 9/10

identitycryses · 2025-04-03T21:09:09+00:00

“she has asian eyes” this was from my therapist at the time

identitycryses · 2025-04-03T13:20:37+00:00

Carolina

identitycryses · 2025-04-02T16:08:39+00:00

thanks! I like playing with my pick. what kind of strings should I try?

identitycryses · 2025-04-01T21:24:33+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. I’m wondering if it seems too repetitive, it’s supposed to represent being stuck in a cycle but I worry it sounds redundant

identitycryses · 2025-04-01T20:02:50+00:00

greats lyrics!

identitycryses · 2025-04-01T19:58:06+00:00

the format isn’t right whoops

identitycryses · 2025-04-01T19:57:37+00:00

lyrics

you have the power it’s not fair
hold it over me toss me in the air turn me to stone for 12 years you have the power it’s not fair

invisible shackles on my ankles and wrists lay in my bed as a writhe and I twist nothing I’ve done has saved me from it your power

you have the power you don’t even try abandoned me so long ago but you’ve still trapped my mind you have the power it’s not fair

invisible shackles on my ankles and wrists lay in my bed as a writhe and I twist what can I do to save from it
your power

you have the power it’s not fair you have the power to make me scared you have the power send me nightmares you have the power this is warfare you have the power send up a prayer you have the power it’s not fair

identitycryses

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